As a swinging couple we have a great deal of experience, most have been wonderful, only a couple have been mediocre and luckily only 2 have been awful. We have become very close friends with three couples, a few single guys and a few single gals. I cherish those sexual friendships, but to be honest the great part of swinging is the next morning theyre gone. Whether you move on to the next and invite them back depends on a lot of factors. There's nothing wrong with one night stands in our opinion.