How many women really like anal sex?

[Air&Patty]

We have transitioned from "no way" to going slowly with various other body parts to about 1 in 5 times is anal. Definitely go slow and use lots of lube - I guess alcohol doesn't hurt either! Not a necessity but definitely a turn on due to the taboo nature, I think.

-Air

[My77038]

hmmm anal sex....Well I don't like the pain.. I have to really relaxed. The first time I did it i was on a mood altEring drug and i was very relaxed and OPEN for anything. It was great too. Probably the best orgasm I have ever had. I remind you(my mood was altered). We try every so often while only drinking achohol so that im relaxed but he is not able to go as deep. The pain is awful even when he does it slow and gentle after awhile. He likes to call it practice. How do relax your mind and body with out having to take something other than alchohol to dot it. I really want to enjoy it but i can't.

[posquito7879]

Me and the Mrs. very occasionally experiment with anal play. She is seldom into it and I seldom suggest it (except jokingly) unless we've polished off a few bottles of good red wine. Then we'll be going at it and she'll look over her should and say, "While you're back there..." and she'll grab the Magic Wand while I very gently ease into her...and before long-- and usually, simultaneously-- she'll start to scream and I'll lose control. And it's amazing. And it happens about twice a year, if that.

[DBL D]

Just this afternoon, Fem D and I went at it. More of that jungle sex stuff! facelick Anal was involved and she had one of those "O's" that made her cry (in a good way) That's why I love it. It is very intense.

I hope you guys that have to drink a bit learn to do it while sober because it is the best that way.

Gawd, was she hot today!...

Male D

[Blue eyes]

We have anal sex but it's really more like vacation sex. My husband loves it and I want to have it for him but it's not the most comfortable. It does take time and when you can relax it is pleasurable. There has to be some attention to the front for the back to enjoy.

[DBL D]

We have anal sex but it's really more like vacation sex. My husband loves it and I want to have it for him but it's not the most comfortable. It does take time and when you can relax it is pleasurable. There has to be some attention to the front for the back to enjoy.

Interesting...there have been times when during our foreplay the decision is to go straight for anal. Of course, we know there'll be another opportunity soon for the whole gamut of fun. She used to be uncomfortable with it and would ask why I wanted it "every time we have sex!?" but that is in the past. She is a confirmed convert!!!

Practice and Desire are two things that are hard to beat.

[montresor]

Ms P likes it but says I'm too big; smaller guys put that certain twinkle in her eye, however.... Ms F has no problems with most sizes as long as you take it slow; have watched her take half of a 9x6'er that way but it took time and was just a short interlude.

[Cpl2share]

Mrs. Likes it sometimes, but not with Mr Cpl. (OUCH) Especially as DP. But: Until we find a couple with a smaller package, nobody gets in this outdoor again.

[ohash01]

I've tried it in a past relationship...he just refused to do "that time of the month" sex and I always felt bad that he wasn't getting any...I didn't dislike it...I didn't love it. It was sexual contact so I equated that with fun.

Now, HERE'S a funny story...

J. and I went to a wedding in our hometown about 2 years ago, so we stayed at his family's house since they were gone anyway...I had FAAARRR too much to drink. I normally can feel when it's time for me to stop, but apparently I had turned off all my senses that night. We get home, we start getting busy, J. goes "Hey - I'd really like to try anal". Drunk Ashleigh says "YAY!! What a GREAT idea!!". Well - just about as he slides it in, I get HIGHLY nauseous (from the alcohol - not from him), I shove him off me, he comes out with a resounding "POP!", and I dash to the bathroom where I remain for the next hour or so. He is now freaked out that anal sex makes me barf and probably won't EVER bring that up again. Haha.

[justdoit222000]

He is now freaked out that anal sex makes me barf and probably won't EVER bring that up again. Haha.

Thanks for that tip!!!! I had a couple of bad experiences with it, but with D's patience and gentle nature it is getting much better. So I guess at this time, Im closer to taking it, than leaving it!

[clutch]

In our case, it's always been better in fantasy or in porn than it has been for us or any of the other couples we've swung with.

With our current swing couple, we decided to try it with a very slender, well-lubed dildo (because it just wasn't going to happen any other way without some dildo success first.)

Instead of being a sensual, raw delight (like in the porn movies) for some reason the dildo had more of a suppository effect.

Bottom line, both ladies ended up running, butt cheeks squeezed together for all they were worth, to the bathroom with all of us giggling our asses off.

(Not the best mood for sex, but a very fun time, nonetheless.)