Ok all you have seen in some of the posts that Hubby and I became friends with our first couple. They had some problems and are now getting divorced. The female has all but ignored us. We have tried calling her numerous times, emailed, etc. She did email us back once months ago and said she was staying away from any friends at the moment so as not to confuse herself with her decision. Because when she did she would talk about it and feel that she wasnt doing the right thing. Which in a way is understandable. But no contact since then. Ok no biggie I guess
But here is where the problem lies. This past weekend guess who shows up on our front porch. The male of the couple. He has been trying to get in contact with us for quite awhile but his soon to be exwife wouldnt give him our phone number for some reason so he found us by driving through the park looking for our house. Anyway we had a nice visit and chatted caught up on old times (its been about 4 months since we all talked) well the conversation got around to he hasnt been with anyone for a few months and he really misses being with us. And if we ever wanted to hook up with him he was up for it.
Now, being that they are definatly getting a divorce and she pretty much doesnt want anything to do with us....what should we do?
Actually writing this out helped me a little. He is still married so that would really be cheating and we dont like that. But what about after the divorce? Is it bad "etiquette" to go with only half of the couple after a break up?