Strap -on advice?

04-24-2002, 05:48 PM

I'd like to get a strap on that I use when I'm with other girls. There are a ton of different styles it seems. The Vac-u-loc ones look neat as you can change the attachments for different sizes, but I'd also like one that gives me some pleasure as well as her. Any suggestions?

4sum · 04-24-2002, 06:11 PM

We've used the vacculock ones with a leather adjustable strap system and it seems to chafe a bit more than the ladies would like. Plus the adjustment can take some time going from one lady to the other....look for a nice comfortable one piece stretch unit. The vaccu lock system is great but the quality of the harness did leave something to be desired.

speedstreem · 05-14-2002, 09:04 AM

quote:
Originally posted by <Missy>:
I'd like to get a strap on that I use when I'm with other girls. There are a ton of different styles it seems. The Vac-u-loc ones look neat as you can change the attachments for different sizes, but I'd also like one that gives me some pleasure as well as her. Any suggestions?

speedstreem · 05-14-2002, 09:05 AM

quote:
Originally posted by <Missy>:
I'd like to get a strap on that I use when I'm with other girls. There are a ton of different styles it seems. The Vac-u-loc ones look neat as you can change the attachments for different sizes, but I'd also like one that gives me some pleasure as well as her. Any suggestions?

We use the stormyleather terra-firma. Use silicone dildos, not cheap but they are the best. Try blowfish.com

Sybian · 06-12-2002, 07:17 PM

As a guy who loves to be on the receiving end of a fine dildo wielded by a lady, I would recommend stormy leather terra firma and a good silicone dildo. my favorite store is www.babeland.com . huge selection, great people and customer service.

TomF_22033 · 07-09-2002, 09:58 PM

As a guy who has recieved the strap on a few times, I'd also have to say the the lady that I played with that had one really liked the Stormy Leather also.

Regularguy · 07-10-2002, 01:15 PM

I think they make strap on dildos where just a little bit lower they have another slightly smaller dildo that goes backwards up the wearer so she gets some too......

***JustAskJulie*** · 07-10-2002, 01:46 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Regularguy:
I think they make strap on dildos where just a little bit lower they have another slightly smaller dildo that goes backwards up the wearer so she gets some too......

They do but if you've ever tried to wear one of those you know that they don't work as great as they look. THe smaller dildo for the person wearing the strap on, is shorter but very thick. The combination of length and girth don't combine well to make it go in/stay in very easily. If it was a little longer and tapered I think it would work a lot better. I finally got so annoyed with mine that I just pulled the smaller dildo off it.

swingsa · 07-11-2002, 09:18 AM

While speaking about both sides getting a ride off the strap-on, has anyone tried the nexus and nexus junior, available at http://www.babeland.com/catalog/dildos.html#dblhead ???

I'm trying to find a strap-on for my girlfriend to use on me, and also to ensure that we both have fun, these look like a good bet. Anyone have anything to say on the subject ?

imsnowman · 07-12-2002, 12:03 AM

The Nexus works well for my lady using the short, curved end. The longer end is a little short for me (and I'm not oversized) but, we can work around it with certain positions. I would imagine that the JR. would be way too short.

BTW, are you the "sunswingers" from SA? The fellow who wrote in with the question about your GF going off without consulting you? If so, how did things work out? Well, I hope.

swingsa · 07-19-2002, 09:37 AM

quote:
Originally posted by imsnowman:
The Nexus works well for my lady using the short, curved end. The longer end is a little short for me (and I'm not oversized) but, we can work around it with certain positions. I would imagine that the JR. would be way too short.

BTW, are you the "sunswingers" from SA? The fellow who wrote in with the question about your GF going off without consulting you? If so, how did things work out? Well, I hope.

Hi imsnowman - yup - thats me - for an update, I can tell you that this past weekend we both went up to visit the same group of friends together - you could call it my introductory weekend to swinging - WOW !!! What an experience is all I can say. I am converted

Swinging ROCKS !!!

I think our relationship has taken a huge step forward thanks to me finally becoming part of that part of her life. For interests sake, what positions are the most accommodating for you when your girlfriend is using the nexus on you ?

[ 07-19-2002, 09:47 AM: Message edited by: sunswingers ]

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04-24-2002, 05:48 PM	#1 (permalink)
<Missy> Posts: n/a	Strap -on advice? I'd like to get a strap on that I use when I'm with other girls. There are a ton of different styles it seems. The Vac-u-loc ones look neat as you can change the attachments for different sizes, but I'd also like one that gives me some pleasure as well as her. Any suggestions?

