How many of you incorporate toys into your foreplay/sex?

[JoeCentralNY]

How many of you incorporate toys into you foreplay/sex?

My wife will often give me oral while I use a toy on her "down below". Sometimes, she'll even use the toy since she seems to have the motion down pat better than me.

The dildo we have is realistic and has a suction cup, but the suction cup is totally non-functional. We've talked about getting one that works so we can attach it to a chair, etc and then she'll have both hands free.

Can anyone recommend any realistic dildos with good, strong suction cups?

Thank you,
Joe

[Trace Ekies]

We use toys a great deal and I'll bet virtually everyone who visits this board uses them alot as well.

Trace

[PB&J]

Meh. I prefer my toys to be animate. `The few toys we have rarely make it out of the drawer.

[IvoryTowers]

I can't recommend a good dildo, but check out Adam and Eve. They have lots of stuff and reader comments, so you can probably find a good one.

[JustAskJulie]

It's rare that we don't incorporate toys into our play. If we don't start out with one, quite often I will be trying to reach the drawer where I keep them while we are going at it to pull one out.

[Tadahiko]

I don't think my wife has had sex w/o toys in at least a year and sometimes it's toying in addition to (or sometimes instead of) sex with me. When our triad lover is with us, my wife pretty much watches us and toys. She's much more into a vibe on the clit than penetration with a dildo. Her favorite is a waterproof vibe during a hot bath.

I bet she uses a vibe to climax before she's even out of bed in the morning at least 2-3 times a week, and she gets herself off at least once most days, often several times a day (but not always with a vibe -- fingers work, too!)

[herpob]

Originally Posted by Tadahiko

I don't think my wife has had sex w/o toys in at least a year and sometimes it's toying in addition to (or sometimes instead of) sex with me. When our triad lover is with us, my wife pretty much watches us and toys. She's much more into a vibe on the clit than penetration with a dildo. Her favorite is a waterproof vibe during a hot bath.

I bet she uses a vibe to climax before she's even out of bed in the morning at least 2-3 times a week, and she gets herself off at least once most days, often several times a day (but not always with a vibe -- fingers work, too!)

This is why I do not use vibs. they are sort of addicting and for me personally I get lazy sexually if I use them. No offense to anyone who does I just know that no human can come close to reporducing what those babies do. I'd probably dorwn if I used one in the tub for lack of focus on anything but...

I want to keep it as close to a real penis as possible when I do play so I prefer as realistic as possible vaginally. Anally doesn't matter how realistic only how it is shaped.

I do love to play with toys for a good prep for sex and it also makes for good fillers in between. For me toys make for the best visuals fo my hubby, mirrors, and video. I love to use them on my self and my husband as he does on me and occasionally on himself for me.

[LFM2]

We use toys quite a lot, ourselves. We use them when playing with others, and they even bring their toys and it's all quite fun!

[sweet_tna]

Oh I l do love my toys and use them fairly often. However, I don't own a regular ole' dildo, so I'd be hard pressed to recommend one. I'll second the recommendation for Adam and Eve, though. We've been ordering from them for years and never had a problem.

=)

[readytojoinin]

We began using toys a short while ago as part of foreplay. My wife has some medical problems that make it difficult for her to have orgasms and the toys help. A little experimenting and she found the products made and distributed by Tantus as the best. They are pure silicone, non-porous, don't smell and according to her, are a GREAT help to satisfaction. You can but direct from their web site and they have a complete array of products. They can be boiled, put in the dishwasher, and can be completely sanitized for multiple partner usage.
They are not the cheapest but we are very happy and have bought items on closeout as well as regular price.

Readytojoinin

[desiresecrets]

I use always sex toys during of foreplays, cause they spice up my sex life.

Don't forget to use plenty of personal lubricant during of sex games.

[Miss Sunshine]

we use my rabbitt and other electric "massager" all the time, I can go into a coma with either and have a flow of orgasms, then when he pries it from my hand before I totally passout we finish with intercourse. He loves watching me masturbate. I do not like blah plain old dildos, that is why he has a cock!

[JustMrJ]

Does the hair on the top of my head count? Seems the ladies enjoy my flat top hair cut being caressed over their bodies...

[CXXC]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

It's rare that we don't incorporate toys into our play. If we don't start out with one, quite often I will be trying to reach the drawer where I keep them while we are going at it to pull one out.

Now I understand how you pulled the muscle in your neck. May I suggest you prepare ahead of time from now on?

As for Mrs. CXXC and me;
We often use them. Most times it is an Hitachi wand type device. However, as I menitoned in my blog, Mrs. CXXC has quite an assortment of toys. UGH! The money we have spent on so many that just sit in the bottom of the drawer! SIGH!

[curious2u]

My husband and I use them, well actually me, frequently but as I am thinking about it we often go for a period without using them and then we start and can't seem to stop. This is generally the clit vibrator or my rabbit as I love them almost as much as I do him. Although on some evenings more than.