what sex toys to buy for a beginner?

[scott17201]

My gf doesnt have any toys and might have used them once. i want to get her some what r the best ones to buy? wed like to use them in her vagina and in her ass.

[ohash01]

Depends on what she likes. Intense, not intense? You really can't go wrong with a dildo/small vibrator, that depends on how much sensation she wants. If she wants stuff for her behind, get a small butt plug to start out with...you can increase in size if she is comfortable. Some things tend to be expensive. Especially the wacked out gizmos with 10 speeds and attachments.

For less expensive...how about blindfords (which can easily be made out of handkerchiefs or kitchen towels) and feathers if she's not TOO ticklish. A spatula for light spanking? The possibilities are ENDLESS for sex toys you can find in your house that are pretty inexpensive.

Be sure you guys wash anything that is used for anal play carefully before it's used back in the vagina again. Just stick it in the sink with some fairly warm water and a gentle soap. Be careful though if you get anything with cords or batteries...don't want to get that part wet.

[JustAskJulie]

I don't think any woman should be without a vibrating egg, get one with a remote that allows for varying degrees of intensity.

[Dooode]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I don't think any woman should be without a vibrating egg, get one with a remote that allows for varying degrees of intensity.

Ohhh .. you mean like the ones that go in the panties with the wireless remote that the husband keeps?

WOOHOO! We're having fun now!!!

[ohash01]

Haha! I want one of those remote control do-hickeys SOOO badly. But it's just not practical. My SO works NOWHERE near me. (He works from home, I work on the other side of town)...so unless they make one with a 15 mile radius, no dice. Although, I think it would be great to be completely inappropriate with it...

If you ever see a woman in a Columbus grocery store slumped over her shopping cart breathing heavily...you will know I have purchased one and Jon is somewhere in the store. Haha.

[TH1PG490]

The best sex toy out there is the hitachi magic wand.

A good one to start with for vaginal penetration would be probably a beaded dolphin, for anal probably anal beads.

[Menage_a_Trois]

I'll second the Hitachi Magic Wand as probably the best all around vibrator for clitoral stimulation.

However for a co mplete novis I would suggest starting with what is called a Pocket Rocket Vibrator. This is the perfect starting point along with a good book or video on masturbation.

Hope that helps.

The Other Mrs. Menage