Tell me why do some men love cream pies?

CindyB · 07-14-2001, 12:52 PM

Now here is a question. Why does a guy get so excited being inside of his wife after another guy has just come in her? I don't get it. After we play with my husbands brother and he has come inside of my pussy my husband is very anxious to enter me. When he does he seldom lasts more than a minute or so. As I stated before, I am on the pill, my brother-in-law is very disease free, and so we do not use condoms. And it seems to me that my husband is very turned on by being inside of me when I am full of sperm. Hubby admits it but doesn't know how to explain why it is true. No big deal... just curious.

CanadianCouple · 07-14-2001, 01:53 PM

Cindy --

We use condoms while playing with others, so other men won't be coming inside my wife. But I might be able to shed some light on the mindset of us husbands.

To explain it simply, we're very proud of the sexuality our wives/girlfriends have. Some want to covet that for themselves, but others like myself want to share it with people we feel comfortable enough with to do so. I suppose you could assume there is a particular fetish involved with a man getting so excited watching his woman with others, but then again, that door swings both ways. My wife is particularly excited to have sex with me following a group session. One foursome last year on a Saturday night resulted in the two of us having sex three times ( each to completion) the following day. THAT was one Sunday that wasn't a day of rest, let me tell you.

You have shared the most important person in your life with another person, and if you both feel 100% secure in your relationship, there's no worry about possible consequences. Guilt-free sex together with others, and you get to re-live it with each other whenever you wish.

Dan

07-15-2001, 08:06 PM

Dan is correct, but there are many other reasons also. For me, the wetter a woman gets, the better I like it. When I'm stroking back and forth, The feel of being fully engulfed in her cum (and I'm sure his too on occasion) just makes me WANT to have an orgasm and add to it. And when I slide in and she is so wet it just drives me right up to the edge.

A tip, Drink plenty of water before sex. You burn through a lot between sweat and orgasms. Ever dry out? Not fun. Keep some water handy and just sip as you move around into different positions. It helps keep you refreshed too, so you can enjoy yourself more fully.

CyberHusband

CindyB · 07-16-2001, 01:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CyberMWCouple:
. When I'm stroking back and forth, The feel of being fully engulfed in her cum (and I'm sure his too on occasion) just makes me WANT to have an orgasm and add to it. And when I slide in and she is so wet it just drives me right up to the edge.

CyberHusband

So you and your wife do not use condoms with other couples that you know well? Does it affect your pleasure more if her play partner does not use one? I am the lucky girl that got to take not only my husband's virginity but his brother's as well. He is 21 and had never had sex until our first 3some. So while I don't worry about disease at all the pregnancy thing is still in the back of my mind. But if it adds that much pleasure for my husband to have the come already inside of me when it is his turn then I want to keep doing it that way.

07-16-2001, 05:37 PM

No, we do not always use a condom.
We are tested and ask that any playmates we have are tested also.

As for how much pleasure it gives your husband, then you will just have to ask him. But even with condoms, a woman that is dry is NO fun at all.

CyberHusband

[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 07-16-2001).]

CindyB · 07-16-2001, 10:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CyberMWCouple:
[B
As for how much pleasure it gives your husband, then you will just have to ask him. But even with condoms, a woman that is dry is NO fun at all.

CyberHusband

[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 07-16-2001).][/b]

Thank you, kind sir. I appreciate the advice. I am sure veterans get tired of questions from beginners.

07-17-2001, 10:28 AM

It's not that we get tired of answering questions. That is the reason for this board in the first place. What we like to see is for BOTH partners of a couple read this entire board TOGETHER. Many of the questions that are asked by newbies have already been answered. Reading the whole board will answer a great deal of your questions before you even think to ask them. And reading it TOGETHER will open the lines of communication between you and your husband which is a very good thing.

CyberHusband

CindyB · 07-17-2001, 03:49 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CyberMWCouple:
It's not that we get tired of answering questions. That is the reason for this board in the first place. What we like to see is for BOTH partners of a couple read this entire board TOGETHER

CyberHusband

My husband is a wonderful man and my best friend. We are soul mates. But he has little interest in the internet. I came across this site when I was considering the offer by "my two guys" to have our first 3some. I realized that it is a safe place to find answers to my doubts and fears. After saying "yes" to them we had the most intense sexual experience I could ever imagine. I've been thinking about writing it out for the stories site. But my point is that I have really appreciated you all helping to walk me through this. You have been so helpful. Unfortunately, I don't think my husband will be joining me on the swingers board but I promise to try to read past posts to answer my questions rather than to be repetitive. I'll "shhhhhhh" unless I get desperate.

