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neoparadigm

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About neoparadigm

  • Rank
    Has Left the Building
  • Birthday 01/05/1971

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    single
  • Location
    San Francisco/Las Vegas
  • Occupation
    travel
  • Swinging Experience
    10 years

Swinger Info

  • Favorite Club(s)
    twist S/F
  1. Guess what.. AFF ROCKS! AFF is four people who want SEX not soccer moms and backyard BBQs I am all about AFF great site..
  2. With all the craziness here ...one thing is clear..the only people on here are who are consistently respectful and genuinely helpful are TNT. Diplomatic even to the crazy "neoparadigm". I am signing off this thread for good.. and will no longer respond here. I will start with a fresh thead addressing my real concerns about my personal situation and hopefully we can all learn from TNT about true respect and diplomacy. Any attempts to chase me off the board are just showing a cultish behavioral tendency and the need for acceptance from your like minded peers. In the end my opinions are as valid as yours.. like it or not. The "holier than thou" effect here shows spiritual immaturity and is a clear reflection of the insecurities and fears that slither under your words like crap in a sewer under a highway paved in gold bricks. We have all wasted a lot of time here.. including me..!
  3. My girlfriend once said she likes swinging but not "SWINGERS" geeze can I really relate to that now.. no wonder she just wants to fuck and run out the door.. I never understood but i sure do now..!
  4. Obviously you are all so full of shit about putting your mate first in your life.. Why aren't you doing something positive like writing a love note to your mate or buy him or her that little thing they never seem to get around to getting for themselves? or any other thoughtful affectionate thing you could think of rather that bashing some poster like myself the amazing "Neoparadigm" here today online .. Put that thought on the back burner and take it to the grave..
  5. the pimp thing is so way out... and who are you to judge a pimp anyway.. how do you make a living?
  6. what's wrong with newbies? nothing.. get naked have sex and don't take all this so serious.. have a good erotic time and get on with life.. there is more to life than worrying about the feelings of newbies.. they're there for the same reason.. If they want backyard BBQs with soccer moms there are a whole lot of them here to snack on the chips and salsa.
  7. sounds like you are safe then.. but these other full swap couples or ones looking for bi females could be getting duped here in the months to come after"NEO"leaves the board and is forgotten about as the days fade by.. I won't forget the ones here though..! If you move slowly like you should.. being of such high intergrity and all.. you will be safe.. but anyone who asks to play right away without building a strong and solid friendship base will put themselves at high risk of a duping...! (just for fun though!) there is nothing wrong with a prankster is there? It would be you hitting the bait ... not me..
  8. so many of you have been so disrespectful to me here.. bashing and slamming my beliefs and position on swinging, never asking questions that might help me to find serious answers to questions I have very legitimatly posed here on the forum.. most of you come across as holier than thou, and up until today I have been nothing but repectful and just taking it.. so guess what? someone here is going to take it in the ass... believe me..
  9. I don't think we have any plans for Texas.. but if I ever find you hit our profile in Vegas on a trip out you are going to get a shocking surprise! and your own real awakening about how shallow you really are after neo had fucked your wife.. swinging is about sex first... not friends..
  10. It is truly tempting to dupe some of you here in the months to come.. it would be so easy to do.. our profile name is something different on the other sites.. We are a very hot looking couple and it would be fun to set a trap and then as we all leave the party after playing, we exchange e mails and you get a message from the dreaded neoparadigm.. ! To be honest I am tempted to do it .. How many of these lifestylers would really be there for you like your family or vanilla friends? How many would attend your funeral? For me..swinging is about sex... not swingers.. I don't need anymore friends.. can hardly give enough time and love to the ones I have.. To trade them all in for a bunch of "Lifestyle" compatible swinger friends is the most ridiculous concept I have ever heard on these boards..and some of you are doing that.. So many of you here talk about such respect, integrity and depth of character in the lifestyle, and all I think is what hypocritical BS.. Some of the flakiest, shallow people I have ever met have been quote "swingers" in the lifestyle.. I have found the porn industry to have higher standards integrity. I would completely accept your shallow narrow mindedness at the swing club, fuck your brains out and move on to the next one. There is only one couple here I would invite to my backyard BBQ. People go to these clubs in the hopes of getting laid by other hot couples.. we showed up at a new club in Vegas for the first time, and everyone was on us like fly paper. Six couples hit on us inviting us to play without even knowing our daytime professions. We picked two of them, fucked and had a great time.. So all this BS about friends and BBQs is really just trying to sugar coat the whole thing.. would you really be such great friends if swinging was not involved? Unlikely..
