We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic

Tia Vampire · 09-29-2007, 09:20 PM

I(the female 1/2) love having sex when the music is playing, but because of me and my fiance's taste in music, we can only agree on techno. A little too fast to make love to. He's more into metal and classical and i'm more into R&B and Kenny G. He will tolerate my music just to get a BJ, which man would'nt?

I don't need the music to get into the mood, but sometimes I just want to do something special for him at the end of a busy work week. You know, dress in something sexy, with some soft music, candlelight, and some role playing. Sometime we even put on a porn and turn the volume all the way down to listen to the music. We love doing this, but the music is the only thing we can not agree on. Any sugestions for a good idea gone bad?

ShellyM · 09-29-2007, 09:56 PM

Enigma. Great screwing music. I also love Pony by Ginuwine. Prince makes some erotic music too. Techno is just too frenetic, you'd have a heart attack trying to keep up with that lol...I cannot understand how people can have sex to techno. Shelly

Tybee Swing · 09-29-2007, 11:05 PM

Barry White and Marvin Gaye. Sexy classics! Hubby and I both agree.

**rpu3** · 09-30-2007, 07:39 AM

You got me as to the best music. The Spousal Unit and I do not agree on music at all, and what little we agree on does not suit the bedroom (yeah - the Broadway soundtrack to Evita is just SOOOO hot - NOT!). We can't even agree on Classical, which we both enjoy.

It's gotten to the point that at home we usually just wear headphones so we can listen to our own music, and there's not music in the bedroom. It's an awesome day if I drove somewhere by myself because I got to listen to my own music.

Anyway, I'll be interested in the responses. Maybe even one song posted would be suitable for both.

ShellyM · 09-30-2007, 09:50 AM

You know though, I love it when its silent while we are making love. To me, the sounds of sex are sooooo erotic. I swear, I could record it and listen to it on my headset at work....of course a few restroom breaks would be in order LOL!
Shelly

**TNT** · 09-30-2007, 11:00 AM

Here's an old thread that you might be interested in...

Mood Music

Ted and I are lucky in that we both pretty much like the same music...there's some we don't but, when it comes to the bedroom we're a bit strange in that Nazareth-Hair of the Dog is a definite staple.

Teresa

**BiloxiCouple** · 09-30-2007, 01:28 PM

Life is so hard with all these decisions.

If she's making noise, what's the need for music? Rhythmic pelvic thrusts?

**two4youinswva** · 09-30-2007, 07:43 PM

Umm, you could each play your own iPod while getting your freak on.
As long as he isn't listing to Prodigy while your listening to Anita Baker, it should be fine.

Of course, there's the issue of "where do you attach the iPod?".

LOL_OMG · 10-01-2007, 10:49 AM

Nine Inch Nails and almost any ACDC cd have what's called heartbeat rythm, great for having intercourse.

Mr. Lol

Tia Vampire · 10-02-2007, 08:05 PM

Thanks guys for your suggestions, but I don't think we will ever come to an agreement. Just listening to each other moan though, does make me want him more.

havefuninsun · 10-02-2007, 08:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Barry White and Marvin Gaye. Sexy classics! Hubby and I both agree.

Lawd have mercy! Yes indeed. OH! And Norah Jones "Turn Me On"

Where is Mr. Fun anyway?!?

lovinher · 10-02-2007, 09:54 PM

Our first time together naked, Pink Floyd's "Shine On You Crazy Diamond" was playing
(I'm a Floyd freak). To this day it is our favorite.

havefuninsun · 10-03-2007, 09:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lovinher

Our first time together naked, Pink Floyd's "Shine On You Crazy Diamond" was playing
(I'm a Floyd freak). To this day it is our favorite.

I think Mr. Fun had Stevie Ray Vaughn on itunes, just the music (not vocal) stuff playing ... SRV is still one of our favorites

purpletiger · 10-03-2007, 11:16 PM

You should google Morcheeba and see if you like her tunes. They have a nice beat, she a great sultry voice. It might work. First thought that came to my mind seeing what you both like.

