Husband wants to perform oral sex on me way too much!

[lovitalot]

Someone please help me/with oversexed husband!!! Kenny wants me to just lay back while he gives me hours of oral mulitable pleasures. My problem is, he wants to do it every night, 7 days a week. We have wrote many ads over the last 6 month and no one will responed. I guess my question is how can we get him a woman to orally tease and please so I can kick back and take a break and maybe just watch? Robin

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lovitalot in bay area.

[JustAskJulie]

Too much oral sex!
Now there's a problem most women would love to have...

First off, have you talked to your husband and let him know that this is too much for you? That you need a break. If you don't feel like playing, don't play.. there's no law that says you have to let your husband eat your pussy whenever he wants. Remember communication is key here. I realize he obviously loves giving oral pleasure, but it sounds like he needs to find some other constructive things he can do with you to give you and him both pleasure.

Basically, you are asking the same question many couples have asked.. where do we find the elusive single female. Maybe instead of looking soley for single women you should look for other married couples in similiar predicaments.. maybe she wants more than he can give and needs someone to help satisfy her while he watches. You and the other male can sit back and relax and enjoy watching your partners pleasure and be pleasured without feeling like you have to be part of it.

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

OMG!!! First off, I can't believe you're complaining about this! *Jokingly lol* Like Julie said, "Now there's a problem most women would love to have..." *VBG*

If I had MY way, I'd be raping hubby EVERY night! But then again, you can't rape the "willing"! *LOL*

We DO get our "daily fix" though...7 days a week! *VBG*

Sex trivia: An AVERAGE couple has sex about 200 times a year.

That's less than once a day, that REALLY sucks! *VBG* We kept track on our calendar one year, and we have sex on an "average" (for us) about 400 times a year. Thank God, we're ABOVE "average"! *LOBO* And that's not counting how many times we CUM! Lot's of liquids/water for our diets! *VBG*

Good luck on your search! ;-)


Wife of CyberMWCouple

BTW...That's with EACH OTHER, and not counting with swinging partners! We weren't even swinging then, when we kept track of our sex life...*VBG*

[JustAskJulie]

Seriously tho, everyone does have their limits. Some people want sex constantly others don't.

Lovitalot, if you could have intercourse instead of oral sex every night would you rather have that? Are you just tired of only being eaten? Or is it a matter of too much of a good thing in general (too much sex)?

Seriously, you do need to talk to your hubby and find a middle ground where you can both be happy.

Julie http://www.swingersboard.com

Yes, I know this from experience, Julie. With my 1st hubby, I think I was the "Maker" of ALL excuses there was, why NOT to have sex with him! But, I never cheated on him either, and I stayed VERY faithful to the day he died. We were together for about 14 years, and the best of that, was the LAST year. :-( Our relationship wasn't one that I enjoyed, he was verbally & (sometimes) physically abusive...

With 2nd Hubby (my SoulMate, my BEST friend), sex keeps getting better and better with EVERY stroke, just keeps me wanting and needing MORE! *VBG* Poor Hubby...*Lusty grinz @ my SEXILICIOUS Babe...*


Wife of CyberMWCouple

[MiCpl]

I can see where you are coming from, for me there is such a thing as too much sex and I think if I were in your shoes.. several hours every night.. I'd be looking for a stand-in too. On the other hand it is great that your husband is that into giving. At least he isn't constantly hounding you to suck him or fuck him. There is a bright side to everything.

S&J

[LIZA]

You will probably have much better luck finding a couple than just a woman alone. But then you will have the problem of the other man wanting sex!

Sometimes you just can't win!

[LaylaSusanne]

I thought I was the only woman on the PLANET with this "problem"

Tom LOVES to eat pussy. Weaned too early, oral fixation, I don't know. But he can do it every night for hours, too. It took me a while to get used to it,(I know-I hear the gasps of shock)My ex-hubby had tried it a few times, but was TERRIBLE at it, so I wasn't too sure about trying it again.

Now, though, I LOVE it, too! But not every night for hours on end.

Our solution? We go to an on-premises club, where Tom is often requested to perform on willing females. I love to just sit back and watch, and know the pleasure that woman's feeling, as well as the pleasure he gets from doing it.

Then I take him home and make love for hours!

OMG! I LOVE IT when hubby is giving me a "pussy job", if I can only have it 24/7, I'd be set! MMMMmmmmmm....The THOUGHT of it makes me WET!

Hubby's "other" nickname from another couple we play with, is "MAD Pussy Eater" (MPE)! *lol*


Wife of CyberMWCouple

[LaylaSusanne]

LOL LOL LOL

I love that! "MAD Pussy eater"!

We call Tom the "DIVEMASTER" (muff-diving, get it?)

L&T

That's a good one too, Layla! *LOL*

The nicknames we can cum up with at the heat of the moment, and especially at the "cooling down" of the moment too!


Wife of CyberMWCouple