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About GotBatteries?

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Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Rochester, NY
  • Interests
    She reads. Everything, anything. He makes stuff. Food, step stools. Stuff like that. No kids and too many animals.
  • Occupation
    Now that the wedding is over...
  • Swinging Experience
    2 yrs? 3yrs? depends, really, on what you consider 'swinging'. FMF's? or MFMF's?

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    Incognitos
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Being a shrinking violet, she hates clubs, hates crowds. He tends to follow her around.
  1. Chiming in with the majority here. Reverse the situation. Your lady helps the other lady give her man head and you sit back and watch. You watch him fondle your lady, you watch your lady with another lady...eh...after a while, wouldnt you want to maybe, ease on in and stop watching and participate? Even if you are only participating with the same level that the other male is participating in? Seems only fair. Or you could just move on and find another couple that is on the same level, the same page. I agree with this statement...to a point: "As an aside, one thing we don't EVER do is tit-for-tat type of activities." You (I really should have quoted it but...eh, sorry) used the example of anal oral and you werent feeling the need to reciprocate...tit-for-tat...I agree with you that there is no need to reciprocate in kind, but I am willing to be you reciprocated in spirit. You probably participated in some activity that got the other ladies motor running and everyone felt included and no one felt left out or shafted. So...that still would be a tit-for-tat? I think?
  2. I was trying to decided if they really meant that they were going to have sex with the children of the adults they they are currently having sex with. Is that what they meant? Really?
  3. I like that you are sticking by what makes you comfortable.
  4. If you are going to ask for more pictures, that is going to kinda, sorta imply that you are interested. I would be pissed off if someone asked for more pics and then....'Eh, I dont think we are compatable. Nice pics though. Glad you sent them to my private email! Now I can put you on my computer wallpaper and beat off to the image of your nekkid ass each and every morning! Yippppeeee!' Joking. Sorta. Call me paranoid. We wont encourage communications between another couple if we do not find the pictures they already have attractive. Seeing more of a body type or face type I am not interested in isnt going to suddenly make me interested. We usually try and go with something else though. No one really wants to hear that you find them physically unpealling so we might blend it in with: 'Thanks for your email! We did take some time to review your profile and although we can appreciate your creative photography-we really liked the picture with the we see that you are both into as well as and unfortunatly, neither of us is really comfortable with that. Best of luck to you in your search!' If their profile is incomplete, we just go with: 'We really have an appreciation for those who take the time and consideration to fill out their profile. We feel that if you are willing to take the time and consideration with the profile, you most likely will have time for considering us while nekkid-perhaps and unfair assesment, but thats just how we feel! '
  5. This is our prefered method of finishing. Usually, I (female) will ask the male to come on my tuchas or sometimes, my face. Depending on the position. I happen to like it when a guy does that, its visually stimulating as well as...well, hot. So far, it hasnt been looked at as an odd request-at least no one is freaking out because I ask them to do it.....maybe they are and I just dont know? Hmmmmm. The other reason I prefer this is because we have chosen not to use hormonal birthcontrol in our personal life. I feel, rightly or wrongly, that I am taking less risk of having an 'oppps!' with a swing partner by keeping their swimmers away from my pool. So, at least to US, this wouldnt be a strange request.
  6. I have overheard dramatic screamers and I have wanted to stuff a sock in it. Then again, I am 'vocally appreciative'. Always have been:) I think this is one of those situations that is only annoying or suspect if you arent the source of the noise. I *try* to be quiet if the situation demands that I be more discrete and I agree with the poster that said something along the lines of it not being 'as good'. For me, I am so distracted by the idea that I *have* to be quiet that I cant focus on having a good time. The distractions really suck. I get very frustrated with partners that dont make even a peep. I am not looking for a constant uninterupted stream of chatter, but a grunt to let me know they arent dead is always a plus! I just really dont like anyone stuck on 'repeat'. (Oh yeah, Daddy! Do me, Daddy! Do me, Daddy! Fuck me! Fuck me! Fuck me! Fuck me! Harder! Harder! Harder! Harder! Harder!) Uggg.
