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Darkblue

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About Darkblue

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    Steve and Susanne
  • Birthday 12/15/1960

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Germany
  • Interests
    Metel Detecting and having fun!!
  • Occupation
    Lead driver
  • Swinging Experience
    3years

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    darkblue
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Casa Blance "Menden" Germany

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  1. Now thats wierd and incest is still and always will be a big no no and i am glad to say i would never take part in anything like that.. Steve
  2. We are sort of a softswop couplem why do i say that well simple the wife wont go full swop she says i am more than enough for her and that she has no interest in another guy,dont get me wrong though, she loves to swop and does everything except intercourse,i have no problem with her going fullswop and would love to watch her fuck with another guy but its her choice and saying that i can go full swop if i so wish but i dont or havent sofar as i dont want the other guy to get the idea into his head that he can fuck Susanne because i fucked his wife even if this was discussed before hand. As for being jealous!! never!!! we have had some real good fun and there has never been a jealously problem on our part,its happened with the other couple that we palyed with but never between us and we look at things this way if you happy to go soft swop then fine if you go fully swop then thats fine as well and if your into gang bangs then so be it,everyone to their own and i have seen jealousy issues between full swop couples on more than one occaision so i dont think that this is mainly a soft swop problem but rather depends on the couple themselves and not what they do and with whom.. Steve
  3. Same here We do have a couple that we are interested in us and we in them but they dont kiss and we just love to kiss and as of yet we havent played and i dont know if we will, the last couple who had this rule with us meant we said thanks but no thanks.. Steve
  4. I feel so sorry for you guys in the US, the clubs here in Germany you get changed into something you like as soon as you go in, there's changing areas/lockers so when you enter the club your wearing your nice sexy stuff. Most girls wear anything that's sexy from leather to chain dresses to high heels and nothing else. The guys normally shorts (tight fitting Lycra) but also leather etc and sandals but some are daft and wear nice shorts etc but then put on Trainers and that's looks really gaff...
  5. I have the same thing with my wife and the info i got here was really good, so good that i no longer ask her if she´s interested in another man, we go and do what we feel happy with and even up to date she hasn't bonked another man and she says she is happy that way so i have to accept that and yet we still have lots of fun with other couples. You may find you will have to accept that just does not want to, i have, although i still live in hope... whatever you do don´t bug her about it or she will get fed up and you may end up not swinging at all then all hope is lost and as the others have said she really needs to do this because she wants to and not because you want too, she may well end up blaming you if she has a bad time and if she isn't ready then she most likely will have a bad time.. Steve
  6. Well i am always expecting to be found by a workmate(we were found by an Ex workmate but they were doing the same as us so no problem there) I would just wait out and see if he says anything else and if so,you can either have a quiet word in his ear telling him to mind his own business,if he trys to blackmail you then i would tell him that you will involve the Police as you are not prepared to be blackmailed by him or anyone else..I would also point out that you will tell all that he was trying to get you into bed and because you refused he´s telling everyone about your lifestyle so he had better keep quiet... but whatever you do i wish you the best of luck.. @steve and Terri Thanks for the link very interesting, pity I can't get to see it all only just over 4 mins :-(( Very brave of you to go out and tell the world your swingers!!I Wish I could but work and the wife won't allow me to.
  7. Sounds just like me ok very like me i tend to hold a little back i call it respect for the female, if she gives me a positive signal then fine, i can then be more "ok, I get the message "lets play" type Just because a female is nice towards me doesn't mean that I expect her to play.
  8. We dont like the drama and sofar its happended to us for a few times and we dont like it, heres one of our tales.. We know a Brit couple (very nice they are) they are an experienced swinger couple and we had some fun with them at a club afterwards we were sat at the bar having a drink ect, when Susanne(my Wife) say some friends and she went to say hello and after a few minutes i said i would be back in a minute or two as i wanted to say hello as well, well after about ten minutes i returned and he was chatting up the bar maid which was ok with us and i said "aha i see your chatting up the barmaid!! cant say i blame you she is cute" to which he replied well Susanne isnt taking much notice so i might as well. it tuns out they wanted our full attention and was pissed off because they wont get that as we know far too many at the club we go to and we do not think that anyone has exclusive rights over us or over what we do., so now the wife has decided fine if thats the way they want it, she will now not play with then.i do agree with her and this kind of drama we dont need. Same as being asked if i had fallen in love with another guys wife because we were flirting over MSN such drama is only caused by newbies or those who have their own issues..but thats another tale.. Steve
  9. What about a sticker with"we live our dreams how about you?" or "we do what you dream about" Steve
  10. ROFL... When were out we are always asking ourselves "are they or arnt they" and if not would they?.... Over here they dont have any specific words like "Vanille" so its not an option for use that we could use:sad: i wish it was then we could drop the odd "vanille" here and there and see what happens:EG::EG: Steve
  11. No way!! i have to agree with Mrspoo and NCMD,i see no reason for a prostitute,even if i was desperate i would find another way to relieve the tension;-), a lot of these people are prostitutes because they have no choice, they don't want to jump in bed with me because they want me and find my body adorable, we want like all swingers do a person to jump in bed with us because they want to and not because they are getting paid to pretend they do...
  12. never heard of them before !! will someone please explainmore and give me a possible link to have a look at?? getting very curious!!! maybe a new Xmas gift!!! ;-))) Steve
  13. Sorry but if you barter for sex than thats nothing different to being a hooker!! he/she could give you cash for your services and then you could give it back to them to pay the bill!! all you have done is cut out the exchange of cash!!! No offence to anyone this is just my interpretation of what i have read... Steve
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