Of course, I think "Nine Inch Nails" downward spiral has a great beat - "I want to F**K you like an animal"

LOL_OMG · 10-04-2007, 09:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by purpletiger

Of course, I think "Nine Inch Nails" downward spiral has a great beat - "I want to F**K you like an animal"

I mentioned 'Nine inch Nails' previously for more reasons than one. Perhaps the misses will chime in and tell the story of why to this day when she hears that song she
A) Gets that 'South Park' Stare
B) Lays down and spreads em
C) Mentions something about a guy named Pavlov
or D) All of the above

Mr. Lol

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09-29-2007, 09:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 770 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic I(the female 1/2) love having sex when the music is playing, but because of me and my fiance's taste in music, we can only agree on techno. A little too fast to make love to. He's more into metal and classical and i'm more into R&B and Kenny G. He will tolerate my music just to get a BJ, which man would'nt? I don't need the music to get into the mood, but sometimes I just want to do something special for him at the end of a busy work week. You know, dress in something sexy, with some soft music, candlelight, and some role playing. Sometime we even put on a porn and turn the volume all the way down to listen to the music. We love doing this, but the music is the only thing we can not agree on. Any sugestions for a good idea gone bad?

09-29-2007, 09:56 PM	#2 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic Enigma. Great screwing music. I also love Pony by Ginuwine. Prince makes some erotic music too. Techno is just too frenetic, you'd have a heart attack trying to keep up with that lol...I cannot understand how people can have sex to techno. Shelly __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

09-29-2007, 11:05 PM	#3 (permalink)
Tybee Swing wild at heart Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,837 Location: coastal Georgia Status: couple	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic Barry White and Marvin Gaye. Sexy classics! Hubby and I both agree.

09-30-2007, 07:39 AM	#4 (permalink)
rpu3 Doing it our way... Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 2,504 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female SLS Name:rpu3 Blog Entries: 2	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic You got me as to the best music. The Spousal Unit and I do not agree on music at all, and what little we agree on does not suit the bedroom (yeah - the Broadway soundtrack to Evita is just SOOOO hot - NOT!). We can't even agree on Classical, which we both enjoy. It's gotten to the point that at home we usually just wear headphones so we can listen to our own music, and there's not music in the bedroom. It's an awesome day if I drove somewhere by myself because I got to listen to my own music. Anyway, I'll be interested in the responses. Maybe even one song posted would be suitable for both. __________________ I'll give up my bad habits as soon as equally satisfying good habits become available. A. Brilliant

09-30-2007, 09:50 AM	#5 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic You know though, I love it when its silent while we are making love. To me, the sounds of sex are sooooo erotic. I swear, I could record it and listen to it on my headset at work....of course a few restroom breaks would be in order LOL! Shelly __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

09-30-2007, 11:00 AM	#6 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,195 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple SLS Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 31	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic Here's an old thread that you might be interested in... Mood Music Ted and I are lucky in that we both pretty much like the same music...there's some we don't but, when it comes to the bedroom we're a bit strange in that Nazareth-Hair of the Dog is a definite staple. Teresa __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

09-30-2007, 01:28 PM	#7 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple YOUR PLACE OR OURS?? Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 2,763 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits SLS Name:graceful	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic Life is so hard with all these decisions. If she's making noise, what's the need for music? Rhythmic pelvic thrusts? __________________ Billy & Elaine You can't fix stupid...

09-30-2007, 07:43 PM	#8 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,273 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads Blog Entries: 1	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic Umm, you could each play your own iPod while getting your freak on. As long as he isn't listing to Prodigy while your listening to Anita Baker, it should be fine. Of course, there's the issue of "where do you attach the iPod?".

10-01-2007, 10:49 AM	#9 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 939 Location: where we're at Status: Couple SLS Name:LOL_OMG	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic Nine Inch Nails and almost any ACDC cd have what's called heartbeat rythm, great for having intercourse. Mr. Lol __________________ Somebody better go back and get a shitload of dimes!!!

10-02-2007, 08:05 PM	#10 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 770 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic Thanks guys for your suggestions, but I don't think we will ever come to an agreement. Just listening to each other moan though, does make me want him more.

10-02-2007, 09:54 PM	#12 (permalink)
lovinher Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 763 Location: cleveland area Status: married to lovinhim SLS Name:Lovinall	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic Our first time together naked, Pink Floyd's "Shine On You Crazy Diamond" was playing (I'm a Floyd freak). To this day it is our favorite. __________________ I know I was born. I know that I'll die. The in between is mine. (PJ)

10-03-2007, 11:16 PM	#14 (permalink)
purpletiger Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 144 Location: NC Status: couple	Re: We can't agree on music to make sex more romantic You should google Morcheeba and see if you like her tunes. They have a nice beat, she a great sultry voice. It might work. First thought that came to my mind seeing what you both like. Of course, I think "Nine Inch Nails" downward spiral has a great beat - "I want to F**K you like an animal"

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