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One of the things that worries most men is premature ejaculation and disappointing the lady or gentleman if in a bi situation. I worry, as do most men, that when the time is at hand that we will preform to a standard that does not disappoint our partners. One of the things that helps at any age is the use of male enhancers such as Cialis or Viagra. I find that taking a Cialis (my personal choice) allows me to from the get go, get harder, gain some size, remain harder longer, and after ejaculating I can recover quicker and get hard again and be ready for round two. Does anyone else have any observations on this issue?

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The miracles of modern medicine. Certainly can keep a guy in the game longer.

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For those of us with ED these drugs are a lifesaver. Without it even getting let alone retaining an erection is a challenge. I use Cialis. It works longer for me than the 36 hours it is supposed to. It has made sure that my performance has been great either with Swap or just doing exhibition. The only time I had a problem was when i tried to push it and hadn't taken my med for a few days. Lets just say that was a bit of an embarrassing night for me.

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I get similar results with over the counter at the sex shops, all herbal instead of mostly chemical

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Cialis worked great for me. I don't have ED; however, nerves sometimes interfere with my performance. Cialis seemed to solve that problem for me.

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I've always wondered what taking one of these would be like. Problem is I don't think my doctor would buy it if a healthy 33 year old male walked into his office and claimed he really needed some Viagra.

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Late nights, alcohol, more than one dip in the pool have all contributed to my failure at times. The problem for me was worry after the fact. The more I worried the worse the problem became and the worse the problem became the more I worried and so on and so on.

 

After the second failure I went to my urologist and told him the deal. He prescribed vitamin "V" and sent me on my way. Wow, it was liking taking an automatic weapon to a knife fight or having your really big brother behind you when you're facing down the school bully.

 

I have not had a problem since, which removes the worry, which removes the "root" problem which makes me feel better which makes me a better person which is good because it's all about me...right?

 

I have found headaches and swollen sinus tissues to be side effects but not unbearable by any stretch. I have a prescription for Cialis that I just had filled but have not had a chance to test drive it. I'll weigh in when I do.

 

As a side benefit for me, Mrs. Ekies can tell when "Big Brother" is on board because she has three places where the fit is tighter and she appreciates the occasional "tighter" fit. he he.

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I've heard some good reviews from guys we've played with, and since I sometimes have problems with nerves (or whatever) keeping me "down" during play I'd love to try out one of these meds. But how would I get them? I don't really want to lie to my doctor and say I have regular ED, because I don't. Tell the doctor I'm a swinger and sometimes need an extra boost? My doctor is female and that would make me feel rather awkward. Buy them from some dude in a gas station parking lot?

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As a Libertarian, I am not opposed to people self-prescribing as long as people accept full responsibility and accountability for any unintended consequences.

 

I have tried it all to deal with performance anxiety and to offset the effects of condoms and too much to drink or eat (mostly anxiety).

 

I have self-prescribed Cialis and Viagra and feel that Viagra packs a greater punch over a shorter time although for me it lasts longer than advertised. I also have participated in "experiments" of a drug that increases libido as well fixes ED problems and can say the future is bright in this regard.

 

For overthinkers and worriers try some natural anti-anxiety food supplements such as Lemon Balm and L-theonine. I have found them very effective in quieting things and helping to relax enough to enjoy the evening. My opinion is that the side effects of prescription anti-anxiety meds are worse than the cure for anything other than the most extreme cases.

 

However, putting all that aside, what I have really learned is that being with the right partner makes much more difference than any drug. I was recently with a lady I that I had absolutely no problems with which is atypical for me. Maybe she was just skilled or perhaps we matched up well on a psychological level. Anyway, I think we need to look deeper at the root causes of performance failure. Maybe we and the lifestyle are setting unrealistic expectations relative to human nature.

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I've always wondered what taking one of these would be like. Problem is I don't think my doctor would buy it if a healthy 33 year old male walked into his office and claimed he really needed some Viagra.

 

This is about being honest with your doctor. Just tell him you would like to try any of the three. It is not that big of a deal just ask. The main thing is getting checked for something like High Blood Pressure or Heart problems or medications you may already be on.

 

Don't buy it on the streets, there is no need too. Just Ask your doctor. I've never heard of anyone being turned downed at any age, as long as your healthy enough to use it.

