Benwa Balls

[ratimadan]

I would like to purchase a set of ben wa balls for my wife as a surprise gift. We are going on a week long vacation soon and want to insert these in her vagina to get her excited aand aroused. We need a type of balls that would not fall out of her vagina, as she walks around, and the kind she can keep inserted in her vagina in all day long.

We believe there are several types of vaginal ball inserts that can be purchased on-line, such as from several sex toy stores. However, we need a type that is not too heavy, will stay put in her vagina and at the same time keep her stimulated and that she will enjoy fully.

Any recommendations and suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

[Erotifunguy]

Hello folks! Erotifunguy here!

Sounds like you two plan on having some naughty fun on your vacation! That's great! I just so happen to own an adult store that sell toys so perhaps I can help out with some info!

First off there are a number of different ball-like toys that are commonly referred to as "Ben Wa Balls". The brand name Ben Was come in a variety of sizes and materials, but the traditional balls tend to be smooth and heavy. The metal balls tend to be the heaviest. If you want real Ben Was, I suggest that you try those! There are, however, a number of other balls on the market that can do the same job and are made of lighter materials. Known as "orgasm balls" or "power balls" these alternatives can be made of a number of different materials (latex, jelly, plastic) and can be found in a variety of sizes, shapes, and textures. Some also even vibrate! Fun stuff!

To keep a ball set in the vagina for an extended period of time, I would recommend using the lighter weight and flexible balls. If you want more feeling go with multiple ball set (3+) and put them in deep. (A cord prevents withdrawal problems). Use a little lubrication if you worry of accidental discharge or fallout of the toys. (I know, she may get lubricated alot from the arousal. But hey, that's the risk you take when you keep them in there for awhile! Maybe try a textured set to keep them from slipping.) I would recommend that if any ball set is worn under regular clothes during regular functions, that there be no exertive activity that can make them come out! (No running, splits, kick boxing, or gymnastic/ballerina moves!) You can also use some extra padding up front in panties to prevent any embarrassing accidents.

Another similar alternative is, of course, the anal love beads. These serve a similar function anally but are smaller and have more balls. With these there is less likely possibility of coming out from tighter anus. Don't know if you are into that or not, but these can be just as thrilling and naughty! Just knowing that they are there can be turn on!
Another toy to consider is a "butterfly" type vibrator that can be attached to the ladies vagina for clitoral stimulation. Many women have been known to wear these under regular clothes for all-day enjoyment! These may be worth a shot! Small wire-fed vibrators known as "eggs" and "bullits" can also serve to fulfill this function more internally. These can come in a variety of sizes, shapes, textures, and colors! (flavors?) Gotta watch out for vibrating noises with these...don't want too many curious looks!

> Side question: What would people think about a remote-controlled internal or attached vibrator? The partner could control from across the room! That would be fun indeed!

Whatever you decide, shop around and ask alot of questions when you purchase. Most adult shops and online stores, I hope, do not alow returns after you have tried/bought something. (Sanitary reasons). It seems embarrassing asking a stranger about intimate toys, but they are there for that! We are professionals!

So, I recommend lighter balls or even an egg. You can find a number of sites that sell these if you want to order online. Search for "exotic novelties" or "adult toys" and look for companies that specialize in balls and eggs. Calexotics is a good source for a good variety that I have used.

At any rate, hope I have helped someone a bit! Let us know how it all turns out! Details please, so that we can learn from your experience!

And c'mon experienced swingers! Chime in on this topic! I know that there are some freaky folks out there who have had the sort of fun that these fine people are looking for! What was your experince like? Share.

Anyway, have fun on your vacation! Or should I say........have a ball! (Yeah, I know. Couldn't help myself!)

Later Days and Better Lays,
Erotifunguy

[YourPlaymates]

Well hello there! I have tried a variety of different styles, sizes, and materials of ben wa balls over the years and finally found what I believe to be top of line...for me at least! In my book the Smartballs Silent Pleasure balls are a definite must have. I've included a link below to provide you with more information on them.

