sheer top...what would you think?

Peter & Tanya · 10-03-2002, 05:07 PM

i don't know if this may be off topic, if it is please excuse me.

i'm quite into seeing my girlfriend in sexy dresses. i don't know why, just love to see her daringly sexy. my gf is not really into exhibitionism, but for my pleasure she would put on those sexy clothing and besides she'd love to show off her beautiful body.

straight to the point, she doesn't wear any underware most of time, leaving an impressive shape of the nipples. and she's used to wear some semi-sheer tops and she'd feel great about it. but we wanna try something more daring. why not a totally sheer top? we're wondering. she's proud of her breasts and would be more than willing to show them to anyone who wants have a look. and i'll also feel excited to see her that sexy. but we're concerned about how people will respond to that. will people be offended? what would you think if you see such a girl on the streets?

JMR · 10-03-2002, 05:39 PM

sounds great to us...who wouldnt love to see a nice set of fun bags with the nipples only slightly covered up... U do need to be conciderate of WHERE she wears the top...a bar, club or other such adult place would be fine. But not to the grocery store at 7pm when there are kids there. how ever the grocery store at midnight would be OK [lol]

TeamSoBe · 10-03-2002, 08:01 PM

It depends on where you are. Where we live it's perfectly acceptable for a girl to wander around topless, and we're getting to the point where my wife doesn't really own many tops that are opaque. When we leave here and head for a more conservative area we have to remember to be conscious of the local custom. On a Friday or Saturday night in a nightlife-oriented area, though, your girlfriend certainly won't be the only girl walking around with her boobs hanging out.

Peter & Tanya · 10-05-2002, 10:39 AM

thanks for the input.

but what i was talking about is not the nightclubs. my gf actually often dances topless and was once fully nude in a rave party or something (and people kissed her tits as a courtesy

, which was quite sensational.

what we're thinking about is dressing some opaque tops in public. we've noticed most people are relatively tolerent about exposing nipples, but genitals are still quite a taboo. how would "normal" people on the streets respond if they see a girl's breasts almost clearly exposed? will this get the police involved for obsenity? [ROFL]

besides, do you think it'll be a problem for kids to see a young woman's tits? i would not definitely let kids in any sex act, but exposing the breasts should be okay, i think.

Quin · 10-05-2002, 02:24 PM

I have several extremely sheer tops and two outfits in particular where the top and pants are sheer along with some dresses that while not sheer, show much more skin than most women will show. I wear these to nightclubs, swing clubs, regular parties where there will only be adults, swing parties, and occasionally out to eat, depending upon the establishment we'll be dining at. I would NEVER EVER wear any of these anywhere there will be children. When wearing a sheer top, I always carry along a vest or jacket depending upon whatelse I'm wearing. I have two leather skirts that have both a matching jacket and matching vest to and my leather pants and suede pants have matching jackets only.

I don't feel it appropriate to wear such clothes when you know you'll be in a setting where there are or could be children...or there are people who could be offended. So these aren't clothes I wear when I'm shopping at the mall, at the grocery, at the gas station, or in everyday life situations.

Quin
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Quin · 10-05-2002, 02:31 PM

quote:
Originally posted by Peter:
besides, do you think it'll be a problem for kids to see a young woman's tits? i would not definitely let kids in any sex act, but exposing the breasts should be okay, i think.

You quite obviously have no children and aren't a parent. Take it from a parent, we strive to protect our children and keep them innocent for as long as possible. So no, seeing a breasts, penises, pussies in public are not okay.

IMHO, exposing a body part to a child is a mild form of pedophilia, because you're exposing it for the thrill that you and the other person, in this situation a child, would receive. It reeks of perverseness.

Quin
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ddrewd · 10-08-2002, 09:50 AM

quote:
Originally posted by Quin:

IMHO, exposing a body part to a child is a mild form of pedophilia, because you're exposing it for the thrill that you and the other person, in this situation a child, would receive. It reeks of perverseness.

Boy, Quin, did you ever send this thread off in a new direction!

At the risk of having Julie tell us to start a new thread, I want to make a quick comment: IMO, pedophilia is all about intent, as is exhibitionism (as it's defined). But the two are not the same.

Exhibitionsists who flash children by mistake are not guilty of mild pedophilia, but of gross indiscretion. If you're going to live that lifestyle, you've got to be more careful.

It's the same thing when Mommy and Daddy are having a couple they swing with over for dinner and the flirting gets a little out of hand.

Okay, back to the topic....sheer tops. It's sexier when you think you see more than you actually do. There just aren't that many materials and colors that walk that fine line.