 

I told My doctor I didn't feel I needed it, but would like to have a few for the times that I'm tired and preoccupied from work. I mean I was telling the truth, there are those times :o.

 

The conversation went something like this:

 

ME: "Doc, I would like to try Viagra or one of the others like cialis.

Doc: "Why are you having problems "

Me: "Not really, But I'm not at my best sometimes after a long day at work and I would like to give my wife more, on those times. I'm not getting any younger. I just want to have the best sex I can at times when I'm not feeling my best"

Doc " I see, your blood pressure is good and everything looks good with what I see. Soooo lets see, Oh here is a sample of 50Mg Viagra "

 

Very, very big smile on his face.

 

Doc: "Try One half of the pill and wait for an hour before taking the other half. Don't take more than one per day. Call me, or on your next visit I could give you a prescription."

 

Me: " Are there risks taking these if I don't have some sort of E.D. effecting my future sex life? "

 

Doc: " No, your in good shape. It is healthy to have a woody, I support the woody "

 

His exact words and we both laughed :lol:

 

Just be honest with your doctor. That's all there is to it. Really :cool:.

 

Wouldn't you feel better knowing your in good enough shape to have them legally than risking something otherwise.

 

I know I trust my Doctor....

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I get simular results with over the counter at the sex shops, all herbal instead of mostly chemical

 

What sort of stuff do you use Bama?

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My doctor readily gave me a prescription (and as many renewals as I want) for Cialis. Unfortunately one of the side effects is a major headache - sort of counter-productive. Instead of taking one pill every 3 days I cut them in half and take it with an extra-strength Advil. Works fine. My doctor said I could take a half pill every day if I wanted though I understand that Cialis is coming out with a one-a-day pill. Works better for me than Viagra.

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After taking one of the ED drugs, has anyone had one of those painful, semi-throbbing huge erections that just wouldn't go away? If so, what did you do for it? My doctor once gave me some medication that is normally used when you have the flu, and that worked fast and well, but then I lost the medication and the prescription.

 

I've heard that drinking something like lemon or lime juice also makes the erection go down. Something about relieving some kind of gas in the cells that makes it possible for them to fill with blood to get the erection in the first place?

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Since we're on the subject of Cialis and Viagra, did you hear the one about the fellow enjoying himself at the Hedonism II club in Jamaica, but won the "popper contest" (aka "slammers" on the west coast) and fell asleep on the beach for several hours and got horrible sunburn, specifically to his upper legs. He went to the hospital, and was promptly admitted after being diagnosed with second-degree burns. With his skin already starting to blister, and severe pain.

 

The doctor prescribed continuous intravenous feeding with saline, electrolytes, a sedative, and a Viagra pill every four hours.

 

The nurse, who was rather astounded, asked, 'What good will Viagra do for him, Doctor'?

 

The doctor replied, 'It won't do anything for his condition, but it'll keep the sheets off his legs.'

 

OK, so I couldn't resist. Just don't tell Julie!

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Chris&Amelia said:
What sort of stuff do you use Bama?

 

at present am using vitrix (I think I spelled it right) have been logging brief experience with it and am liking it in this thread https://www.swingersboard.com/forums/topic/30770-herbal-libido-enhancers-and-sex-supplement-recommendations/

 

Next time I am in the sex shop I will look up the name of the other I used and liked may be a while though as my Job keeps me out and about with only one day for family.

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WeUse said:
After taking one of the ED drugs, has anyone had one of those painful, semi-throbbing huge erections that just wouldn't go away? If so, what did you do for it? My doctor once gave me some medication that is normally used when you have the flu, and that worked fast and well, but then I lost the medication and the prescription.

 

I've heard that drinking something like lemon or lime juice also makes the erection go down. Something about relieving some kind of gas in the cells that makes it possible for them to fill with blood to get the erection in the first place?

