For the wives: What finally made you decide to swing? - Page 2

djjwp · 05-08-2007, 10:02 PM

Get her to Hedo II in January. When in Rome... May help, has for me.

lovinher · 05-08-2007, 10:34 PM

I'm glad I'm not the only one who misses the date.
Even still, Tybe Swing that was a great post.

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The most important thing was reassurance that no matter what happened, no matter how we felt about it after the deed was done (you never know the outcome until you try), we wouldn't hold a grudge over each other. If we were offended in some way, we would be completely forgiving. If need be, we'd leave swinging behind us if the attempt was disastrous, and happily move forward the way we had been before. If it was disastrous for only one of us, the other would completely respect the wishes of the other to stop and not go back. No whining or nagging allowed. No regrets. Our relationship would be #1, no matter what. If it wasn't good for one of us, it wasn't good for either of us. This gave us the assurance needed to give it a shot.

I think coming to this understanding is key. It is for us.

pervgeeks · 05-11-2007, 10:32 AM

For us, it's was the wife's idea.

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05-08-2007, 10:02 PM	#16 (permalink)
djjwp Suffering from Hedo2 DIF Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 388 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:djjwp	Re: For the wives: What finally made you decide to swing? Get her to Hedo II in January. When in Rome... May help, has for me.
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05-11-2007, 10:32 AM	#18 (permalink)
pervgeeks Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 150 Location: Connecticut Status: Couple	Re: For the wives: What finally made you decide to swing? For us, it's was the wife's idea.

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