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Greg & Sheryl

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Greg & Sheryl last won the day on February 12 2008

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About Greg & Sheryl

  • Rank
    Interracial Swingers
  • Birthday 11/03/1966

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Denver, CO
  • Interests
    sex, sports, fitness, photography, music
  • Occupation
    Content Manager
  • Swinging Experience
    More than 30 years combined.
  • Anniversary
    12/14/02

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    Greg69Sheryl
  • Kasidie Username
    Greg69Sheryl
  • Favorite Club(s)
    The Retreat

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  1. For us, the whole point of swinging was to find friends that we could fuck.
  2. Sorry, but it sounds like the relationship is over. It doesn't seem possible for it to survive such an ultimatum.
  3. The "no kissing" rule is not unusual. If that rule is a turn-off for your wife, then give that couple a pass. Swallowing rules are a little more complex. Every woman is different -- some will never swallow, some will always swallow, and some will occasionally swallow depending on how comfortable they feel with the guy. This applies whether the woman is a swinger or not. Feel free to ask about this in advance if this is important for your play.
  4. You can take the guesswork out of this by booking a swinger-specific cruise. Check out your options at TheSwingerCruise.com.
  5. The problem isn't your honesty; it's the fact that you always seem to expect the worst from other people. If you go into any activity excessively worried about worst-case scenarios, that attitude will take all of the fun out of that activity. You should ask your girlfriend to verify this, but she's probably thinking that if you're so concerned about the risks involved in meeting new people, then why should the two of you bother taking any risk?
  6. We hosted parties at Silhouettes, but the club didn't last more than a year. The facilities were great, but Colorado Springs wasn't a big enough market to support the club. The only lifestyle organization currently active in Colorado Springs is VooDoo Leatherworks. As the name suggests, it's primarily a kink organization, but they host "Saturday Seduction" parties for conventional swingers the 4th Saturday of every month.
  7. Your uncertainty about this fellow's inexperience is understandable. As a general rule, we don't bother with lifestyle newbies at all. It sounds as if you sincerely want your wife to enjoy the experience of being with this guy, but you want some reassurance that the situation won't blow up in your faces. The first thing to do is discuss your misgivings with your wife. She may, as luvin eye full suggested, decide to dump the guy, but if she would still like to go forward, the next step would be for all three of you to have a chat so that the guy knows what your boundaries are. Then when you wife goes off to play with him, trust her to enforce those boundaries.
  8. We can't vouch from Kasidie's presence in North Carolina, but generally speaking, we think it's the best site for seeking information about swing parties of regional and national interest.
  9. In our experience, every swing event has a unique mood to it, even when the people attending those events are largely the same.
  10. We've had a swinging-themed Twitter account since 2008. Sharing posts with like-minded people can be a lot of fun, but most of the swingers we encounter either live in another state or another country, so we virtually never hook up with anyone from that site.
  11. It seems that the only people who truly "get" alternative sexual lifestyles are the people who actually participate in them. Even if an outsider earnestly tries to be objective, it's difficult for that person to accurately convey our experience.
  12. Never, ever feel hesitant to ask someone to use a condom. It doesn't matter if the guy is actually fixed -- if you feel more comfortable using a condom, you're entitled to that right. In previous discussions on the Swingers Board, it has been mentioned that saying you've had a vasectomy may be code for, "It's safe to go bareback with me." Still, it's not necessarily bad form to mention a vasectomy on an online profile. If condoms are the only form of birth control used by the lady, then she may feel safer knowing that an accidental pregnancy is less likely to happen.
  13. We did meet some porn stars at the Lifestyles Convention in the 2000s, but we never played with any of them.
  14. You are not wrong for feeling disappointed and slighted. However, you must accept the fact that whenever you go to a house party like the one you described, there is always a possibility that you may not connect with anyone there. This occasionally happens to us, and whenever it does, we simply shrug our shoulders and look forward to the next party. The chemistry among the couples will differ at every party, even when the couples in attendance are mostly the same. It's entirely possible that some of the ladies at this party are open to playing with you, but it didn't happen on this night because they ended up engaging in some woman-on-woman play, first. The next time one of them sees you at a party, perhaps she'll play with you, instead. You mentioned that after several of the women went upstairs, you were left with "women I am not attracted to," and so you "stood away from these folks and just drank my drink." It sounds as if you were giving off an anti-social vibe at that point, so that likely destroyed any remaining chance you had to play that night. If you find yourself in this situation again, put on a good face and try socializing with the remaining guests, even if you aren't interested in playing with them. You'll have a better time, and you'll also come across as more attractive to people you do want to play with.
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