I must say that I use them quite often...on occasion you may even see me grinning from ear to ear through my workouts at the gym!

Here's a link for more information:
http://www.distinctivetoys.net/products/4002.html

[Erotifunguy]

Hi, Erotifunguy here!

Well! As it turns out there are already a few remote control vibrating eggs and butterflies (even butt plugs!) available on the market! Awesome! Gotta get me some of these! How could I have missed out!?

These are fun toys, I bet! If anyone plans on or has experimented with these, please post and let us all know how/if they work! How was the comfort? The vibrations? Did you have good range on these?

Let the fun begin!
Erotifunguy


P.S. Also heard there is a vibrating bra! Fun stuff! Any takers on that?

[SnozzberryBlu]

So... tell me guys, just how do these things work??? I have always wondered about that, and never bought them because it doesn't sound like they would do anything (not if I just put them in and didn't pull on the string)... so.. how do they work???

[nandc3536]

My hubby surprised me one night before we were heading out to the movies (with the kids) by handing me a set of ben wa balls and telling me to put them in. It was soooo fun! They did however get "lubricated" and lose their feeling, but just knowing we were doing something "naughty" kept us both smiling. Hope you have a great vacation!

[fun_pairTX]

Wasn't BenWa the heavy set guy on Hawaii Five 0?

[dragonladieshd]

uh.. I sell benwa balls, and according to my company they are to help the lady tighten her p/c muscles. The tighter the muscles the stronger she grips during orgasm. The object is to squeeze so they don't fall out...

also the real ones are just two balls no strings attached

[northindycpl]

What are they supposed to do inside? Are they supposed to vibrate, or something? I have plain old standard metal balls that came in a little case. there weren't any directions and I have always wondered what to do with them!

One time I used them about 10 years ago, and I didn't notice anything happen, other than my pussy feeling heavy.

Are they supposed to be inserted and then I walk around and feel them clank inside? Are the supposed to be worn during sex? Are they for the Keough Expercises? (that is what I thought they were for, and I thought I would become aroused with them while doing them- didn't happen though)

Also, the ones that we bought were kinda expensive (like $50) and they have done nothing but sit my drawer for 10 years. After I read this thread I looked at them and they are rusty!

Should I throw them out and get new ones? Does rust happen a lot? I am not sure that I want to insert somethign that has the possibility of rusting inside me... to the plastic ones work just as well?

[Miss_Piggy]

I've never used benwa balls myself but the ones I have seen have just been plain metal balls like you describe.

As far as I know you just stick 'em in there. I think they are meant to be arousing. And they are good for strengthening those muscles.

and if they're rusty? Get new ones for sure! Of all this things I've considered putting in my vagina rusty balls are NOT one of them!

[dragonladieshd]

If they are rusty,I would throw them out. if you never used the ones you had. Don't waste your money on something your not gonna use.


As far as I have been told the purpose is to not let them fall out. you can use them durring sex or self pleasure, they can hit places the ordinary penis can't...lol

[looking2swing]

I have a set of the heavy metal Ben Wa balls and I love them. I really don't use them for arousal but for exercise. I do kegels with them in.... Works great!

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Miss_Piggy

Of all this things I've considered putting in my vagina rusty balls are NOT one of them!

That just struck me as funny as hell...

Poor Rusty. Never gets to put his balls anywhere

[intuition897]

Just noticed an interest in remote control sex toys. For all you handymen/women out there who know about electronics, have a boo at this web page:

http://www.symtoys.com/toys.html

I'm a total vegetable about electrical spaghetti, but if there are any brainiacs out there who can render the instructions to make the pager vibrator in laymans terms, lemme know, eh?

[MoonWtrs9]

http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PRO...ealth/SO333010

smart balls!

i find that these really arouse me and they have a similar purpose to ben wa balls.
you can insert them and walk around with them. there is a loop/cord that hangs outside your lips so that you can pull it out later.

i like to use it for pleasure as well as exercising my pc muscles.

i'd walk around with them all day if i could but i know i cant walk around my apt for more than a couple minutes before i drop my pants and just start playing with myself!

hope that helps!