Toys, love 'em or hate 'em?

here2play · 11-02-2007, 09:37 AM

Ok, toys. I'll be honest, I am not huge into toys, I like them to masturbate my clit, but, still prefer my own finger. Occassionally I may want them, but it's pretty rare. My SO loves to use toys on me or see me use toys, and that's cool because what I get afterwards is well worth it! Now,alot of girl play seems to involve toys, strap-ons, whatever. I say if you are with girls, what's up with he strap-on? Wouldn't you rather have the real thing? I am looking for some lady input on that particular topic, but please, men and ladies alike, let me know what's up with the toys??? Am I nuts?

ShellyM · 11-02-2007, 10:42 AM

I don't really prefer toys. We bought some recently, used them once and shit I don't even know where they are I think. Nah. I don't see the need for a dildo when Jay's dildo works so well lol.

havefuninsun · 11-02-2007, 11:56 AM

I like playing with toys with Mr. Fun ... but if I'm going to masturbate, I won't take the time to go round up a toy to do it. I like how I do it

... So, I like them on occasion, just for something different.

There was only one couple we were with where they broke out her dildo ... frankly, I had a "gross" sensation at first, but got over it. But when I play with the ladies, I like to play the old-fashioned kind of ways.

So -- I can take 'em or leave 'em.

Tia Vampire · 11-02-2007, 12:35 PM

I like toys. Don't need them when it's just SO and myself, but if i'm going to be with a woman, a toy has to be somewhere in the picture. I don't see what's the use of two women getting together is there is not going to be any penatration going on. I understand that some women are able to get off by clit stimulation and others by the opening or G-spot. So no biggie there, but I like a little of both. Give me a hard dick any day. Even if it is not attached to them.

here2play · 11-02-2007, 04:50 PM

So it sounds like i'm not alone on not being into the toys. Like I said, once in a while, eh, ok. Thanks for the input so far!

sweet_tna · 11-02-2007, 05:37 PM

I rather like them, myself--especially after I've worn out my honey!

~Mrs. Sweet =)

Vjklander · 11-02-2007, 08:41 PM

Toys are good. What is that Confucian saying: "Whoever dies with the most toys wins" or something like that.

Charmed6879 · 11-05-2007, 11:42 AM

I also like toys. I do use them if I masturbate, and we occassionally use them together. So far, I have not used a toy in ff play, but then again, I've only been with two other females. We have been swinging for a while, but we've not been with a lot of other couples, ummm, like 5 total. We just moved to SC from TN and the area we were in was not a very big community in the lifestyle so we found our select couples and played with them. But, I would totally like to use toys with another female if she was cool with them too.

des1re06 · 11-05-2007, 01:20 PM

I like toys. The vibrating cock ring with the large bullet on top is very nice (The Raging Bull).

I also use the bullet when pleasing a lady, alternating between tongue and bullet. I've also used the double dildo with the vibrating rabbit on top with ladies.

Mrs. D

***JustAskJulie*** · 11-06-2007, 10:10 PM

I like toys on occasion. It just depends on my mood. As far as girl on girl with a strap-on, my opinion of that is that sometimes a girl just likes to pretend she has what the guys have. It's fun.

TeaseAndPlease · 11-06-2007, 10:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vjklander

Toys are good. What is that Confucian saying: "Whoever dies with the most toys wins" or something like that.

I thought he said "Man with five dicks have pants that fit like glove".

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11-02-2007, 09:37 AM	#1 (permalink)
here2play Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 94 Location: Lorain Status: Couple SLS Name:byzkit	Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? Ok, toys. I'll be honest, I am not huge into toys, I like them to masturbate my clit, but, still prefer my own finger. Occassionally I may want them, but it's pretty rare. My SO loves to use toys on me or see me use toys, and that's cool because what I get afterwards is well worth it! Now,alot of girl play seems to involve toys, strap-ons, whatever. I say if you are with girls, what's up with he strap-on? Wouldn't you rather have the real thing? I am looking for some lady input on that particular topic, but please, men and ladies alike, let me know what's up with the toys??? Am I nuts?

11-02-2007, 10:42 AM	#2 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? I don't really prefer toys. We bought some recently, used them once and shit I don't even know where they are I think. Nah. I don't see the need for a dildo when Jay's dildo works so well lol. __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

11-02-2007, 11:56 AM	#3 (permalink)
havefuninsun insert witty banter here Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,190 Location: Virginia Status: Couple SLS Name:havefuninsun	Re: Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? I like playing with toys with Mr. Fun ... but if I'm going to masturbate, I won't take the time to go round up a toy to do it. I like how I do it ... So, I like them on occasion, just for something different. There was only one couple we were with where they broke out her dildo ... frankly, I had a "gross" sensation at first, but got over it. But when I play with the ladies, I like to play the old-fashioned kind of ways. So -- I can take 'em or leave 'em.

11-02-2007, 12:35 PM	#4 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 770 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	Re: Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? I like toys. Don't need them when it's just SO and myself, but if i'm going to be with a woman, a toy has to be somewhere in the picture. I don't see what's the use of two women getting together is there is not going to be any penatration going on. I understand that some women are able to get off by clit stimulation and others by the opening or G-spot. So no biggie there, but I like a little of both. Give me a hard dick any day. Even if it is not attached to them.

11-02-2007, 04:50 PM	#5 (permalink)
here2play Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 94 Location: Lorain Status: Couple SLS Name:byzkit	Re: Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? So it sounds like i'm not alone on not being into the toys. Like I said, once in a while, eh, ok. Thanks for the input so far!

11-02-2007, 05:37 PM	#6 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,930 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? I rather like them, myself--especially after I've worn out my honey! ~Mrs. Sweet =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

11-02-2007, 08:41 PM	#7 (permalink)
Vjklander Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 832 Location: VA Status: Couple, Straight M, BiFem SLS Name:Vjklander	Re: Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? Toys are good. What is that Confucian saying: "Whoever dies with the most toys wins" or something like that.

11-05-2007, 11:42 AM	#8 (permalink)
Charmed6879 Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 17 Location: Upstate South Carolina Status: married couple - female half SLS Name:Charmed6879	Re: Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? I also like toys. I do use them if I masturbate, and we occassionally use them together. So far, I have not used a toy in ff play, but then again, I've only been with two other females. We have been swinging for a while, but we've not been with a lot of other couples, ummm, like 5 total. We just moved to SC from TN and the area we were in was not a very big community in the lifestyle so we found our select couples and played with them. But, I would totally like to use toys with another female if she was cool with them too.

11-05-2007, 01:20 PM	#9 (permalink)
des1re06 Great Times 1 Year Exp. Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,080 Location: East TN Status: Couple SLS Name:Des1re06	Re: Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? I like toys. The vibrating cock ring with the large bullet on top is very nice (The Raging Bull). I also use the bullet when pleasing a lady, alternating between tongue and bullet. I've also used the double dildo with the vibrating rabbit on top with ladies. Mrs. D

11-06-2007, 10:10 PM	#10 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,306 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: Toys, love 'em or hate 'em? I like toys on occasion. It just depends on my mood. As far as girl on girl with a strap-on, my opinion of that is that sometimes a girl just likes to pretend she has what the guys have. It's fun.

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