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  1. Just 'curious', did this problem ever get resolved? And if so, how? My 2 cents: You told him you were not sure from the start right? Ok, then why are some people in this thread blaming you solely for this relationship snag? He could have fled the scene at first sign of hesitation from you, but didn’t. Maybe he thought he could 'break you in' or maybe thought that what had developed might be worth rearranging his priorities over. Did you think you could change him? or rearrange his priorities? Anyways, its just as much his fault as yours; if you really want to place blame. But blame will not help the situation. In 'our' relationship we have done many things, sometimes once or more then once, and usually on a circumstantial basis. For example we may do something, with a couple, in a situation, have a great time and never have any intentions of repeating it. On reflection sometimes we say 'that was great, lets do it again sometime' and other times 'lets not do that again'. But its never a 'lets go find another couple to have sex in the same room with' or ‘lets try to hook up with Bi-chick tonight’ proposition. Could his insistence that he cannot live without this lifestyle be pressing too hard on you? Could you accept it more if it was less of a lifestyle issue? My wife and I do not consider ourselves in a 'lifestyle'; rather, we just 'go with the flow'. Anyhow, like to hear how it worked out.
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