Boxers or Briefs

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-07-2003, 07:54 PM

This is kind of a take-off from alabamafuntonight's latest question on wearing worn out undies.

So what kind of undies do you prefer? On you? on your play partners?

Personally I find briefs to be a bit of a turn-off and would much rather see a guy in boxers. If I'm meeting up with a couple and we know ahead of time that things might go in a certain direction I'll be wearing thongs and hoping the female is too. If I don't have a feeling things might be going a certain direction I'd still be wearing nice panties (be they briefs or thongs).

So what do you prefer?

Boxers or Breifs?
Thongs, french cut, granny panties, etc?

BradAndJanet · 10-07-2003, 09:36 PM

Sorry Julie, but this guy prefers briefs over boxers. I just like the secure feeling that everything is well supported. Plus, wearing boxers makes me feel like I'm wearing pants over my shorts. Not comfortable to me, but I do suppose you get used to that.

Now, the Boy? He's a boxer man all the way. Go figure...

-B

fun_pairTX · 10-07-2003, 09:47 PM

Commando for Mr Fun. If we are going to an on premise club he will bring some gym shorts for the "between times".

Greg & Sheryl · 10-07-2003, 10:26 PM

I personally like thongs on women or nothing under that nice short dress and on the guys either briefs or if he is well built a nice thong. I love seeing some nice ass on a athletic guy, what a nice turn on!!!
Sheryl

thump29 · 10-08-2003, 12:08 AM

I have to agree with Julie I prefer boxers on the man and I wear thongs almost all the time.

naughtygirl27 · 10-08-2003, 12:25 AM

I like men wearing boxers..hubby wears boxers

I like to wear thongs.

naughtygirl27

hmr · 10-08-2003, 12:50 AM

I prefer a man in breifs or a thong if they a built nice, mr h prefers to go commando. He is more comfortable, works for me. Myself, I prefer thongs and french cut mostly. When I want to feel real sexy, I wear my lace boy legs.

mrs hmr

519Couple · 10-08-2003, 12:51 AM

I hedge my bets, and wear boxer-style briefs. For those that aren't familiar, they are the nice stretchy cotton that fits tightly and provides some support like briefs, but they are made in a boxer style.

Mrs 519Couple, happily for me, prefers thongs.

WildFlower · 10-08-2003, 03:26 AM

Hubby wears boxers on those special occaisions and briefs during the work week. I wear thongs alot but when working and want to feel comfortable wear briefs. I like boxers on men. They make nice tents when they get excited.lol

bear_n_bunny · 10-08-2003, 07:59 AM

Most of my life I've worn briefs of one sort or another. I went through a period some years back when I wore boxers. Didn't care for them. For the last several years I've worn bikini briefs. Not only do I get the fit and support I like, but every woman who has seen me in them was quite pleased, thank you very much...

Therefore I go with what works...

-- Bear

Emy_Fraser · 10-08-2003, 08:14 AM

Most of the time it's thongs for me and ALWAYS boxers for Fraser. I hate thongs or tiny briefs on guys, especially when they are not the slimmest or fittest!

One couple we met a while back, actually we still see them and they are a nice couple, the husband is about Fraser's age (mid 40's) and when he took his kit off he was wearing the most awful leather posing pouch underneath his trousers!! I nearly burst out laughing there and then, Fraser looked and then looked at me and just raised an eyebrow - how I didn't choke trying not to laugh I'll never know!

We know them quite well now and I sometimes tease him about his posing pouch, he takes it very well! LOL

Em xx

Elusive BiFem · 10-08-2003, 08:47 AM

I kind of like those silky boxers for men. Briefs are OK as long as they aren't all stretched out and baggy looking, but generally, they are. And not boring white Fruit-of-the-Loom's, please.

Thongs are not my favorite. I don't really find them very comfortable, although I occasionally wear them under certain things when I don't want the "panty line." I really hate panty lines when I'm dressed in nice slacks, etc. Most often, I can be found in the french cut panties.

Speaking of thongs and other fashion trends, some of you might be interested in this article. I can't speak to the validity of the stuff on thongs, but I know the stuff about large handbags is true. - EBF

Brit_Pair · 10-08-2003, 09:13 AM

I (Mr B) prefer to split the difference and wear boxer-style underwear made from the same material as briefs (i.e. some form of elasticated cotton). They provide the support of regular briefs, and a more flattering appearance.

Mrs B's choice in underwear are determined by the environment: fuller-cut panties for work/shopping, thongs for clothes that would otherwise reveal a panty line. When it comes to play time, she wears whatever she's in the mood for!

naughty A · 10-08-2003, 10:07 AM

my hubby wears a style called sport trunks or cycle trunks...

getting increasingly hard to find lately... I've just ordered some online... and am waiting to see if they are the right style...

I think they are what Brit Pair is describing... about the length of a boxer... without all that flopping around.

Brit_Pair · 10-08-2003, 10:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by naughty A
my hubby wears a style called sport trunks or cycle trunks...I think they are what Brit Pair is describing...

Those are the very things!

Quote:

Originally posted by naughty A
about the length of a boxer... without all that flopping around.

Nicely put!

