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Most of the time i can cum both ways.. yet they are totally separate. The clitoral is wonderfully delicious mmmm just body shuttering tension then release. The vaginal Orgasm is like a pushing then release and very wet. The g-spot is wonderful thing. Vaginally is the best one for me because I can do it over and over and it is such a relief to my body. The euphoria after is great. Some times it makes me cry. I love it!!!!!!!!! I hate the clean up though.

Well I guess we have talked about it in passing over the past few years. Then one night we drove past encounters like "what is that?" So drove up and ask the valet. Since then we were interested. I got on line and did a profile then I let him read it. He took over the online stuff from there. We went to a few clubs, met some cool, sexy people, got invited to a few things, got invited for a sleep over after about 2 months. My

Oh That was so funny.. I am Hollering.... that has happened to me twice. Not Good. Hot sauce down there. It so wasn't funny at the time. The first time I have forgiven but the second.. I mean come on honey.. So not only have you ruined my P&%$* but you seem to make a habit of putting your dirty hands in me. This won't do so somebody has to do some something. I am still mad about that crap. I know he's sorry and all but it help when you flames coming from your crotch. Oh yeah but its funny now.. he he OUCH! Think I just had a flashback....

Back to report that we have gone to one other club here recently(a couple times) cuz we like the people. And there was no (unwanted) groping. I am glad I did not let my first club experience at Secrets scare me off. We have thoroughly enjoyed the people we have met and gotten to spend time with so far and look forward to more experiences. I hope those of you who are nervous about the groping still go out to the club and let go and enjoy yourselves. I(the female) have opened up and let go a little and I am really shy but I loosen up some, a work in progress I say.. We have not been to any on premise clubs yet but we are just going with flow of things. MMMMM and and it's fun.

It can be sexy to watch but I (the Female) do not swallow.. Not that I havent ever and I will do it by special request for him but not often. He can shoot it any where below the neck preferably.

hmmm anal sex....Well I don't like the pain.. I have to really relaxed. The first time I did it i was on a mood altEring drug and i was very relaxed and OPEN for anything. It was great too. Probably the best orgasm I have ever had. I remind you(my mood was altered). We try every so often while only drinking achohol so that im relaxed but he is not able to go as deep. The pain is awful even when he does it slow and gentle after awhile. He likes to call it practice. How do relax your mind and body with out having to take something other than alchohol to dot it. I really want to enjoy it but i can't.

I'm back to report that at encounters last night no un wanted groping or touching went on. It is a very cl assy and respectful atmosphere. I really enjoied myself. Thanks again for the advice sweet candy. And nice meeting you two sexy fun people. You give me inspiration to not be so up tight.. im working on it.

I sure did love that quote. When I read I Hollered out loud in laughter. Good observation. I can see that you are very funny. Thanks for the early morning laugh.

I think we both thought about it. But it started with me goign out with some girl friends to a swingers club and my interests were sparked. I then later told him about it and he was turned on. That was about 4 years ago. One night not to long ago we went out for drinks and on the way home we rode by this club we had never seen tucked away behind some other clubs and decided to go and see what it was about(encounters). We found out that it was a swingers club. When we got home we decided that we wanted to go and see if we like it. We are both very flirty. When we go out with friends they always ask us why I let him dance with other women. I just say because it's fun and we are just all dncing right? Really it's because it turns me on. I really love to see him enjoy himself and get attention from other women. My fantasy is to see him with another woman or women. I would also like to experience a woman with him. I love to watch in the state of pleasure. I love to watch him getting his flirt on. He is so confident and cute when he's flirting. It makes me wet to think about it. Is that weird? I would like him to flirt and find a sexy attractive female or couple with bi female and them bring them to me. muaahhhhhhhhaa! I really don't have a big desire to be with another man. But im open and i never say never.

He is an Aquarius and I am a Libre. I think we balance each other out sometimes.

Sweet candy: We haven't been to Encounters yet. We have this Saturday planned as our night out at Encounters. Hope to see you there, that would be cool.

Just when i thought I heard of everything..... I have never heard of anal stains. Ya learn something new everyday... I love it! Me being chocolate skinned black have never had an issue with anal stains. Nor have I ever seen an.. humph... Very interesting to say the least....

I wish that I was only being pestered. It would have been different if I dressed suggestively or even dancing sexy i was dancing with my friend in a corner alone when out no where this group group and grind just moved in our direction. One guy and girl were really rough and didnt take no for answer. Don't get me wrong I think the group group thing is cool I would even engourage it. But not what was happening to me and my gf , it was a plain violation. But i have learned my lesson about the group grind n grope, to stay away if im not ready to be fingered and groped like in high school. But any who... we will see what happens this weekend when we go out together for the first time.

In reply to Sweet candy: The club was Secrets. I don't think I'll be going back there unless somethings have changed. We plan on going out to encounters this weekend. I hope it's really nice. It will be our first night out together. The time when i went to secrets i went with girlfriends. It didn't count. But We are very excited to go to encounters this weekend . If things go well we plan to go the Halloween party there this year. Seems like some fun.

Well there aren't very many black people here I take It. Not that it matters. Now the question kept as it was, was not offensive at all until some just took the question waaay left. We( me )being a black woman have been with many black men and other races as well in my experiences( which is what the what question was asking I thought) It's about even I think between black white and latino. in my experiences). I have found that a lot of the black men that I have been with have been very thick and wide not so much long. But good question any way. It's an age old question.