  7. The first couple we met in the lifestyle wanted to meet in public at a park and have a picnic. Sure, seems like a good plan. They brought their kids. My jaw dropped. Never even occured to me that people would involve their kids like that. Their kids were all over us like we were giving away candy and puppies. Dont get us wrong, we *like* kids and all. (We dont have any and we arent planning on having any but we are generally the type to talk to them, play video games, read stories and stuff. We've got alot of neices and nephews so we arent that weird anti-kid couple everyone knows.) We just thought it was weird that they offered up such an incrediably important part of their life that quickly. It seemed unsafe, disrespectful (to us as well as to their kids)...and odd. Too much, too soon. That first meeting with that first couple really creeped us out. *shudder* I imagine it like singles dating. You want to make sure they are important enough to you before they become important to your child. Now, we have *very* good lifestyle friends (totally different couple) we play with that after a while we have met their families, they have met ours and it seems so normal. Its totally fine:)
  8. Yeah...when guys try too hard with clothing to come across as 'sexy' it always seems to involve leather and almost always goes straight to the GAY end of the spectrum. Unfair, I know. I like some personality to come through. While not a big fan of kilts I can appreciate the attitude that the wearer must have to wear one with confidence...and THAT is what makes it sexy. Suits are too easy. Any guy can look decent in a suit. Its sexy/causal/cool thats kinda hard I think. The shirt is too big, the pants are a poor cut and saggy ass is a problem, its too wrinkled, the hair doesn't match the outfit (stylewise, not color wise) and they just look like bums! So, if you are going for a laid back dress casual look, make sure you are bathed, your hair is styled, your shoes are clean, and your clothes FIT. Untucked or otherwise. I *do* like this whole, jeans, band t-shirt, blazer, sneaks-kinda rocker look. A little bed head-thats sexy. I also have a bit of a sexy, messy, untucked button down shirt 'problem'. I will follow that guy who has the whole just thrown together in a causal chic kinda way look around like a puppy dog. I go after buttons like a raccoon after shiny objects. Its embarrassing. Put on a jacket and some decent jeans...I am all yours. I also like nice jeans, boots and a leather jacket-either a biker jacket (which is really only cool if you actually own a bike, not if you've sat on one once back in the 80's) or a more cut jacket. I guess I didn't need to ramble on so much! Just make sure your clothing fits and casual or otherwise USE AN IRON! *muahs*
  9. We are full but we decided to slow things down and go soft swap so we contacted this couple that advertised themselves as softswap. We all hit it off really well and eventually we found ourselves in a nekkid puddle with them. Right in the middle of these festivities, she turns to him and says 'You want to fuck her dont you? Go ahead.' Huh? Mr and I both, instantly, called time out and the four of us had some long discussions. Not just about false advertising, but also about her chosing who I get to fuck. :rollseyes I think that maybe couples go with the 'soft swap and maybe full swap with the right couple' because they want to soft swap with a couple first and see how it goes before committing to the full swap.
  10. Mr teases the crap outta me because this is one of the very, very few situations that I can get incrediably pissed off at. Usually, I'm pretty laid back, go with the flow. This instantly gets my claws up. We also avoid profiles that say anything along the lines of 'Looking for sexy single bi-female....and select couples' Couples being the after thought. We do not consider swinging a spectator sport. We do not consider Mr watching and twiddling himself while someone else and their man plays with me swinging. *shudder* We do not deal well with jealous spouses. I cannot have a good time rocking someone else's man if I am constantly being monitored by his wife. Its one thing to look over and get all hot about it, another to look over and shoot daggers out of your eyes. It makes us both very uncomfortable when they have to have a meeting right in the middle of a good time (well, really, that was kinda the END of the mediocre time) We don't like referee's. We've actually had a couple we have full swapped with stop play and say 'OK, well, you had xyz and we had xyz so its a fair trade.' WTF? So....we're done? We have had some *really* awesome expiriences with some very cool people...so we stay in the game
  11. Ahhh....its the best kinda sex, right? But ya obviously already knew that
  12. YES! I agree with whomever posted that it was the best part about swinging. Sure is. If not the same night (sometimes thigns run a bit late and all), definatly the next morning. Wild monkey sex. Its great.
  13. Yup. Thas kinda why I was showing him what he was doing 'wrong'. He had no idea asking for pics or being graphic in chats was impolite. His argument was 'We are looking for people to have sex with? Can't we talk about sex with them?' which led to the its-not-what-you-say-so-much-as-how-you-say-it argument. Happy Birthday!
  14. Poor Mr rarely gets online to chat but when he does....*sigh*... I hate to say it, he will *always* ask for more x-rated shots. I've tried to explain how this looks to others, he just thinks since we have so many pics up (he will give up acess to anything he even *thinks* has breasts!) and since he gave them access, he thinks its fair to ask for more pics. I suppiose he is right, BUT, he still looks like a pic collector or a guy pimpin out his chick. I am trying to point out to him anytime someone in chat or in email does any of these annoying things that Mr also does and I explain to him WHY its not polite WHY it sends up red flags, etc. I think he is catching on. So I am CERTAIN he has tripped the spidey senses of others. Ah well:)
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