  11. U agree I seem to be missing the point.. let me back track.. I met this woman on AFF and the very first night we full swap with a couple, have a great time, she fucks like a porn star, and I have clearly "found" what I am looking for.. I think, now this is the girl I am going to marry! She is the one who liked my profile on aff.. clearly stating.. "SEEKING SLUT WIFE" and seeked me out..! after this she decides that I am also the kind of guy she really likes and falls in love with me.. then proceeds to pull the rug on the swinging thing which was my original basis for dating her.. she knows this and so do I. I patiently waited to see if she would change her mind and I would maybe bring it up once a month or so.. after 6 months I dump her and tell her we are not compatible and I am going to find someone else to date that likes to swing. A month later she calls me at midnight while I am out of town and has me listen to her fuck a different guy at a famous swing club in Vegas while she has a cell phone headset on so I can hear her get fucked. There are ten people watching this and she did all the work to pick the guy, set this up, and call me so I can enjoy this ... and guess what? I totally loved it! Can we get back together now? she says.. I take her back in a heartbeat. She then breaks into my aff email account and sets up a MFMF situation at that same club a week or so later from a MFM set up that I had already set up with them.. she tells them, look, that guy you are going to play with now has a girlfriend and I want to surprise him with me showing up.. This was quite a surprise to me.. we all met, everything clicked and we played. It was the other couples very first time swinging ever.. the other girl jumped right in, there was girl-girl action, and MFM with the other girl and a DP. My girl only let the other guy do oral on her, and kissed him some. The called the next day wanting us to come over for a BBQ. My girl quickly declined saying, we should never swing with the same couple more than once. She has no interest in all the friendship stuff you all are so fond of. Sex only, one time and move on. This is how she is.. The couple wrote us this beautiful testimonial on aff praising our patience and helping them make their first time a glorious one. When my girl plays, people love her. She is smoking hot, gets really nasty, and makes you a believer in a hurry... We did have the discussion about how often we would swing. She agreed to only 9 times a year. I think every other weekend would be a better compromise.. This is why I am here to discuss these topics and not to be so shamlessly bashed and beaten up.. as so many of you all have been doing. You have been disrepectful to me, rude, unsympathitic, and full of hypocracy which gives a very bad impression of this so called "lifestyle community" I would be ashamed to have her read all these posts from such a bunch of cowards. But I do stick around here for the very few of you who do seem to listen and who do post some interesting things to ponder or share of personal experiences etc... I have learned a lot while wading through all the other idiots. People seem to have this need to be right.. proving me wrong or whatever.. What I am interested in, is trying to work through what might be simple issues to others.. or what might be a very unique situation, (the two of us/ hooker and gigalo).. not sure.. that is why I am here ... for constructive support, or helpful critics, and hopefully a genuine sense of love in the community... you do want to fuck my girl eventually I am sure..! lol I think a lot of you are just full of shit here.. lets say we find you on SSL or whatever, we meet at a club, we are a hot couple and ready to play, my girl is gorgeous, and we all get along fine, laugh, are sexy and just as the play is about to begin ... I announce my true identity the dreaded "Neoparadigm"... would you all quicky put on your clothes and run for the door as fast as you can? I bet not.. you'd all probably say.. hey.. we really enjoyed our conversations with you online, glad we helped you out... looks like things are working out for you two.. welcome to the lifestyle..!
  12. N and T what a small world it is.. we had already talked to you about hooking up on aff.. I remember her showing me your profile.. I'll keep myself annonymous here for the sake of sanity.. if we ever end up playing, I will definatley be the only one who knows about these threads...! lol this is crazy... you guys found us and said you liked our profile! lol!
  13. that was by far the best and most intellegent post I have read.. and thank you for that.. and being as objective here as possible.. You have made some points that I should ponder.. The rest of these posters just seem to be here out of boredom or for entertainment purposes only.. So let me ask this.. if for some reason your current rock star swinging relationship ended ... and you had to go back into the single world.. could any of you go back into Vanilla land? Would you go there to recruit and train a new swinger or advertise for an exsisting one on one of these sites?
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