Gangbang Fantasy

[4ormoresomes]

We have had a fantasy for quite some time to engage in a gangbang (Michelle as "hostess", Eric to watch and participate) with 4-5 very well hung guys. Michelle has a further fantasy to be the white "filling" in an oreo cookie with 4-5 black guys with huge (9" or greater) cocks. We thought we might be a bit different in this desire, but the more we read other posts, we get the feeling that more ladies, and their guys, have similar fantasies.
While we have participated in several MFM and MFMFM situations, we have stayed clear of a gangbang involving Michelle with 4-5 guys, primarily since we tend to only swing with those we trust (avoid condoms as much as possible) and the thought that it could get out of hand and overwhelm the hostess, should things get really hot, as expected. Still, we both keep thinking it would be something neat to try and revisit every other month or so for the excitement.

Thoughts/comments/experiences from other Board faithful?

Thanks,
Eric and Michelle

[JustAskJulie]

This was my primary fantasy for a long time, until I fulfilled it.

Here's my advice. If you want it to happen, don't plan it, and if you do plan it, make sure it's you and not Michelle planning it. It's a hell of a lot of work, and the outcome (at least in my case) wasn't nearly all the effort.

In my case I planned the entire thing myself, finding the location (didn't want to do it at my house) and the guys, etc. The first time I tried to put one together it totally flopped (only 1 guy showed up). The second time around, it came out ok. 5 guys showed up. The thing that I found hard was that to me I felt like I had to try to please all of these guys, and that alone took away a lot of my pleasure.

So the conclusion that I came to was that I would never plan another one. If the opportunity arose to do several guys at once, I would probably take it but I wouldn't go out of my way for it. It has and I have, and in those cases I have tended to enjoy it much more. I think because it wasn't really expected by anyone everyone had less expectations and was happy with whatever happened.

[4ormoresomes]

Well, from the lack of response we got when we posted this topic, we must assume we were wrong and most ladies do NOT have a strong fantasy about "hosting" 4-5 guys in a gangbang.

As usual, Julie hit the proverbial nail on the head. While I (Michelle) have a strong urge to participate in a gangbang with 4-5 guys (including Eric, my husband) with enormous cocks, show off a bit, be the center of attention and show them what "I've got",I also must admit to having some fear of being overwhelmed and not being able to please all at the same time. In addition, I have shared on the board in the past that I participated in one situation where it was me and two guys. It got very hot, and the one guy was so turned on that, while I had deep throated all but about 2 of his nearly 11 inches and clearly couldn't take any more, he continued to push the issue until I damn near puked! All was forgiven and the evening ended on a good note, but get 4-5 guys involved and who knows?

Having said this, it's probably best to take Julie's advice, let it happen naturally (with some coaxing) and go from there. Julie - who knows, maybe it will happen at the meeting of MI swingers you are trying to organize!!!

Any other ideas, experiences, etc?

Michelle and Eric

[CanadianCouple]

Michelle --

Neither my wife nor I can speak from experience regarding larger groups, other than the usual foursomes. Only during one of those encounters was there any two on one action, and that was when I received dual attention from the two ladies, one being my wife of course.
I think most women, even those turned on by the thought of being in the center of several men at once, would be frightened to a degree at the possibility of actually carrying it off. There's always the danger of one or more getting carried away and out of control, so some safeguards should be in place -- ie at least having your husband present, or another male you trust.

And I agree with Julie that spontaneity is far better than something planned, but I'd say that applies to most sexual situations.

Dan

[Rob]

Michelle--
Coming from a single male who has participate in a few gang bangs,you dont have to feel like you have to please every guy at once for the entire time. in fact, the times Ive been in gang bangs, the guys want the girl to really enjoy having the men attend to her.
i dont fit into your category of well hung - Im about 6.5 inches - but I do know how that guys like me fully enjoy seeing the woman enjoying herself in gang bangs.
Good luck to you.

