Men, tell us what you like about women.

[robnbarb]

Basics are this.

My wife is very attractive, however she feels because that she is a tad overweight that this detracts from her overall view. She is of the belief that we (men) all look for utra thin, large breasted, skinny waisted girls and that is all. While I don't think any man would say the above disecription is unatractive, I do feel we as guys are not as shallow as some in the world think us to be. I keep telling her, there are tons of women who are not in that one norm that are plenty attracctive.

So she wanted me to ask you men on the board to see if I was right or she. so let's hear it.

[Mephisto]

I'm Not fussy I like em all.

I absolutely love tall leggy redheads, but I tend to go after Short brunettes.

A few extra pounds? no problem, I love hips!! Have you ever seen a grown man drool facelick ???

body types have nothing to do with my attraction for someone. I recall standing in a bar one night and almost falling over for a woman who had her hair up ( remember that Robert Palmer Video, wher all the women had their hair pulled back in a tight bun?? She had her hair up like that . ) It was incredible -- When i finally got the chance to talk to her, I realized she was what would be considered a BBW. It makes no Difference.

Mrs RonNBarb should not be self concsious about a few extra pounds. As long as she feels sexy, man she will turn heads. I guarantee it.

[Pink]

head bang
Guilty Female thoughts, Yup Yup, some of us do have um.
I'm no different although I know I am my own worst critic.
Far from a size 4, I'm now comfortable living in my size 14
body, but it's TONE!!! *cough cough* Maturity has adjusted
things that I see as unattractive in the mirror. Do I work
at fixing it? Some..... yes, but having that body of 25 back
is NOT an option at my age now. Advertising, Movies, Magazines
and such distort what I think I ought to see, rather then
comfort me in what I do. But that first time as a single female
stepping out of my clothes I still get uncomfortable.
So for what it's worth, your wife is normal!

[adventureUS2]

I like women that are self confident
There is nothing sexier then a woman who knows what she want and how to get it. Being in the lifestyle has changed my out look a litle. We have been with hot couples and average every day people. Some women that have a body to die for are inhibited. Big turn off. Some women who are not perfect but are perfectly actractive because they have self confidence. Big turn on. I will take the self confident average women over the hot unsure of her self women any day.

[Spoomonkey]

I like boobs...

Spoomonkey

[tandb]

Thanks for the great topic - it's something that Mrs. T&B and I talk about sometimes. She observed me watching an unknown woman several years ago and asked me why I was so interested in this woman who was, I suppose, a little overweight and had facial features that did not fit the mold of the "classic beauty".

I think that my answer and subsequent conversations changed Mrs. T&B's entire mindset. The unknown woman was VERY self-confident, and for that reason, was absolutely, positively, one of the sexiest women I have ever seen. Her movements were feline and the eyes of every male in the room followed her.

Additionally, if a woman has extra pounds, wrinkles and sags that are a result of her age, they are easily outweighed by the fact that (at least in MY experience) the more mature, sexually confident women are SO much better at sex than their younger "sisters"....

Mr. T&B

[stoutgatte]

Hmmm Spoomonkey, you have such a way with words

[mwsw4ever]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

I like boobs...

Spoomonkey

MMMMMMM........boobies......

I like tha fact that all women are different in some way shape or form.Personality plays a big part too that can make a woman very sexy or very dull.Being overweight to a certain point is fine to me,but i still can't get into the BBW thing,sorry.

[good times]

Once again I have to agree with my simian brother Spoomonkey.

I am often initially attracted by boobs, I saw a t - shirt the other day that I want that said "tell your boobs to stop starring at my face". And not just big ones, I'm an equal oppurtunity boob lover, I like all the pretty ones big or small.

After that the most important thing to me is not the size of the woman (within reason) but how she presents herself that is important. A self confident women with a few extra pounds that is dressed sexy to show off her assets will get me every time. The hottest women in the world in sweat pants and a t - shirt would not. Likewise an otherwise attractive woman lacking in personallity is not for me either.

Now if a woman is grossly overweight, I just can't go there, but I also know plenty of guys that are into the BBW type woman. So as is often the case, I think their is someone for everybody.

[Mephisto]

Originally Posted by good times

Once again I have to agree with my simian brother Spoomonkey.

I am often initially attracted by boobs, I saw a t - shirt the other day that I want that said "tell your boobs to stop starring at my face". And not just big ones, I'm an equal oppurtunity boob lover, I like all the pretty ones big or small.

After that the most important thing to me is not the size of the woman (within reason) but how she presents herself that is important. A self confident women with a few extra pounds that is dressed sexy to show off her assets will get me every time. The hottest women in the world in sweat pants and a t - shirt would not. Likewise an otherwise attractive woman lacking in personallity is not for me either.

Now if a woman is grossly overweight, I just can't go there, but I also know plenty of guys that are into the BBW type woman. So as is often the case, I think their is someone for everybody.

Hmmm slightly offtopic -- Grossly overweight is not, IMO, A BBW. I guess my definition here would be someone who is shaped correctly. Assuming that 36-24-34 is the standard ( i know an impossible standard ) then anything keeping that same body shape to me would be termed BBW.
36-44- 36 is just misproportioned.

No offense intended here. body type is generally the first thing that attracts someone -- the rest comes into play later.

[good times]

I don't think I am anywhere near an expert on it Mephisto, But I have a couple of friends who claim to like BBW's and they have a preference for the 250 to 400 pound girls (which to me is grossly overweight), So that is pretty much all my experiance in that regard. But I'm sure as in most things, opinions vary, and that is pretty much my point. Just because I don't prefer a certain body type doesn't mean their isn't a whole bunch of guys that do.

[Mephisto]

250 to 400 pound girls ??

Can i change my answer?? anyone who can beat me up just scares me --

I pick Mr Spoomonkey's answer.


Boobies.

<-- mephisto is 6'1" 220


Back on topic --


Sexy is all in the attitude as many people will tell you. If you feel sexy, then chances are, you are sexy.

[wrnakedru]

Men who have boobies are very unappealing IMO.

WR

[EternallySingle]

I like a woman that is willing to talk to me without thinking I have some ulterior motive for paying attention to her. That shows trust. Once she trusts me, I start having those, well, impure thoughts about her. Once I know she trusts me, I tell her about my desires and usually things go further.

As far as bodies go, I go absolutely nuts over nipples round butts. Not huge taking up three seats at the dinner table, but there has to be something more than a straight line from her belly to her thighs.

[BradAndJanet]

"Come fuck me" eyes...

...and boobies.

-B