07-17-2001, 04:11 PM

Cindy,

No problem, I understand. I still think that you both should read together though. Something my wife and I push a great deal is sharing and communicating together. I personally know men that do not care in the least about the net, but they still take the time to share it with their wives. Doing more together makes you that much closer.

Sex is a major part of your marriage, and you both should be as well informed as you can be. It's really in your best interest.

Anyway, enough preaching. Have fun!
CyberHusband

[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 09-20-2001).]

CindyB · 09-18-2001, 08:12 AM

Dear CindyB,

This is your husband writing. I followed your request and read this particular thread of the Swingers Board. Sorry it took me so long to get around to it. I guess I'm not a computer junkie. But I'll try to do better. Anyway, let me try to answer your question!

First, I love you more than anything in the world. You need to know that. That will never change.

Second, sharing you in bed was, and is, incredibly exciting to me! I enjoy seeing the pleasure you get from recieving attention from both of us. I know that you are safe with us because we chose somebody to join us that we obviously know well, my best friend and brother.

And finally, I have to tell you that when I make love to you after he does, and I feel his come inside of you, it drives me crazy! In a nice way, of course. Why? Not totally sure! I suppose it is partially the "forbidden fruit" syndrome. I watched as you took his virginity just like you took mine and I knew you were loving it. He didn't seem to be in pain either! But I never want to share your "love" with another man. And when I am making love with you, either alone or with our "guest" I know... I absolutely KNOW... that I am the man you love and want to spend your life with.

Thank you, Cindy, for giving me my fantasy. I know you are enjoying it as much as I am.

I love you,
Your husband

Jalyn · 09-20-2001, 01:28 PM

Thank you, Cindy, for giving me my fantasy. I know you are enjoying it as much as I am.

I love you,
Your husband[/b][/quote]

Cindy, I read your letters and your husbands reply and it prompted me to register and send a note myself. It sounds to me like you have yourself quite a man there! Congratulations! We should all be so lucky. My husband and I have a small intimate group of friends that we occasionally swap with. But it took us forever to get to that point. Anyway, just wanted to say thank you for sharing your questions because it gave us a good look into a marriage that is enjoying the best of both worlds. Party on!

CindyB · 09-22-2001, 03:21 PM

QUOTE]

<<Cindy, I read your letters and your husbands reply and it prompted me to register and send a note myself. It sounds to me like you have yourself quite a man there! Congratulations>>

I feel that way, yes. I'm keeping him under lock and key! We've really enjoyed the "lifestyle" over the past few months even though we've limited ourselves to just the one guy. Still... 1+1=2. So I've doubled my pleasure!

[This message has been edited by CindyB (edited 09-22-2001).]

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07-14-2001, 12:52 PM	#1 (permalink)
CindyB Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 65 Location: Tinley Park, Il. Status: couple	Tell me why do some men love cream pies? Now here is a question. Why does a guy get so excited being inside of his wife after another guy has just come in her? I don't get it. After we play with my husbands brother and he has come inside of my pussy my husband is very anxious to enter me. When he does he seldom lasts more than a minute or so. As I stated before, I am on the pill, my brother-in-law is very disease free, and so we do not use condoms. And it seems to me that my husband is very turned on by being inside of me when I am full of sperm. Hubby admits it but doesn't know how to explain why it is true. No big deal... just curious.

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07-14-2001, 01:53 PM	#2 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	Cindy -- We use condoms while playing with others, so other men won't be coming inside my wife. But I might be able to shed some light on the mindset of us husbands. To explain it simply, we're very proud of the sexuality our wives/girlfriends have. Some want to covet that for themselves, but others like myself want to share it with people we feel comfortable enough with to do so. I suppose you could assume there is a particular fetish involved with a man getting so excited watching his woman with others, but then again, that door swings both ways. My wife is particularly excited to have sex with me following a group session. One foursome last year on a Saturday night resulted in the two of us having sex three times ( each to completion) the following day. THAT was one Sunday that wasn't a day of rest, let me tell you. You have shared the most important person in your life with another person, and if you both feel 100% secure in your relationship, there's no worry about possible consequences. Guilt-free sex together with others, and you get to re-live it with each other whenever you wish. Dan

