Big boob issues - Page 2

Chemistry_0518 · 03-02-2005, 07:10 AM

Folks, we all may be putting the cart before the horse here. NJDixie (or arcpl4mfm) this couple has already agreed to meet with you and you already seem to get along well. Go with it! After all, it is not as if this "big boob" preference suddenly appeared to him this morning. It must have been something he's wanted (for whatever reason) for quite some time. Perhaps as a part of a fantasy? But my point is that despite that, they have already agreed to meet you. So what is the problem?

curiousRI · 03-02-2005, 03:24 PM

I can understand how she feels. I too, am a b cup and not that i have a problem with what i have, but some men just prefer more than a mouthful.

I'm thinking though, that if you've been chatting/emailing with this couple, and you've agreed to meet, then if it was such a big deal to the man that the f of the couple they play with have large breasts, then i would think that he would have mentioned that to you in your chats/emails.

I also agree that to each his own. People should be allowed to pick and choose who they play with. However, you may miss out on a really good time if there are so many restrictions!

twoplayful2 · 03-02-2005, 04:39 PM

Totally agree with CuriousRI, a good point. If it was all that important, good chance he'd have mentioned it by now. I might still mention it anyway, just that you noticed the updated profile and find out how strong a preference it is. It's really not likely to be that big a deal, else he'd have probably had it highlighted on there when he first put the profile up.

Nymph an' Satyr · 03-02-2005, 11:15 PM

Most of you are being far kinder than I would be.

If he says "Only big boobs need apply," well frankly, I would cop an attitude about it. My attitude would be: "Oh please, don't feel compelled to make an exception for me- go right ahead and find your big boobed woman, I'm outta here." "Don't do me any favors."

You want only big boobs?- pound salt Rocko.

Like I said- most of you are being far kinder than I

DBL D · 03-03-2005, 12:09 AM

NJDixieDarlin,

Personally I think I would go ahead with a meeting and show the guy what you're all about and that there just may be more to life than "Big Boobs"; of which he could be the biggest "Boob" if he sticks with his "preferences".

Check out our avatar. He'd turn that down???

Show your colors, gilrfriend!

Male D

NJDixieDarlin · 03-03-2005, 09:46 PM

Thank u all for your advice. I did email them and said that I saw their profile update and that I was only a 34b and now they r no longer talking 2 us. So I guess it IS an issue. And while I totally agree that everyone is entitled to their choices and prefenences, I am a bit put off by the manner in which they delt with this. But will not let this stop our quest!

DBL D · 03-03-2005, 09:57 PM

Sorry to hear that! You just head out our way and Fem D and I will show you the proper respect. facelick

34 B...Has a nice ring to it.

Male D

NotsoNew · 03-03-2005, 11:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NJDixieDarlin

Thank u all for your advice. I did email them and said that I saw their profile update and that I was only a 34b and now they r no longer talking 2 us. So I guess it IS an issue. And while I totally agree that everyone is entitled to their choices and prefenences, I am a bit put off by the manner in which they delt with this. But will not let this stop our quest!

NJ Dixie -

Hopefully, they just have not responded to you yet and are not blowing you off. But if they are, you could be better off without them.

I know that it is tough - we had a couple that we had been seeing for some time. All of a sudden, they stopped replying to our emails. We wondered for a time if it was something that we did and then we just let it go. Then we did get an email from them a few weeks ago. Chalking it up to they were looking for new experiences but now don't think they meant it the way it felt to us.

Let us know what happens.

adventureUS2 · 03-04-2005, 12:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NJDixieDarlin

I have a 34b chest. Definately not big boobs. So what do I do now?

If he has a problem with them You could come to our house. I can only assume he has seen pics of you. Alot of men talk crap about big boobs but are just happy to play with any boobs they can get their hands on. If he has seen pics of your body clothed or other wise he already knows what to expect. I wouldn't let it get to you. If you meet them you will most likely know whether or not he is interested.

Chemistry_0518 · 03-04-2005, 02:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NJDixieDarlin

Thank u all for your advice. I did email them and said that I saw their profile update and that I was only a 34b and now they r no longer talking 2 us. So I guess it IS an issue. And while I totally agree that everyone is entitled to their choices and prefenences, I am a bit put off by the manner in which they delt with this. But will not let this stop our quest!

Sorry to hear that. Their loss! Now let's see if WE can get together!

EvilMJ · 03-04-2005, 03:15 PM

It's funny because when my friend and I started to play together I was worried about being smaller breasted than her. To prove a point she told me to switch bras with her.....(the men enjoyed this particular experiment) she is a double D and I am somewhere in between C and D. ANyway I actually fit into her bra and she fit into mine. Her's was a tad big, but it did show me that were weren't all that different in size and the perception of her being so much bigger is all in my head.

Her hubby said he was a true 'chestnut' and said not to worry that mine were absolutely fine and he thought they were great. So if this guy won't talk to you because you don't fit his ideal I would not worry about it, there are lots of other guys that would think you are great!

