strap - ons

[XxxCHAOSADxxX]

guys ever take one ? did u like it? girls ever use one on a guy ? did u like it?
tell about ur experiences . ive used them and i love them! my girl loves fucking me with them. i would certainly recomend them to all!

[Mecka]

Welcome to the boards.

Personally i haven't tried one, but i have talked to many women that have. It gives them the feeling of being in control. Its very enjoyable for them. I have heard that many men like it too because it gives them the opposite. It gives them the feeling of submission. I know in bdsm play it is used alot.

[XxxCHAOSADxxX]

i like it becuase i love the feeling of somthing in my ass plain and simple

[TxCouple98]

we have played with some BDSM ideas...and i have used one on him. It took some convincing but he agree and sure seemed to enjoy it. LOL..it is not something we usually do, but have been there done it. We both found it enjoyable. Think it could be very interesting for a couple ladies to use it on each other too. Just something we have thought of.

[az469]

we use them my wife loves pumping in n out off my ass . 1st time i bought a 1 . her eyes opened wide, for a while thats all she wanted to do. i told her to join a group or post threads for encounters. she still is pondering the idea.

[plainspeople]

My wife had a secret desire for years to use a strap-on on me, and after she finally spoke up.................things haven't been the same since!!!!!!!!!!!

[TomF_22033]

I've done them several times. The first time was amazing, the second wasn't and the current is good. In other words, like everything else in life it depends on the people involved.

[looking2swing]

WOW. I am impressed. I have never been involved in any strap on activity, but now I think that I am intrigued. How do you approach someone about the idea??? I don't think that my husband would go for it.

[plainspeople]

Try watching the video "BEND OVER BOYFRIEND" by Dr. Carol Queen. Kinda cheesy, but very informative on anal sex in general, and FtoM strap-on sex. Has some good pointers on "warming up", and has several couples scenes. The second video BOB2 has pretty much only couples scenes.

Try inserting a WELL LUBED finger into your partner's anus during oral sex and see what his reactions are. That is what happened w/ my wife and I, and has never been the same since!

Start small and slow, and use LOTS OF LUBE!!!!!!!!!!

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[TomF_22033]

Originally Posted by looking2swing

WOW. I am impressed. I have never been involved in any strap on activity, but now I think that I am intrigued. How do you approach someone about the idea??? I don't think that my husband would go for it.

Well it's like everything, and depends on the people. If he's open minded, and you have good communication, you ease into it. If not, then forget it. Gentle hints, and a few gentle questions will help. Get a feel and see how he responds. Or leave a web page up (say this thread).

[Ssugarlips]

Fucking with a strap-on is harder than it looks!

I own the movie Bend Over Boyfriend and have watched it several times. I've asked my husband and other lovers for "tips on fucking." The one time I actually put the harness on with the dildo, my husband had to help me. Our lady friend was watching and all three of us were laughing. She was such a good sport and I did get her to cum through the laughter, but all-in-all, it was hard work. We had better fun using the hand-held toys.

My husband has always passed on receiving any kind of anal attention, but I've been with 3 other men who enjoy anal attention. I've never tried the strap-on with any of them; I prefer to have them on their backs, cock in their hand, while I use a dildo with them. It's easier to see their expressions, monitor their excitement level, and generally control the speed/depth of the dildo. I love to watch them orgasm this way.

[txduo2000]

My husband enjoys anal play very much. And I did buy a strap-on this past summer in order to surprise him (thanks to Julie's marvelous suggestion, we got a really good one!). He does really enjoy when I use it on him.

My preference, however, is to use it with him on his back while simultaneously giving him head or a hand job or watching him masturbate himself, much like the above poster. We have tried it with him in the doggy style position, but it is very difficult. For one reason, he is very tall with very long legs, and I am very short, so even with him bent over, I can't seem to get into a comfortable position for the thrusting. There is still a considerable height differential. It has caused me to be very appreciative of the "work" men endure in the dominant position.

Another issue that I have is that I am slightly disturbed by his being in a submissive position. It's my hang-up and I am trying to get over it, but I am very "into" a take-charge kind of guy and am much more submissive during sex, although I am a very dominant woman outside the bedroom. So it is kind of out of my nature to be in dominant positions or sexual expressiveness.

I have to also add that I feel like a big dork wearing that thing. :rollseyes

[imsnowman]

Originally Posted by txduo2000

My husband enjoys anal play very much. And I did buy a strap-on this past summer in order to surprise him (thanks to Julie's marvelous suggestion, we got a really good one!). He does really enjoy when I use it on him.

My preference, however, is to use it with him on his back while simultaneously giving him head or a hand job or watching him masturbate himself, much like the above poster. We have tried it with him in the doggy style position, but it is very difficult. For one reason, he is very tall with very long legs, and I am very short, so even with him bent over, I can't seem to get into a comfortable position for the thrusting. There is still a considerable height differential. It has caused me to be very appreciative of the "work" men endure in the dominant position.

Another issue that I have is that I am slightly disturbed by his being in a submissive position. It's my hang-up and I am trying to get over it, but I am very "into" a take-charge kind of guy and am much more submissive during sex, although I am a very dominant woman outside the bedroom. So it is kind of out of my nature to be in dominant positions or sexual expressiveness.

I have to also add that I feel like a big dork wearing that thing. :rollseyes

I'm sure you'll get over it and I'm sure you're quite lovely.

[lifensf]

My Wife and I have done it on a number of occasions and have enjoyed it. I the male half brought it up in the beginning. It started out as some late night talk and ended up with me going down to the GOOD VIBES and got their TERRA FIRMA MEDIUM and the WOODY The first time we used it was fun but not great, but after a few more times we both got more comfortable with it. The positions I like the best is with me on my back with my legs over her shoulders. Or with her behind me doggie style with my chest resting on the bed. She gets so hot and wet from fucking me. The last couple of times we have done it she has made me cum and she did not have to touch my cock to do it. If you’re a man and your are thinking about this, don’t worry it did not hurt at all. And if you’re a woman go for it take your man and give him some action.

[mwcohio]

My Fiance and I bought a strap on. She put in on and fucked me senseless. She has never been the same. She absolutely loves it. She loves the power and the feeling. She talks dirty. We do it in all positions. I prefer doggy style as I can relax and take it all. At first it hurt alot, because she was so eager, but she has learned to take it easy until I am relaxed.

I love it too. I have very powerful prostrate orgasms. I love the feeling of being submissive too. I am a 6 foot 245 lb bodybuilder and it gets me off letting the 5 foot woman fuck me into oblivion.

We own several now and the one she uses depends on her mood. There have been times I have been woken up to her mounting me. Now thats exciting. We do use some bondage.

She loves anal too, and I pay her back on a regular basis. All in all, I would say the strap on is her favorite sex toy, and mine too.

As a note : Once she fucked me into such oblivion that she pulled out and used her monster dildo on me. 13 inches and 3 inches circumferance. It was unbelievable.