07-15-2001, 08:06 PM	#3 (permalink)
CyberMWCouple Posts: n/a	Dan is correct, but there are many other reasons also. For me, the wetter a woman gets, the better I like it. When I'm stroking back and forth, The feel of being fully engulfed in her cum (and I'm sure his too on occasion) just makes me WANT to have an orgasm and add to it. And when I slide in and she is so wet it just drives me right up to the edge. A tip, Drink plenty of water before sex. You burn through a lot between sweat and orgasms. Ever dry out? Not fun. Keep some water handy and just sip as you move around into different positions. It helps keep you refreshed too, so you can enjoy yourself more fully. CyberHusband

07-16-2001, 05:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
CyberMWCouple Posts: n/a	No, we do not always use a condom. We are tested and ask that any playmates we have are tested also. As for how much pleasure it gives your husband, then you will just have to ask him. But even with condoms, a woman that is dry is NO fun at all. CyberHusband [This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 07-16-2001).]

07-17-2001, 10:28 AM	#7 (permalink)
CyberMWCouple Posts: n/a	It's not that we get tired of answering questions. That is the reason for this board in the first place. What we like to see is for BOTH partners of a couple read this entire board TOGETHER. Many of the questions that are asked by newbies have already been answered. Reading the whole board will answer a great deal of your questions before you even think to ask them. And reading it TOGETHER will open the lines of communication between you and your husband which is a very good thing. CyberHusband

07-17-2001, 04:11 PM	#9 (permalink)
CyberMWCouple Posts: n/a	Cindy, No problem, I understand. I still think that you both should read together though. Something my wife and I push a great deal is sharing and communicating together. I personally know men that do not care in the least about the net, but they still take the time to share it with their wives. Doing more together makes you that much closer. Sex is a major part of your marriage, and you both should be as well informed as you can be. It's really in your best interest. Anyway, enough preaching. Have fun! CyberHusband [This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 09-20-2001).]

09-18-2001, 08:12 AM	#10 (permalink)
CindyB Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 65 Location: Tinley Park, Il. Status: couple	Dear CindyB, This is your husband writing. I followed your request and read this particular thread of the Swingers Board. Sorry it took me so long to get around to it. I guess I'm not a computer junkie. But I'll try to do better. Anyway, let me try to answer your question! First, I love you more than anything in the world. You need to know that. That will never change. Second, sharing you in bed was, and is, incredibly exciting to me! I enjoy seeing the pleasure you get from recieving attention from both of us. I know that you are safe with us because we chose somebody to join us that we obviously know well, my best friend and brother. And finally, I have to tell you that when I make love to you after he does, and I feel his come inside of you, it drives me crazy! In a nice way, of course. Why? Not totally sure! I suppose it is partially the "forbidden fruit" syndrome. I watched as you took his virginity just like you took mine and I knew you were loving it. He didn't seem to be in pain either! But I never want to share your "love" with another man. And when I am making love with you, either alone or with our "guest" I know... I absolutely KNOW... that I am the man you love and want to spend your life with. Thank you, Cindy, for giving me my fantasy. I know you are enjoying it as much as I am. I love you, Your husband

09-20-2001, 01:28 PM	#11 (permalink)
Jalyn Registered User Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1	Thank you, Cindy, for giving me my fantasy. I know you are enjoying it as much as I am. I love you, Your husband[/b][/quote] Cindy, I read your letters and your husbands reply and it prompted me to register and send a note myself. It sounds to me like you have yourself quite a man there! Congratulations! We should all be so lucky. My husband and I have a small intimate group of friends that we occasionally swap with. But it took us forever to get to that point. Anyway, just wanted to say thank you for sharing your questions because it gave us a good look into a marriage that is enjoying the best of both worlds. Party on!

09-22-2001, 03:21 PM	#12 (permalink)
CindyB Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 65 Location: Tinley Park, Il. Status: couple	QUOTE] <<Cindy, I read your letters and your husbands reply and it prompted me to register and send a note myself. It sounds to me like you have yourself quite a man there! Congratulations>> I feel that way, yes. I'm keeping him under lock and key! We've really enjoyed the "lifestyle" over the past few months even though we've limited ourselves to just the one guy. Still... 1+1=2. So I've doubled my pleasure! [This message has been edited by CindyB (edited 09-22-2001).]