Strap-Ons For use on Him

[RussErin]

Hello,

My husband has been trying to get me to use a strap on with him for about a year now. I have been hesitant, telling him the reason is because I don't want to hurt him with it. Well the real reason is because I am a larger woman, I wear about a 20/22, and I am afraid the strap on will not fit around me. Now I don't even know if these strap on's even really strap on like I am picturing them, around your waist...or if they go on another way. I really want to do this for my husband and I guess I am looking for someone to tell me that the strap on will "fit" me before I go embarrassing myself down at the sex shop!

Erin

[Terrileex]

Hi, I have a strap on that I used on a friend. I had a little bit of trouble controling it but once it was in it worked fine. I got my online so I didn;t have to go into a store. They come in many different sizes and mine is really like a pair of underware that stretch. They come in the mail in brown wraping.. You go for it girl. You might just enjoy the power lol.

[RnKin Fla]

Hi there! I understand exactly where you are coming from. I wear a size 26 and could not find a strap on that fit to save my life.

But I found a site where you can order leather goods that are made to order, and they are actually affordable too!

You have to send them your measurements, and they make everything to fit.

The company is JT's Stockroom. You can find them at www.stockroom.com

Good luck! And have fun!

[bimrdcpl]

Hi this is for the nice lady that want to do her husband....it is an awesome experience and everyone should be able to enjoy it. I sell toys for a living its my business...my bread and butter....so i know of a strap on that is wonderful...i own one and it pretty much the only one i will sell. Its called the Rachels Harness. It ahs ajustable straps so it will fit everyone no matter how big you think you are...it is open at the bottom so even your man can wear it to do a dp on you if you like..even better he can eat you while you are wearing it or you can use a dildo the possibilities are endless with this one. It is also a ring system so you can wear any size dildo from a butt plug to a huge dildo as long as it has a base and a ring to fit it...it doesnt slip around and its washable......big bonus throw the straps in the washer. I hope this helped you. Dawn

[Mikinlin]

How did you ever talk your wife into useing a strap on on you? I have been trying to get her to do it for some time without any luck.

[OhioCouple]

From a female perspective, it could be that your wife views this as unconventional for a male, rendering them to be either bi or gay.

When my husband first brought up the idea of purchasing a strap on, my first thought was whatever for? I thought he was talking about the one which males wear. Since I am not really into inanimate objects (I much prefer the real thing), I was very confused. He then told me that he was speaking of the ones that women wear. After much discussion we did purchase one and we have had great fun with both men and women alike.

It is no secret that most men achieve a higher level of orgasm when their prostate is being massaged and that many men just want to have an experience of being penetrated if only by an inanimate object.

If your wife is objecting to even penetrating you with her fingers then chances are you will not be able to talk her into using a strap on. If she does do that for you, then explain to her that you are just wanting to take it to another level.

Good luck,

Lori

[perlwizard]

I have not tried this yet, but plan to this Christmas.

From http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/vide...tml#v-ftl-2244:

Bend Over Boyfriend
A hugely sexy, enormously entertaining instructional tape on...well, on women fucking men up the butt, hosted by the ever-wonderful sex educator and sex goddess, Carol Queen. The first-ever non-lesbian video by Fatale Productions, it's aimed at male-female couples who want to explore male-receptive anal sex (although the information is pretty much fine for anyone of any gender or orientation who's interested in buttfucking). It covers a wide range of butt-sex-related topics -- fingering, dildos, butt-plugs, lubes, rimming, enemas, safety, cleanliness, general anal health -- all with a cheerful, sex-positive, non-judgmental attitude. The advice and information is clear and accurate and extremely useful, but it's not dry or boring at all -- the presentation is raunchy and funny, and there's lots of yummy, explicit sex scenes (featuring some seriously gorgeous non-porn-star performers) illustrating the techniques discussed. A unique tape in many ways, it doesn't make a lot of the standard assumptions about sex and gender that most porn and sex-ed videos make. It pretty much stopped the workday dead in our office when we put it in the VCR. We love this tape, and can't recommend it highly enough.

We have a special Bend Over Boyfriendpackage deal for our on-line customers! If you order Bend Over Boyfriend, any dildo harness, and any dildo or butt-toy, all on the same order, we'll give you a 15% discount on all of them! This offer only applies to orders placed directly from our Website, the stuff all has to be ordered at the same time, and you have to get at least one of each (i.e. one harness, one dildo or butt-toy, and one copy of the tape) (1998, 60 min.)

Edited: Updated URL

[RussErin]

I did a search for the Rachels Harness and couldn't seem to find it anywhere. Can you tell me where I can find this product? I am thinking of giving my husband a Christmas present he has been really wanting if I can find a strap on that will fit me! Thanks

Erin

[perlwizard]

http://www.better-sex-toys-for-women....htm?E+scstore

[RussErin]

Thank You!

Erin