One off meetings is all we are interested in.
I don't understand this business of wanting to care about people and get entrenched in their lives just because you want recreational sex with them.
Sure if you enjoyed the sex and wanted another go, fair play. But I really don't get a lot of the posters who are against the one -off meetings on emotional grounds, unless you are poly. Afterall, it's just sex!
Frankly, I would be turned off by a couple or single wanting to be part of my life. That's what my friends and family are for. To us swinging is about pleasure not emotional attachement.