 

I think that the drug that you are referring to is amantadine (Symmetrel)? but I am NOT an MD, but a psychologist. It could be something else? Also, an erection that lasts longer than 4 hours. is trouble! You really need to see an MD if the erection will not go away -- and that may well mean a trip to an emergency facility. Forget any embarrassment, it happens regularly especially with the ED drugs everywhere. Erections that long can potentially cause impotence and/or sterility -- don't mess around if you have an erection that lasts that long! Further it is rather painful :( Maybe the dose that you are using is too high? I have tried Viagra and Cialis -- I like Cialis much better, personally, but the downside is that with a 1/2 life of roughly 36 hours. any side effects are going to be with you for the better part of 2 - 3 days ( compared to, say, Viagra). I have yet to try Levitra...when I use Cialis or Viagra I always use 1/2 of a dose as that is all that I usually require (can always take the other half, right)? -- but everyone is different. I have found that the two major side effects are GI distress and headache -- Cialis is better tolerated by me...hope that this was of some help. Good luck! Again, don't wait on erections that last longer than 4 hour - follow the manufacturer's advice as well as your physician.

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I have used them a few times, and as a man with no ED problems it helps me last longer. That is the main reason i take it. I used it this past weekend so i could do the girl I was with from behind (her fave.) and last longer. It works well. I am usually get it up more then once with out a pill so with the pill it makes it easier!!

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I have been using Cialis for a few years and find that if I take it in the AM on an empty stomach it will work , when needed, for about three days. The best thing I use once in awhile is an injection in the penis with Caverject. If used properly an erection is almost instant, works for about two hours and always produces a strong erection. It does not hurt because the penis does not have nerves where the injection is used. There is another injection like Caverject but I can not remember the name.

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I started with Cialis but it was kind of rough on me with muscle aches and light-headedness. Worked great! Just expensive so I switched to Levitra which works great and is much cheaper at WalMart. Much! These drugs enhance the experience, allow you to go longer without coming too fast and you feel it better with a fantastic erection. Even if you don't have ED they will enhance your sexual experience. Even with Levitra I find it lingers for a day or two. Good stuff! Don't be afraid of it.

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At 37 I don't have issues but have used Cialis while on vacation at desire. Why drive a caddie when you can drive a ferrari? That's my thinking.

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The biggest problem, for me, with Cialis, is the friggin cost. It's not a covered drug on my insurance, and at $28 each, it's more than a "minor" expense. Although it's dubiously legal, when I get a chance to buy a friend's supply (which is covered by his insurance)... for 50-75% off retail... it's a win win for he and I.

 

Within the next week or two we are going down to a Mexican Pharmacy to see if there's as big a cost difference as there is for everything else. the border is just a couple of hours, and there's a great hotel on the American side. Been there many many times for dental work (about 80% LESS cost than stateside), but during prior trips, buying ED meds wasn't on our mind. $280 - $350 per USA prescription makes a weekend trip for meds, reasonable.

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junglecouple said:
The biggest problem, for me, with Cialis, is the friggin cost. . .

 

I was under the impression, just from seeing television advertising, that Cialis is supposed to be a daily medication? Does this mean that for me to be "ready any time", it would cost me $28 a day?

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Nurse and I have been discussing the use of these enhancers to make things easier. I don't have ED, but I am finding that it takes more for me to get an erection or to keep it once I do get it. I agree with miacpl30: It's time to turn my Caddie into a Ferrari. :lol: ~Captain

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Ok so I started this forum and now want to give you an update. In my search for more fun with "happy" pills, I took a long shot chance on purchasing Cialis from a Canadian source. I went to Canadapharmacyonline.com and ordered 30 Cialis. Now a few things to understand, Cialis is a trade name and in other parts of the world the generic name is Tadalafil. So when I put my order in I understood that I would get my medication from out of the country sources. I felt taking a chance for the cost was worth the price. I ordered 30, 5mg tablets for $30.50. They called me to verify that I indeed had the right to buy the Tadalafil (Cialis) and I had to send them by fax my prescription from my doctor. They would not process my order without the script. That made me feel so much better about the purchase. My Script was for 90 tablets over a year and they indicated I could reorder for up to and not exceeding the 90 tablets in the future. I need to get a new script for any more than 90 tablets. That price was so much lower than what I had to pay at Wal-Mart or Walgreens. I was buying 10 mg, tablets at like $22.00 each and then cutting them in half for what I needed. This was like a dollar and change for one tablet. That being all said I received the tablets and they came from a pharmacy in India and the trade name in India is Mildfil (Tadalafil). 30 tablets in a box with a copy of the prescription neatly folded attached to the outside of the box. This I feel is for customs clearance. Now for the results. I have taken my first two dosages on two different days and I must say I am very very happy and pleased with the results. Taken 3 hours before naked play is about to begin I experienced a robust, hard cock; the same results as I has gotten with Cialis. An added plus I found a lack of the headaches that everyone seems to experience with Cialis. The generic Tadalafil was terrific without any of the past side effects of the Cialis. I am going to reorder as soon as I can, it does take some time to get these from India but it is well worth the effort and the price can be gotten for under a dollar per tablet with larger orders. I hope this helps, best of luck.