Drew

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10-03-2002, 05:07 PM	#1 (permalink)
Peter & Tanya Active Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 26 Location: Australia	sheer top...what would you think? i don't know if this may be off topic, if it is please excuse me. i'm quite into seeing my girlfriend in sexy dresses. i don't know why, just love to see her daringly sexy. my gf is not really into exhibitionism, but for my pleasure she would put on those sexy clothing and besides she'd love to show off her beautiful body. straight to the point, she doesn't wear any underware most of time, leaving an impressive shape of the nipples. and she's used to wear some semi-sheer tops and she'd feel great about it. but we wanna try something more daring. why not a totally sheer top? we're wondering. she's proud of her breasts and would be more than willing to show them to anyone who wants have a look. and i'll also feel excited to see her that sexy. but we're concerned about how people will respond to that. will people be offended? what would you think if you see such a girl on the streets?

10-03-2002, 05:39 PM	#2 (permalink)
JMR Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 88 Location: michigan Status: married	sounds great to us...who wouldnt love to see a nice set of fun bags with the nipples only slightly covered up... U do need to be conciderate of WHERE she wears the top...a bar, club or other such adult place would be fine. But not to the grocery store at 7pm when there are kids there. how ever the grocery store at midnight would be OK __________________ If your gonna Play atleast Play HARD!!!

10-03-2002, 08:01 PM	#3 (permalink)
TeamSoBe Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 507 Location: South Beach, Florida Status: M. Half of Couple	It depends on where you are. Where we live it's perfectly acceptable for a girl to wander around topless, and we're getting to the point where my wife doesn't really own many tops that are opaque. When we leave here and head for a more conservative area we have to remember to be conscious of the local custom. On a Friday or Saturday night in a nightlife-oriented area, though, your girlfriend certainly won't be the only girl walking around with her boobs hanging out. __________________ i love everybody. you're next.

10-05-2002, 10:39 AM	#4 (permalink)
Peter & Tanya Active Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 26 Location: Australia	thanks for the input. but what i was talking about is not the nightclubs. my gf actually often dances topless and was once fully nude in a rave party or something (and people kissed her tits as a courtesy, which was quite sensational. what we're thinking about is dressing some opaque tops in public. we've noticed most people are relatively tolerent about exposing nipples, but genitals are still quite a taboo. how would "normal" people on the streets respond if they see a girl's breasts almost clearly exposed? will this get the police involved for obsenity? besides, do you think it'll be a problem for kids to see a young woman's tits? i would not definitely let kids in any sex act, but exposing the breasts should be okay, i think.

10-05-2002, 02:24 PM	#5 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	I have several extremely sheer tops and two outfits in particular where the top and pants are sheer along with some dresses that while not sheer, show much more skin than most women will show. I wear these to nightclubs, swing clubs, regular parties where there will only be adults, swing parties, and occasionally out to eat, depending upon the establishment we'll be dining at. I would NEVER EVER wear any of these anywhere there will be children. When wearing a sheer top, I always carry along a vest or jacket depending upon whatelse I'm wearing. I have two leather skirts that have both a matching jacket and matching vest to and my leather pants and suede pants have matching jackets only. I don't feel it appropriate to wear such clothes when you know you'll be in a setting where there are or could be children...or there are people who could be offended. So these aren't clothes I wear when I'm shopping at the mall, at the grocery, at the gas station, or in everyday life situations. Quin __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

10-05-2002, 02:31 PM	#6 (permalink)
Quin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,136 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	quote: Originally posted by Peter: besides, do you think it'll be a problem for kids to see a young woman's tits? i would not definitely let kids in any sex act, but exposing the breasts should be okay, i think. You quite obviously have no children and aren't a parent. Take it from a parent, we strive to protect our children and keep them innocent for as long as possible. So no, seeing a breasts, penises, pussies in public are not okay. IMHO, exposing a body part to a child is a mild form of pedophilia, because you're exposing it for the thrill that you and the other person, in this situation a child, would receive. It reeks of perverseness. Quin __________________ One thing about me is that I'm consistant in my behavior, my thoughts, and my posting. I don't sell out or change for any reason outside of my own self wanting to. What you see is what you get: today, tomorrow and every day after that.

10-08-2002, 09:50 AM	#7 (permalink)
ddrewd Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 123 Location: On the road in Oklahoma Status: Single Male	quote: Originally posted by Quin: IMHO, exposing a body part to a child is a mild form of pedophilia, because you're exposing it for the thrill that you and the other person, in this situation a child, would receive. It reeks of perverseness. Boy, Quin, did you ever send this thread off in a new direction! At the risk of having Julie tell us to start a new thread, I want to make a quick comment: IMO, pedophilia is all about intent, as is exhibitionism (as it's defined). But the two are not the same. Exhibitionsists who flash children by mistake are not guilty of mild pedophilia, but of gross indiscretion. If you're going to live that lifestyle, you've got to be more careful. It's the same thing when Mommy and Daddy are having a couple they swing with over for dinner and the flirting gets a little out of hand. Okay, back to the topic....sheer tops. It's sexier when you think you see more than you actually do. There just aren't that many materials and colors that walk that fine line. Drew __________________ Drew Coming to a theatre near you!

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