As you may have read from my earlier posts, we are getting pretty close to another couple as friends. And I'm (him) haveing trouble/concerns on seperating some things that he from other couple is doing during non swing times.

I've also found he kinda says one thing and dose another.
He has stated to me that he and his wife have/keep no secrets between them...but in a IM conversation he had with my wife, he tells my wife not to tell me such-n-such. Hmmm he wants us to have secrets??????????

Other thing that got me was that after he found out I was reading thru wifes IM's (with her knowledge) he precceded to inform wife I was invaiding her privicy..n he'd never do it to his wife. This of coarse got my wife to blow up at me n ask i not read her IM's (which i've stopped doing)... However, I've had a number of times I've chatted to his wife, n when he comes back on, he says he was reading our conversation to get caught up on things. Hmmmmmmm

I can't but he can????????????

I'm just waiting to catch him admiting again to reading conversation his wife n i had...then will confront him on double standereds!