strap - ons

[robsgirl]

Wow, I'm just amazed at all the guys that like it-that's a good thing! My husband says no way! I've only had one experience and that was with me riding the other woman and it was quite the work out for us both...I get off so quick with hubby that I'm not used to being "in the saddle" that long. It felt great, but he had to finish the job for me. Next time, I'm going to fuck her with it and the hubby is very excited about that!

[lovinher]

Not in this lifetime.

[FlaPlaya561]

I enjoy a strap on cock....I have had quite a few HOT times with lovers that use one on me Orally and Anally ...

[ohash01]

I love search functions. I didn't want to start a whole new thread for this.

I literally JUST bought a strap on (it should be here Tuesday...hooray!) My current playmate is coming next weekend and this is something he has done with other partners in the past, but I have never done to a man. I have used my fingers to massage his prostate and it drives him absolutely crazy. So, here are my questions...

How long does it take to get "used" to having a "penis"? I'm kind of looking at it like new heels...I will probably be walking around the house with it on Tuesday night trying to break it in. Do you need to really tighten the harness up on you to have the proper control?

Oh man...this is gonna be new and possibly hilarious...

[FlaPlaya561]

Oh thats Awesome. ..Hope you enjoy it as much as he does...

[newlythree]

The Mrs. has one that she uses on me sometimes and I really enjoy it. I love having her knelt behind me just pounding away! Her's has a spot that can hold a bullet near her clit and there are times when she has came right along with me....very hot.

[herpob]

Originally Posted by Ssugarlips

Fucking with a strap-on is harder than it looks!

I own the movie Bend Over Boyfriend and have watched it several times. I've asked my husband and other lovers for "tips on fucking." The one time I actually put the harness on with the dildo, my husband had to help me. Our lady friend was watching and all three of us were laughing. She was such a good sport and I did get her to cum through the laughter, but all-in-all, it was hard work. We had better fun using the hand-held toys.

My husband has always passed on receiving any kind of anal attention, but I've been with 3 other men who enjoy anal attention. I've never tried the strap-on with any of them; I prefer to have them on their backs, cock in their hand, while I use a dildo with them. It's easier to see their expressions, monitor their excitement level, and generally control the speed/depth of the dildo. I love to watch them orgasm this way.

It is hard work but soooo worth the effort. The men tell me the same. I love oral on men the most but anal with men is a pretty close second. I do my husband anally lots of ways but never with the strap on, he has used it on me many many many times for DP. I have fucked several of the men in our group at their wives request. They all love it. My husband is okay with it. As you said it takes alot of work, I have to prepare my self well, cleanliness, and stretching, even though I do it often I still have to take my time to prepare.

My husband tells me for him to enjoy anal play he has to do build himself up to it on his own so that by the time I do him with my fingers or toys I can have at it with no restraint. I have discussed this with the othe guys and the same is true for them. So No Doubt prior preparation is the KEY! and oh so very worth it from the results we have had over the years.

I agree that hands and toys in hands are more intimate and fun to watch to me. We always do this first before I fuck the heck out of them. That is more of a raw sex act to me unless we are kissing as well. I'm with you on the toys and other easier to do more and have more control, feels better in my hands as well.

[FlaPlaya561]

It sure does help when the man likes it ...I really enjoy it! Please dont bash me tho LOL

[JustMrJ]

I have had some fantasies about that and when I was in my wild teens I had some bi experiences.

I think I'll have to revisit those fantasies now that my wife is opening up. I'd like to have her receive anal, but I think she'd feel much better about it if it was a two way street.

Hmm.... *ponder*ponder*ponder*

[theflamekasters]

the wife and i tried it once before we got into the ls, and she wasnt into it and neither of us enjoyed it. If you read another post i posted in the toy section u will see that i love anal, I have met a cpl of woman lately that are excited to is it on me!! I cant wait!!

[crazi429]

I hope someday to have my Girlfriend use a strap on on myself but so far she is just to nervous about it. She likes the idea of doing it but isn't sure about actually doing it.

[FlaPlaya561]

I really LOVE this thread and topic.. I have date with a woman this evening-NSA just she wants to use various toys all different shapes and sizes and see my reaction to each one

[twohots4u2]

We were talking about her trying anal one even when she said, "If if feels so good, how about letting me try my new strap-on on you?" What could I say, but, "Yes, of course, Honey!" I did, she did, I found I liked it, and she got a real power trip from it. About a month later, she had her first anal, but that is another story. She using the strap-on on me, and the guys we are with has become a regular thing, and all seem very pleased with it.

We bought a new strapless strap-on (Feeldoe) yesterday, and are looking forward to trying it soon. It is supposed to make her feel good too. This may be too much! Now she may get a power trip and get off too! Unfair....

[JustMrJ]

The 'Feeldoe' is the same one that was recommended by the hostess at our last party.... I think I'll be ordering one...

[At.Both.Ends]

We've talked about it and decided to try it soon. We got a small dildo to start with. Once we are both used to it, we plan on getting a double headed dildo that we both can enjoy at the same time.