Sexy dressing for the guys - Ladies perspective?

[SuAndBud]

We're off to Cap d'Agde this summer (thousands of naturists and swingers in France).

Daytime dress code is naked.

Evening dress code is sexy/provocative and there are a number of night clubs and swinger clubs that encourage daring attire and where playrooms are also provided.

Su can dress easily (she's got a lot of provocative and revealing outfits), our favourite is a full red lace body stocking which is crutchless and with breast cut-outs. She accessorises with a crutchless black or diamante thong and half-cup, push-up, or peep-hole bra &/or nipple-clamp tassles and black knee high boots.

A sight to behold which is sure to prompt admiring looks from and conversations with interested parties of either gender.

I'ts pretty easy for a female to dress sexily, revealing to varying degrees their assets (cleavage, breasts, nipples, navel, buttocks, legs, nape of the neck - surely one of the more horny parts of a female's anatomy - even the pussy in enlightened places like Cap d'Agde or Hedo).

Whenever a guy tries to do likewise by emphasising his crotch, six-pack, buttocks, biceps or chest, as like as not he looks like an escapee from The Village People.

I know that a nice shirt and slacks or well-fitting jeans are ordinarily attractive, but I need some advice on what might be deemed risque but not Camp to complement Su and send out similar signals to the swinging fraternity at Cap, during the evenings.

[Chicup]

Swank

You ARE in Europe after all for it.

[des1re06]

Hubby has linen, drawstring pants that I love. They're lightweight, and easy access. If he's dancing with me, I can feel his package, and it makes me hot.

He gets them at mauishirts.com. They have nice shirts too, and good quality. They don't wrinkle, which is a plus.

Have fun! Your misses sounds alot like me.

Mrs. D

[2BeDeviled]

Jeeze I'm struggling with this one too! Last night trying to take piccies (forget the Towel Sharks ... beware the "Sarong Shark" ) of Mrs BeDeviled for SLS, I manage some good ones ... Of course she attempts to reciprocate but I just seem to wind up looking like "Chester the Molester" . I'd like to just chalk it up to poor "self-image" but suspect it's more likely poor "self-reality"

[SuAndBud]

Thanks for the help. The Hawaiian Website was particularly helpful. The SWANK lounge lizard suit, A la Peter Stringfellow, was funny as hell but not quite my style lol. (No offence if it was intended to be serious. Different strokes and all that - lol).

A male friend has suggested going "commando" or thonged in a short Toga or Roman style white "skirt" with a strategically placed slit up one side of the crotch, for teasing purposes.

Sounds OK, actually. Got the legs for it, lol.

Su's for it, too.

So that's one night sorted.

We're there for a whole two weeks though!!!!

There must be other cool sexy guy wear available.

Some of you must have been to dress theme party/club nights and spotted some guy in an outfit you wish you or your male partner had thought to wear.

Does anyone know any websites selling Togas etc?

How about super sheer light cotton or even cheesecloth opaque(ish) strides?

Over to you girls or non-cheesey style fellas.

Thanks in anticipation.

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by SuAndBud

Whenever a guy tries to do likewise by emphasising his crotch, six-pack, buttocks, biceps or chest, as like as not he looks like an escapee from The Village People.

Bud, you're right, and this is hard!

I think a lot depends on the man's physique. Women have a knack for dressing down the areas they want to draw attention away from, and dressing up and drawing attention to the areas they want to show off. There are so many styles for us to choose from, so we have all of these options for different body types.

If the man has the physique for it, going shirtless with a few accessories (for fun) would look very sexy. How about the Chippendale look, shirtless with just a tuxedo bowtie and cuffs on? This would work with fitted black pants.

How about the "Dirty Dancing" Patrick Swayze look, verrry tight black pants with a tucked-in, mostly unbuttoned shirt? http://www.patrickswayze.net/Movies/dirty11.jpg

Or...OMG...Patrick Swayze in that muscle shirt... http://www.patrickswayze.net/Movies/dirty13.jpg

I like the toga idea, too. I've seen some sexy Halloween costumes (you could probably easily find these on websites) that are very sexy for men....like the Roman Gladiator. facelick

I went looking around for swing club attire ideas....
Here's a "smoking jacket", very Hefner looking: http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDe...ultclassicmens

Here's another version called the "ladies' man": http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDe...ultclassicmens

"risque but not Camp"

Oh....I just noticed this part. If the Patrick Swayze outfit or the smoking jacket and pajama pants idea is too camp, I just don't know!!!

[SuAndBud]

Thanx Tybee and des1re.

So, it's decided. A Toga for the first night.

Bud wears the Swayzee muscle vest pretty much all the time already (although those in Cap don't know that and I certainly won't be able to wear one in the daytime - lol), so that's the second night sorted.

I noted that the male half of des1re wears a kilt at times (Bud's actually got his own tartan, courtesy of his Irish father) - there's little much sexier than a kilt as I discovered when I wore it in Manhattan once (wow, don't you Yankee ladies just go crazy for a guy in a kilt, huh)? So that's night number three put to bed.

Having looked at each of your profile pics, the thought of either (or preferably both) of you linking arms with bud and Su in similar attire to Su's would mean Bud could wear a boiler suit, a space suit or his birthday suit - no-one's gunna be looking at him anyway. Your blonde voluptuousness' contrasting with Su's sultry brunette petiteness will command the voyeurs' full attention (so that's the fourth night sorted - lol).

3 more and we're done cuz after week #1 we can just repeat for the second week.

Hey, we're getting there.

As Joe Cocker once sung "I'll get by with a little help from my friends". XX.

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by SuAndBud

Bud wears the Swayzee muscle vest pretty much all the time already

Oh really! When do we get to see a picture of this?

Originally Posted by SuAndBud

Having looked at each of your profile pics, the thought of either (or preferably both) of you linking arms with bud and Su in similar attire to Su's would mean Bud could wear a boiler suit, a space suit or his birthday suit - no-one's gunna be looking at him anyway. Your blonde voluptuousness' contrasting with Su's sultry brunette petiteness will command the voyeurs' full attention (so that's the fourth night sorted - lol).

I'll check my calendar and see if I can find my passport.

[SuAndBud]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Oh really! When do we get to see a picture of this?

Tybee, Help me out with another piece of ladyheadturning evening attire and you can have all the pics you want

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

I'll check my calendar and see if I can find my passport.

If you and Mr Tybee promise to share the delights of Cap d'Agde with us this summer, you won't need a passport. We'll arrange for you guys to have Diplomatic Immunity!!!