Vespertine · 03-04-2005, 03:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NJDixieDarlin

Thank u all for your advice. I did email them and said that I saw their profile update and that I was only a 34b and now they r no longer talking 2 us. So I guess it IS an issue. And while I totally agree that everyone is entitled to their choices and prefenences, I am a bit put off by the manner in which they delt with this. But will not let this stop our quest!

What a LOSER!

Thank the Gods you found this out prior to meeting them.

Miss_Piggy · 03-04-2005, 03:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vespertine

What a LOSER!

Thank the Gods you found this out prior to meeting them.

I absolutely agree. You're much better off knowing about these things before letting it go to far.

Nymph an' Satyr · 03-04-2005, 05:30 PM

I'll say it again: "Pound salt Rocko."

BradAndJanet · 03-05-2005, 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

.....(the men enjoyed this particular experiment) ...

Yeah.

I don't know why, but that picture is quite 'stirring'!

Weird how that works.

-B

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03-02-2005, 07:10 AM	#16 (permalink)
Chemistry_0518 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 158 Location: Suffern NY Status: female	Re: Big boob issues Folks, we all may be putting the cart before the horse here. NJDixie (or arcpl4mfm) this couple has already agreed to meet with you and you already seem to get along well. Go with it! After all, it is not as if this "big boob" preference suddenly appeared to him this morning. It must have been something he's wanted (for whatever reason) for quite some time. Perhaps as a part of a fantasy? But my point is that despite that, they have already agreed to meet you. So what is the problem?
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03-02-2005, 03:24 PM	#17 (permalink)
curiousRI Active Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Rhode Island Status: Couple	Re: Big boob issues I can understand how she feels. I too, am a b cup and not that i have a problem with what i have, but some men just prefer more than a mouthful. I'm thinking though, that if you've been chatting/emailing with this couple, and you've agreed to meet, then if it was such a big deal to the man that the f of the couple they play with have large breasts, then i would think that he would have mentioned that to you in your chats/emails. I also agree that to each his own. People should be allowed to pick and choose who they play with. However, you may miss out on a really good time if there are so many restrictions!

03-02-2005, 04:39 PM	#18 (permalink)
twoplayful2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 218 Location: Riverside, CA Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twoplayful2	Re: Big boob issues Totally agree with CuriousRI, a good point. If it was all that important, good chance he'd have mentioned it by now. I might still mention it anyway, just that you noticed the updated profile and find out how strong a preference it is. It's really not likely to be that big a deal, else he'd have probably had it highlighted on there when he first put the profile up.

03-02-2005, 11:15 PM	#19 (permalink)
Nymph an' Satyr Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 352 Location: Street, Maryland Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:nymphansatyr	Re: Big boob issues Most of you are being far kinder than I would be. If he says "Only big boobs need apply," well frankly, I would cop an attitude about it. My attitude would be: "Oh please, don't feel compelled to make an exception for me- go right ahead and find your big boobed woman, I'm outta here." "Don't do me any favors." You want only big boobs?- pound salt Rocko. Like I said- most of you are being far kinder than I

03-03-2005, 12:09 AM	#20 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: Big boob issues NJDixieDarlin, Personally I think I would go ahead with a meeting and show the guy what you're all about and that there just may be more to life than "Big Boobs"; of which he could be the biggest "Boob" if he sticks with his "preferences". Check out our avatar. He'd turn that down??? Show your colors, gilrfriend! Male D
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03-03-2005, 09:46 PM	#21 (permalink)
NJDixieDarlin Active Member Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 22 Location: NJ Status: couple	Re: Big boob issues Thank u all for your advice. I did email them and said that I saw their profile update and that I was only a 34b and now they r no longer talking 2 us. So I guess it IS an issue. And while I totally agree that everyone is entitled to their choices and prefenences, I am a bit put off by the manner in which they delt with this. But will not let this stop our quest!

03-03-2005, 09:57 PM	#22 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: Big boob issues Sorry to hear that! You just head out our way and Fem D and I will show you the proper respect. facelick 34 B...Has a nice ring to it. Male D
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03-04-2005, 03:15 PM	#26 (permalink)
EvilMJ Pure Evil..In a cute suit Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple	Re: Big boob issues It's funny because when my friend and I started to play together I was worried about being smaller breasted than her. To prove a point she told me to switch bras with her.....(the men enjoyed this particular experiment) she is a double D and I am somewhere in between C and D. ANyway I actually fit into her bra and she fit into mine. Her's was a tad big, but it did show me that were weren't all that different in size and the perception of her being so much bigger is all in my head. Her hubby said he was a true 'chestnut' and said not to worry that mine were absolutely fine and he thought they were great. So if this guy won't talk to you because you don't fit his ideal I would not worry about it, there are lots of other guys that would think you are great!
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03-04-2005, 05:30 PM	#29 (permalink)
Nymph an' Satyr Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 352 Location: Street, Maryland Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:nymphansatyr	Re: Big boob issues I'll say it again: "Pound salt Rocko."

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