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I do not really have ED, just hitting the age where it is not quite as hard. Took the V pill and got so hard I could not ejaculate no matter what I did. GF loved it because it is harder and longer, but I do not need it. When talking to my doc, he said I have tried them all and they are great for regaining male youth so if your doc is male you know he is using those pills. Has anyone had this problem of not being able to complete?

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I was using Levitra from WW but when they went way up on their price, I decided to try the overseas sources. I realized that I might get ripped off but took the chance. The company I ordered from also gave a 4 pill bonus of Calais on one order and a 4 pill bonus of Viagra on another. I must say that I am very pleased with all of the medications that I have received so far! They all work just as well if not better than the US versions as I do not seem to have the nasal congestion that I always had with the US pills. And as previously posted, my pills came from India too.

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I also buy from Canadian pharmacy .com. Generic Viagra. 100 mg which I cut in half. It is plenty and just helps to avoid any nerve issues. Usually when we are in a group situation where things can get a little intimidating.

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I used the Canadian Pharmacy once years ago and still get 3-4 calls every week, trying to sell me more. I finally told them I DIED... lol. I then told them I was a "relative, just here clearing up my "brothers" affairs and they proceeded to try to sell ME (as a bereaved relative) meds. LOL

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In our clinic I saw the practitioner, not the physician. In our state a physician practitioner can prescribe. I knew her as I'd cut my leg pretty well a couple years ago, she stitched me up and we got along well. She told me after asking a bunch of questions that she thought I had performance anxiety, not real ED, and that viagra would help with that. No problem with giving me the prescription. She also knows my wife, so she was very sympathetic.

 

There is a coupon online for three 100mg pills free with a prescription. Go to Vigra.com. I think there is one for cialis also. I find viagra lasts a lot longer than four hours, essentially for two days. Never had a problem with a long erection, as mine goes down when I come. I did have an experience where a lover teased/tortured me with intercourse continuously for an hour. She was into going very slowly, teasing, then fast for several thrusts, then slowly. She was on top most of the time. The orgasm that followed was extraordinary.

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Lascivious L&L said:
. . . There is a coupon online for three 100mg pills free with a prescription. Go to Viagra.com. I think there is one for cialis also. . .

 

When you get to my number of years, the problem of the steep price for Viagra resolves itself. I surpass my out-of-pocket limit with my health care insurance early enough each year that all I need to do is wait until about April and the Viagra is about $4.50 a pill. The doc writes me a prescription that includes five refills so I'm set for the year.

 

Thanks for the tip about the coupon. I apparently don't qualify as I am long past my first prescription. But it looks like a good deal.

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This has been an interesting thread.

 

I am going to visit my doctor and plan to have a discussion about ED meds. I am hope these meds can enhance my sexual experiences.

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I finally got up the courage to ask my doc for some and he shot me down quick! Even after I went over how I had performance issues, etc. he said: "You're too young, you don't need it!"

 

I hate the thought of shopping around from Dr. to Dr. until one gives me an Rx!

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I am going to visit my doctor and plan to have a discussion about ED meds. I am hope these meds can enhance my sexual experiences.

 

Things went well with doctor and he prescribed 50 mg of Viagra. So now we will see if it enhances my sexual experiences.:)

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Cialis stays active in your body for 36 hours so you could have multiple sexual experiences. Viagra lasts about 4 hours.

 

Since everyone is different some people have side effects from one that they don't get from the other or one works better than the other.

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On 5/13/2008 at 10:19 PM, BorisNatasha said:

I've always wondered what taking one of these would be like. Problem is I don't think my doctor would buy it if a healthy 33 year old male walked into his office and claimed he really needed some Viagra.

Tell your doctor that you and your gal are going on vacation and you would like to have a great time. Can I have a prescription for viagra or some samples to try. You won't be the first patient to ask, and won't be the last. My doctor gladly wrote me a prescription and got me the cheapest deal according to milligrams that my insurance would cover.

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