Strap-on!

[Weezie]

Can anyone recommend a strap-on type toy that is worn like a pair of panties and also has something inside (maybe a bullet) for the wearer? I have one of those cheaper harness things. The dildo that came with it was too small...lol. We replaced it with my cyberskin, which does the trick, but then it slips out sometimes. You gotta hate it when that happens
I also hate the straps that hang down when we have to adjust it so much. I'm a very petite girl, so I have lots of extra strap flapping around.
My husband bought it for me about a year ago, but I have not found another girl to use it on until just recently. Now we want to expand our collection!

[rounder]

Sorry, no recommendations (although there are lots of online sources...surely someone can recommend a "Brand name"). However, I (male half) must confess to a fetish for watching strapon action (in movies...never had the pleasure to witness in person). Would love to hear about any of your actual strapon experiences (ff...can't really get into the f/m domination thing). Apologize for the request...couldn't resist when I saw the thread title. Just wondering about the difference women feel when being done by a woman (especially in missionary position) vs. a man.

[Michcouple]

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[dpdarling]

why did i think that strap-ons were for woman to woman sex? really a lesbian's tool? if thats true, dont you think men having anal sex sounds a little effeminate? i understand gays. i dont have a problem with that. i still have a problem with men wanting this.

[Weezie]

Oh, yes, this strap-on would be used for bisexual/lesbian sex only. It turns my husband on to watch but he is not interested in sex of any kind with any man. He says he's a diehard lesbian...lol.(he also says I have a big case of penis envy...lol).
I suppose there are some bisexual men out there in the lifestyle, but we haven't encountered any. It's funny how when the strap-on comes out the guys move out of the way and let us girls do our thing. He thinks he is a lucky man to just get to witness it.

[dpdarling]

do you reacall the old virtual places set-up? there were porn flicks shown. i watched an all female sex fest at that site. five women doing one other woman. two of them wore strap-ons, and wound up double penetrating her. it really was one of the most erotic films ive ever seen, i see why men like watching fem/fem sex.

[jdf7379]

I'll be one of the guys to admit...I totally get turned on watching F/F strap on play. That was one of the first toys we purchased...we haven't had the oppertunity to use it yet...but I still get a major stiffy when she just puts it on.:evil:

[Tanman aka Mike and Marie]

Originally posted by dpdarling
why did i think that strap-ons were for woman to woman sex? really a lesbian's tool? if thats true, dont you think men having anal sex sounds a little effeminate? i understand gays. i dont have a problem with that. i still have a problem with men wanting this.

True lesbians don't use strap-ons, they are not interested in using "male parts"

Marie

[rounder]

Originally posted by jdf7379
I'll be one of the guys to admit...I totally get turned on watching F/F strap on play. That was one of the first toys we purchased...we haven't had the oppertunity to use it yet...but I still get a major stiffy when she just puts it on.:evil:

Well, when you DO get a chance to use it...please share the experience. Would love to hear reactions from you both!!!!! Feel free to go into detail (positions, sounds, etc.) Just call me a strapon-obsessed voyeur. If only I could convince the wife to try it...she thinks the idea is just plain "silly" (sigh).

[Weezie]

It IS silly sometimes. Sometimes I get the giggles over what I'm doing. But I've been told it's a very evil and sexy laugh....hehehe!

[EternallySingle]

I used to go to a strip bar and this one dancer was always coming on to me. At first I thought it was the usual stripper flirt routine, but then I saw her at the mall and she came on just as strong, just not as obvious. While we were eating at Sbarros, she said I could have sex with her and her girlfriend if she could use her strap-on on me. I declined and she actually looked hurt, then threw out the strap-on option. I was tempted, but then remembered stories about guys who said they would use a condom then were suddenly bareback. So I declined again, but told a friend I knew about them. The three of them have been together over a year and he says he hardly ever looks at men anymore.

[EternallySingle]

Originally posted by EternallySingle
I used to go to a strip bar and this one dancer was always coming on to me. At first I thought it was the usual stripper flirt routine, but then I saw her at the mall and she came on just as strong, just not as obvious. While we were eating at Sbarros, she said I could have sex with her and her girlfriend if she could use her strap-on on me. I declined and she actually looked hurt, then threw out the strap-on option. I was tempted, but then remembered stories about guys who said they would use a condom then were suddenly bareback. So I declined again, but told a friend I knew about them. The three of them have been together over a year and he says he hardly ever looks at men anymore.

Oops, under the wrong topic. So silly, that Aaron guy is.

[demented kitty]

Originally posted by Tanman aka Mike and Marie
True lesbians don't use strap-ons, they are not interested in using "male parts"

Marie

I respectfully beg to differ! I know that I LOVE to be done with a harnessed dildo. True, I don't like the realistic dongs just because the heads are usually too rigid. I prefer a smooth dong. *purr*

I also adore strapping one on myself and having fun with my partner or other lovers. Feeling the pressure of the dildo's base against my clit when I thrust in and out is SO yummy! I can usually orgasm from it if the person I'm penetrating can stand me doing them for a long period of time.

dpdarling, I've taken more than a few male lovers who like to be penetrated. That can be just as much fun, so long as they both want it.

As to your question Weezie, have a look at The Sleek Harness on Toys in Babeland's harness page. It's a panty style harness. It might be what you're looking for. I don't know anyone who wears one, but I'll ask around if you like.

If you really want something that you can slip a vibe bullet into, try the Buzz Me Tender harness on the same page. It's the harness I used to wear. It rox0rs. There are two pockets for toys, one just above the ring (to shake the dong) and a long pocket that forms the entire crotch of the harness. However, keep in mind that you'll have to use a leather punch to make enough holes in the straps so it's tight enough though if you're a waif like me.

Also, if you're interested in other harnesses or just don't know what to buy, check Toys in Babeland's Harness Coach.

[Brit_Pair]

We've experimented with strap-on play, with Mrs B taking turns at being both the passer and the receiver. She enjoys the experience of giving it more than taking it, partly because the strap-on phallus "just doesn't feel as good as the real thing", and partly because her dominant side is more prevalent when she's in FF mode. However, she gets off on both fucking another woman and being fucked by another woman.

From my perspective (as an inveterate male voyeur) I think the strap-on is an invention right up there with the wheel and the light bulb and the La-z-boy Oasis recliner (the one with the built in beer cooler, heat massager, telephone . . .)

One word of advice. Our first strap on had the phallus "hard wired" to the harness. A couple of vigorous sessions later, and we were looking for the contact adhesive to try and put Humpty back together again. The seperate harness / dildo arrangement seems far superior, in terms of wear and the potential for variety.

[Corwyn13]

If you haven't tried it, you don't knwo what you're missing.
The key is go very slow.

My dream is to be in charge of my SO and a girl with my strap-on on.

Of course as in most cases you men have to overcome your homophobia, but that's another subject
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