I doubt you'll find that definition in Websters, but I appreciate the complimentOriginally Posted by shadyvirgin
Yes - that is the gist of what I was saying... Simplified, somewhat, but accurate.Originally Posted by shadyvirgin
You are different in the way that you have chosen to go about it. VERY different. It has been said a hundred times around here, but it bears repeating - cheaters aren't swingers; swingers aren't cheaters.Originally Posted by shadyvirgin
You received some great advice in the beginning - and you found out pretty concretely that your wife wasn't interested. Most of the men on this board would have dropped it with that. Sure - they might have continued to talk about the idea here and there - but cheating would not have been an interest or an option.
Even if you are a troll, these types of threads are good for the lifestyle. They allow real couples that are in the lifestyle to voice the one constant - swinging is something that a couple does together. If more husbands were honorable in their intent, more wives would likely be comfortable with the concept.