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Old 12-30-2005, 11:12 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Default Re: "Bad Boobs" ... Defined

I will state that all your replies have made me feel a little better about my "bad boobs", especially you guys ... and you single guys.

I am very glad that so many men seem to understand the changes that time and gravity place on a woman's body and appreciate rather than are repulsed by that.

I still don't think I am gonna be terribly comfortable when I am on top and they are just hanging there and my husband is stretching and bobbing his neck like a baby bird trying to locate a nipple, though. :rollseyes

And actually, Intuition, I have repeatedly looked into lift/reduction surgeries, starting from about 10 years ago. They have vastly improved their methods for performing these surgeries and reducing scar visibility. I know what you mean about the "zipper" look, but honestly, good plastic surgeons can avoid that altogether nowadays. By the time I get around to being able to afford such surgery, they will have improved it even more.

It IS a confidence thing, I know. And while I appreciate that so many men are understanding of a woman's body changes, I still would feel much more confident and a little more exhibitionistic if I could feel 100% better about my body's appearance. That's what I am shooting for.

Our single male friend was over last night. I was telling him about this thread. He was also going through my husband's playboys trying to find a particular issue. While he was flipping through all those great boobs, he was listening to me talk about this thread ... even HE said he thinks my boobs are great .... so, I guess they will do .... for while anyway.
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Old 12-30-2005, 11:19 AM   #17 (permalink)
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I can relate. I had large boobs when I was about 14. Now I'm a D, and although I'm only 22, they're already sagging! So, I'm really not looking forward to gravity taking its course as I get older.

But like most of the men here have said, they don't mind. All the guys I know will say they prefer this or that, but once the girl is naked, it dont matter to them.

So, ladies, embrace what you have and learn to love it! Afterall, your partner(s) will!
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Old 12-30-2005, 11:29 AM   #18 (permalink)
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Txduo, as a male, I like to add few comments about your "boobs thoughts". I believe that only man who sees woman as an object to sex would ever define "good" or "bad" boobs. For any man who are in seeking a mutual relationship and friendship with a woman, whether in lifestyle or not, there will be no such thing called "bad boobs". When I met a woman, I see her with a complete human being. We all came with different figure and shape, that makes an INDIVIDUAL and PERSONALITY. I have to admit that I am a breast man and always love to play with them :-) I can honestly say this, I never can, or even think to judge a particular body part rather a person with everything. Further more, I can not agree with your hubby more about the most thing that tune me off would be with someone who has no selfsteem. If I would start thinking about what part of my body is not "good" enough, I will be still hiding in my basement now :-) I am a pilot and we often said that no two landings are the same. Everyone has its challenge and excitement. I can apply that concept to "boobs" for sure, every set has their uniqe feature and always give me the new meaning of excitement :-)))

Please stop worry about your boobs. They are just fine if not better than those so call pointed to north :-))

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Add another male voice to the chorus singing the praise of natural breasts, no matter the size or shape.

My wife is a DD and she has the same complaints...they face south and sag. She's always talking about breast lift surgery, but it doesn't have to happen because I don't like them or consider them "bad boobs". I keep trying to talk her out of surgery.

Our male friends also love her large breasts and comment every time how much they enjoy them.
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It's a funny coincidence actually, I just changed my avatar. I figured everyone had been subjected to looking at my ass for quite some time, I'd change the scenery.
I liked your old avatar intuition, but I really like the new one.

Now back to the program,

Mrs. GT has reached an age were when she gets down to her optimum weight her nipples are noticably lower. This has resulted in me making a couple interesting observations.

First, I have decided this is all part of the big master plan, you see, when us boys are in our teens we can work with our hands over our heads all day long whithout any problem. But as we age we notice our circulation isn't what it once was and it is much more comfortable to work with our hands down around our belly than it is working with them up around our chin. So the fact that womens boobs become lower as they age is not a problem, its mighty convenient.

Another thing women don't seem to realize is that as most men age their close up eyesight starts to degrade, I know I am in my mid 40's and can't focus on anything closer than about 2 feet away. So how handy it is to me that womens boobs as they age naturally move down to a better natural focus distance.

Seriously, I am with the others, and anyone that knows me will tell you I am a boob man. Oh, I like the booty, nice legs and pretty eyes, but I like boobs the best. Other than few boobs I've seen that have been surgically messed up, I haven't seen any "bad" ones yet. And I can state without any reservations that I am sure I would like all of the boobs refered to in this thread.
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