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10-07-2003, 07:54 PM	#1 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Boxers or Briefs This is kind of a take-off from alabamafuntonight's latest question on wearing worn out undies. So what kind of undies do you prefer? On you? on your play partners? Personally I find briefs to be a bit of a turn-off and would much rather see a guy in boxers. If I'm meeting up with a couple and we know ahead of time that things might go in a certain direction I'll be wearing thongs and hoping the female is too. If I don't have a feeling things might be going a certain direction I'd still be wearing nice panties (be they briefs or thongs). So what do you prefer? Boxers or Breifs? Thongs, french cut, granny panties, etc?
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10-07-2003, 09:36 PM	#2 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	Sorry Julie, but this guy prefers briefs over boxers. I just like the secure feeling that everything is well supported. Plus, wearing boxers makes me feel like I'm wearing pants over my shorts. Not comfortable to me, but I do suppose you get used to that. Now, the Boy? He's a boxer man all the way. Go figure... -B
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10-07-2003, 09:47 PM	#3 (permalink)
fun_pairTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 1,185 Location: Ennis, Texas Status: Couple	Hah Commando for Mr Fun. If we are going to an on premise club he will bring some gym shorts for the "between times".
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10-08-2003, 12:25 AM	#6 (permalink)
naughtygirl27 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 36 Location: Ontario, Canada Status: Couple	I like men wearing boxers..hubby wears boxers I like to wear thongs. naughtygirl27
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10-07-2003, 10:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
Greg & Sheryl Interracial Swingers Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 749 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Greg69Sheryl	I personally like thongs on women or nothing under that nice short dress and on the guys either briefs or if he is well built a nice thong. I love seeing some nice ass on a athletic guy, what a nice turn on!!! Sheryl

10-08-2003, 12:08 AM	#5 (permalink)
thump29 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 333 Location: okeechobee, fl Status: couple	I have to agree with Julie I prefer boxers on the man and I wear thongs almost all the time.

10-08-2003, 12:50 AM	#7 (permalink)
hmr hmr Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 421 Location: Roanoke,VA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hmr	I prefer a man in breifs or a thong if they a built nice, mr h prefers to go commando. He is more comfortable, works for me. Myself, I prefer thongs and french cut mostly. When I want to feel real sexy, I wear my lace boy legs. mrs hmr
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10-08-2003, 12:51 AM	#8 (permalink)
519Couple Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 43 Location: Vancouver, BC Status: Couple	I hedge my bets, and wear boxer-style briefs. For those that aren't familiar, they are the nice stretchy cotton that fits tightly and provides some support like briefs, but they are made in a boxer style. Mrs 519Couple, happily for me, prefers thongs.
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10-08-2003, 03:26 AM	#9 (permalink)
WildFlower Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 106 Location: Indiana Status: Couple	Hubby wears boxers on those special occaisions and briefs during the work week. I wear thongs alot but when working and want to feel comfortable wear briefs. I like boxers on men. They make nice tents when they get excited.lol
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10-08-2003, 07:59 AM	#10 (permalink)
bear_n_bunny Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 465 Location: Houston, Texas Status: Happily Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:bear_n_bunny	Most of my life I've worn briefs of one sort or another. I went through a period some years back when I wore boxers. Didn't care for them. For the last several years I've worn bikini briefs. Not only do I get the fit and support I like, but every woman who has seen me in them was quite pleased, thank you very much... Therefore I go with what works... -- Bear

10-08-2003, 08:14 AM	#11 (permalink)
Emy_Fraser Active Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 19 Location: North Wales, U.K. Status: Couple	Most of the time it's thongs for me and ALWAYS boxers for Fraser. I hate thongs or tiny briefs on guys, especially when they are not the slimmest or fittest! One couple we met a while back, actually we still see them and they are a nice couple, the husband is about Fraser's age (mid 40's) and when he took his kit off he was wearing the most awful leather posing pouch underneath his trousers!! I nearly burst out laughing there and then, Fraser looked and then looked at me and just raised an eyebrow - how I didn't choke trying not to laugh I'll never know! We know them quite well now and I sometimes tease him about his posing pouch, he takes it very well! LOL Em xx

10-08-2003, 08:47 AM	#12 (permalink)
Elusive BiFem Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,398 Location: Texas Status: Single Female	I kind of like those silky boxers for men. Briefs are OK as long as they aren't all stretched out and baggy looking, but generally, they are. And not boring white Fruit-of-the-Loom's, please. Thongs are not my favorite. I don't really find them very comfortable, although I occasionally wear them under certain things when I don't want the "panty line." I really hate panty lines when I'm dressed in nice slacks, etc. Most often, I can be found in the french cut panties. Speaking of thongs and other fashion trends, some of you might be interested in this article. I can't speak to the validity of the stuff on thongs, but I know the stuff about large handbags is true. - EBF
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10-08-2003, 09:13 AM	#13 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	I (Mr B) prefer to split the difference and wear boxer-style underwear made from the same material as briefs (i.e. some form of elasticated cotton). They provide the support of regular briefs, and a more flattering appearance. Mrs B's choice in underwear are determined by the environment: fuller-cut panties for work/shopping, thongs for clothes that would otherwise reveal a panty line. When it comes to play time, she wears whatever she's in the mood for!
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10-08-2003, 10:07 AM	#14 (permalink)
naughty A Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 997 Location: windsor ontario Status: couple - female half	my hubby wears a style called sport trunks or cycle trunks... getting increasingly hard to find lately... I've just ordered some online... and am waiting to see if they are the right style... I think they are what Brit Pair is describing... about the length of a boxer... without all that flopping around.
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