04-24-2002, 06:11 PM	#2 (permalink)
4sum Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 92 Location: CT Status: Fourple	We've used the vacculock ones with a leather adjustable strap system and it seems to chafe a bit more than the ladies would like. Plus the adjustment can take some time going from one lady to the other....look for a nice comfortable one piece stretch unit. The vaccu lock system is great but the quality of the harness did leave something to be desired. __________________ Champagne for my true friends! And true pain for my sham friends! ~ Oscar Wilde

05-14-2002, 09:04 AM	#3 (permalink)
speedstreem Registered Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 3 Location: Long Island, NY Status: couple SLS Name:speedstreem	quote: Originally posted by <Missy>: I'd like to get a strap on that I use when I'm with other girls. There are a ton of different styles it seems. The Vac-u-loc ones look neat as you can change the attachments for different sizes, but I'd also like one that gives me some pleasure as well as her. Any suggestions?

05-14-2002, 09:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
speedstreem Registered Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 3 Location: Long Island, NY Status: couple SLS Name:speedstreem	quote: Originally posted by <Missy>: I'd like to get a strap on that I use when I'm with other girls. There are a ton of different styles it seems. The Vac-u-loc ones look neat as you can change the attachments for different sizes, but I'd also like one that gives me some pleasure as well as her. Any suggestions? We use the stormyleather terra-firma. Use silicone dildos, not cheap but they are the best. Try blowfish.com

06-12-2002, 07:17 PM	#5 (permalink)
Sybian Registered Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 3 Location: Grand Rapids, MI USA	As a guy who loves to be on the receiving end of a fine dildo wielded by a lady, I would recommend stormy leather terra firma and a good silicone dildo. my favorite store is www.babeland.com . huge selection, great people and customer service.

07-09-2002, 09:58 PM	#6 (permalink)
TomF_22033 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 202 Location: Christiansburg, VA Status: Single Male	As a guy who has recieved the strap on a few times, I'd also have to say the the lady that I played with that had one really liked the Stormy Leather also.

07-10-2002, 01:15 PM	#7 (permalink)
Regularguy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 102 Location: USA Status: S. Male with girlfriends	I think they make strap on dildos where just a little bit lower they have another slightly smaller dildo that goes backwards up the wearer so she gets some too......

07-10-2002, 01:46 PM	#8 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,306 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	quote: Originally posted by Regularguy: I think they make strap on dildos where just a little bit lower they have another slightly smaller dildo that goes backwards up the wearer so she gets some too...... They do but if you've ever tried to wear one of those you know that they don't work as great as they look. THe smaller dildo for the person wearing the strap on, is shorter but very thick. The combination of length and girth don't combine well to make it go in/stay in very easily. If it was a little longer and tapered I think it would work a lot better. I finally got so annoyed with mine that I just pulled the smaller dildo off it. __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

07-11-2002, 09:18 AM	#9 (permalink)
swingsa Active Member Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 14 Location: South Africa	While speaking about both sides getting a ride off the strap-on, has anyone tried the nexus and nexus junior, available at http://www.babeland.com/catalog/dildos.html#dblhead ??? I'm trying to find a strap-on for my girlfriend to use on me, and also to ensure that we both have fun, these look like a good bet. Anyone have anything to say on the subject ? __________________ keep the faith ;)

07-12-2002, 12:03 AM	#10 (permalink)
imsnowman Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 429 Location: TX Status: couple	The Nexus works well for my lady using the short, curved end. The longer end is a little short for me (and I'm not oversized) but, we can work around it with certain positions. I would imagine that the JR. would be way too short. BTW, are you the "sunswingers" from SA? The fellow who wrote in with the question about your GF going off without consulting you? If so, how did things work out? Well, I hope.

07-19-2002, 09:37 AM	#11 (permalink)
swingsa Active Member Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 14 Location: South Africa	quote: Originally posted by imsnowman: The Nexus works well for my lady using the short, curved end. The longer end is a little short for me (and I'm not oversized) but, we can work around it with certain positions. I would imagine that the JR. would be way too short. BTW, are you the "sunswingers" from SA? The fellow who wrote in with the question about your GF going off without consulting you? If so, how did things work out? Well, I hope. Hi imsnowman - yup - thats me - for an update, I can tell you that this past weekend we both went up to visit the same group of friends together - you could call it my introductory weekend to swinging - WOW !!! What an experience is all I can say. I am converted Swinging ROCKS !!! I think our relationship has taken a huge step forward thanks to me finally becoming part of that part of her life. For interests sake, what positions are the most accommodating for you when your girlfriend is using the nexus on you ? [ 07-19-2002, 09:47 AM: Message edited by: sunswingers ] __________________ keep the faith ;)

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