Problems with our new dildo

[JoeCentralNY]

We bought a dildo a little less than a year ago. My wife wanted one that looked lifelike, but at the last minute changed her mind in that she didn't want it looking TOO lifelike. She had dreams in the past of using one while sitting on a chair and giving me oral sex so when she saw that a suction-cup was a possible option, she immediately wanted that type.

She settled on a dildo advertised under the name Stormy's Favorite Dick. She's used it several times during foreplay and seemed fairly happy with it. However, she has two main issues. First, she mentioned that it was cold so we tried warming jel on it and also tried placing it in hot water to warm it up. Neither seemed to work particularly well.

The other problem is the suction cup. She hasn't tried sitting on it yet on a chair, but she tried using the suction cup and seems to think it's useless. I tried to get it to stick to almost anything and it didn't work.

What are your thoughts? Do you happen to have a realistic looking dildo with a suction cup that you'd recommend?

Thank you,
Joe

[sexcupid]

Well...putting it in hot water would probably be the best bet...but depending on the type of material, it may not absorb the heat very well. Try to find a toy made out of cyberskin...most of them look very realistic and the material is more conducive to absorbing body heat. Use only water based lube with one of those. Most of the one's we've seen are a little pricier, so be warned a bit about the sticker shock when compared to latex/gel toys.

We only have 1 with a suction cup...honestly...it's really big/heavy...and the suction cup holds it pretty well (I haven't tried it in the shower or anything...but did stick it to a chair one night and it worked ok...and we first stuck it to the coffee table...because we didn't think it would hold (and no, we weren't using it...joked about leaving it on the table as a conversation piece when company comes over...). The suction cup on this one is pretty flexible, so maybe that helps...

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by sexcupid

We only have 1 with a suction cup...honestly...it's really big/heavy...and the suction cup holds it pretty well (I haven't tried it in the shower or anything...but did stick it to a chair one night and it worked ok...and we first stuck it to the coffee table...because we didn't think it would hold (and no, we weren't using it...joked about leaving it on the table as a conversation piece when company comes over...). The suction cup on this one is pretty flexible, so maybe that helps...

We must have the same one. I need to go see if I can figure out a brand on mine (I think it's one of those moddled after some porn star or something). I've managed to get my to suction to my workout ball before and like you it sucks to pretty much everything.

Sometimes too with suction cups, wetting them first helps them stick better.