[4ormoresomes]

Please let me clarify - while I make no secret of the fact that I prefer the look and feel of guys with very large cocks, and my fantasy therefore includes 4 or more guys with 9-10" or more, I would certainly NOT require this in a gangbang, or any other swinging situation we have been involved in. My husband Eric is a GREAT lover and fantastic sex partner, and while above average at 8", is not huge. I like guys depending on their personalities, techniques, etc. So, while I prefer the big boys, smaller guys are always welcome!

Michelle

[CanadianCouple]

Originally posted by 4ormoresomes:
<STRONG>...smaller guys are always welcome!

Michelle</STRONG>

Whew!! That's a load off!!!

Dan

[Stratecpl]

Now, Dan.... you're not admitting to any "shortcomings" here, we hope... LOL We have been interested in a gang bang ourselves, and it may happen some time. But I will be right there, making sure everything goes smoothly. So far, though, only foursomes here also.

One problem I have figured out, though, and I hope some of you others will comment as well.... but the use of condoms, while absolutely necessary, are really a problem. They tend to rub the woman raw. They have a different characteristic about them, as opposed to real skin. Skin stays soft, smooth, and lubricated. Latex gets dry, bunches up sometimes, and many ladies are allergic to it. This might not be a problem whatever if you engage in regular one-on-one sex, but in a gang bang situation where there will be numerous guys, some of who will get in line several times (as I would), then we have a problem. Do you just keep on applying an outside lubricant, like KY, or are there other ideas??

Ron, Husband of Stratecpl

[ 03-03-2002: Message edited by: Stratecpl ]

[4ormoresomes]

Connie and Ron:

We hate condoms, but for the reasons that you state, only fool around with those we get to know and feel sure are disease free. Use old fashioned cum and saliva for our lubes - work like a charm and the more involved, the merrier!!!

Michelle and Eric

[JustAskJulie]

Originally posted by Stratecpl:
<STRONG>
One problem I have figured out, though, and I hope some of you others will comment as well.... but the use of condoms, while absolutely necessary, are really a problem
Ron, Husband of Stratecpl
</STRONG>

I can definately back up this assumption. That is one problem I ALWAYS run into whenever we have a major group sex/gb type thing (basically a situation where I'm having a lot more sex with condoms than normal). I usually end up at the very least raw/sore for a couple of days. But it's been worse. I've also found that such situations can even lead to yeast infections and/or bacterial vaginosis (or both!). Either of those on top of an already raw pussy is not fun.

The best thing I can say is use LOTS of lube, and change condoms often. If a guy has to pull out/take a break for a while make sure he starts over with a fresh condom, if a guy is having problems staying hard (which happens often as well), take the condom off to let him get hard again and start again with a fresh condom when he's ready. Those two things will help a lot.

[4ormoresomes]

Great advice, Julie. Another thing about condoms, especially when gangbangs involve well hung guys, is their propensity to break, serving no one any good.

[JustAskJulie]

I've never had a problem with that even with the bigger guys. Always make sure to have some of the Xtra Large ones on hand. Usually the larger guys know they are large and will bring their own, but always better safe than sorry.

[pelagic argosy]

My advice would be to just go to a club, find some guys you're attracted to and let them know what you want. As far as being out of control, isn't that part of the fantasy? It is for me.

Sometimes, I'll get guys hot and bothered, then tease them into holding me down and taking me. I love having guy after guy pumping hot come into me

[JnM]

From our experience, the gangbang is probably going to remain a fantasy. I'd love to see her in one, but she's real apprehensive about it. First off, she's very particular as far as guys go. She has the need to "like" the person, meaning we'd have to know the person thru a few social meetings before any serious fun. She likes the fantasy, but thinks it should remain just that. Now 2 guys with her she loves that and we've done that quite a bit, more than that would have to be a fantastic spontaneous opportunity!

[emma6969]

I have thought about it myself a bit. It might be like a party you dont really want to go to , but when you do you have the best time.