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  • Birthday 06/30/1979

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    New York
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    Oh am I supposed to have one?
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    About 2 years

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  1. Oh man this thread still comes up in conversation with me and my husband. We just had a laugh about it the other night. LMAO Definitly one of the funniest threads I have ever read!
  2. Haha me and my husband are cracking up over here. I have been brought to tears to a couple replies already haha. What a jack ass. Haha!
  3. We are a non kissing couple. We kiss other body parts but not on the lips no french kissing. That's how we feel comfortable. I don't need to explain myself
  4. haha nice story sounds like a load of crap to me haha
  5. I'm glad you were honestly with you wife. I am sure it was hard to tell her at first. But to know she was so understand haha and already knew makes it easy doesn't? I would tell the women that things just need to end between you two. I guess you could tell her that you feel more for her then you should. I don't know. I haven't been in this situation before. One way or the other you have to make the choice for your marriage and not worry so much about the other person KWIM?
  6. well I just see there is a whole second page never mind haha
  7. Dito man! I hate meeting couples that have to drink to loosen up enough to have that sort of fun. I found that way to much! big turn-off for us!
  8. I'm 26 and my husband is 27 and ya know I think it has nothing to with age. We have a couple that we have me the female half is 21 and the man is 30 They are great and fun and have no hang ups. Then we have another couple that is 29 and 30 and we have had alot more trouble with them. So age has nothing to do with it at all.
  9. So anyways things calmed down and we all ended up playing with eachother and it was pushed or forced it was fun in the end. It happen naturaly like she oringally said she wanted. And me and her husband did have time to watch inbetween what we were doing and during some of the other things we were doing. So it all worked out. And she enjoyed her self.
  10. Oh and my husband and I told her she doesn't have to go threw this. We will still like them. God we never have to have sex again at all we will always be friends.
  11. Dave we know this couple well in and out of the bedroom. We have been hanging out and me and her have been playing for 2 years. So that's why I was so thrown off. Cause with in the 2 years there hasn't really been one that domminates it all the time. We kind of take turns. But never that rough or in my oppinion is was rude and it killed the moment. Of course because we were all adults we talked about how each one of us were feeling at that moment. Of course that kind of put her on the spot and made her feel bad. Oh and yes to the question about her knowing I and her husband would like to watch. But she doesn't get turned on from watching so she can't understand how that turns us on. My husband says that I really think more like a man and she just can't understand my thoughts sometimes. I agree threw my whole life I have always thought of sex more like a man would and less like a women does. It's so hard to fully tell you the dimnamics of this relationship. I know it is a bit dramtic, but honestly they are good friends. We do alot with them other then sex that's a very small part of our relationship. So it was definitly something we wanted resolved not something to just leave and move on KWIM?
  12. Me and her husband did say that several times. That's why I got mad. She actually hurt me and her husband. And the reason why she said she did that was because she didn't want her husband feeling left out. Well I already got her husband off once. So I dont' see how he was being left out. My husband just last longer than her's does. And yes we did do a few soft swap inconters before this. She was also drinking that night cause I had a party earlier that evening. So her being so mean might have been from the drinking. She can being very ummmmm intense sometimes too when she is feeling unconfortable. And the weeks prior to seeing eachother she kept bring up all the what if's and stuff and kind of tried to plan it out or whatever. Then in the same breath saying she just wanted stuff to happen naturally. Hahaha. But then I don't know what happen to all that was said. Oh also something she said was that we are always joking about how shy she is and that she thought she was acting how we wanted her to act. I told her I would never want her to be someone else. And that we were just playing around with her. She jokes with us about stuff I never take it serious though and never in my wildest thought of changing because of it. Hmmmmmmm maybe she is one that isn't really joking when she says some stuff when we are just hanging out????
  13. Haha JT my only rule is no kissing on the lips while swapping with the other partner. And if one person is uncomfortalbe we have a safe word haha but I guess I didn't use it. I wasn't uncomfortable of having someone dominate me. It was the reason's why she was being domanating I had issues with. And yes communication is key, but so is honestly and we were honest but they were not. I told them they need to really talk to eachother. We worked it out. We sent them off to talk we alos talked with them and indiviually. Oh and update the male half of the couple called my husband the other day. Which is very out of chareriter for him. Cause he doesn't like to talk and is very quite. I was shocked to hear that he called my husband on his own with out his wife and they talked about things man to man. LOL So that's cool we got them to open up a bit. He told him how much he enjoyed being with me and all that sort of thing.
  14. We had some old time friends over. And we always do g/g play with them. But the female half said she wanted to try more. But I did question that a bit. She just didn't seem ready and to me maybe never will be. I talked to my husband about it. But he just wasn't getting that same feeling. I told him I would hate to killl a good friendship. And he agreed. So we both talked to that couple over and over again asking them all kinds of questions. So even in doubting I went into the night with an open mind. I definitly wouldn't have minded a full swap night with them but I didn't want anything sour between us either KWIM. So of course the guys were kind of pushy about it at first but playfully. And she just seemed so unsure to me. But she does wear the pants in her relationship so I didn't worry about her husband pushing her just me and my husband. We have always been open about things we like and she knows we are meeting new people. So I just was worried she is trying to compete with others or something. She can get that way sometimes. So we started the night with me and her like normal. But then she moved to be with my husband. Which we have done soft swapping with them once. SO I thought things would be cool. But me and her husband were watching her and my husband for a bit will rubbing eachother. Well I guess she didn't want us to watch. Next thing I know she grabs me by the freakin neck and throws me at her husband cock! I was piss her husband was pissed and so was mine. I don't know what she was thinking. So we were like what was that! She was like well I don't want my husband to feel left out. He was like I wasn't. Ok so then we talk about it and move on. Basically I got her husband off and her and mine husband were still playing. SO me and her husband tried to watch again. And then she started saying more crap why aren't we doing this or that. SO then we are like you two want sometime alone or what. SO I went to the kitchen her husband went upstairs to use th bathroom. And she starting having fun with my hsuband gain yeah! Her husband comes back down and she starts playing with both. I'm happily watching all of this. That's one of my biggest turn ons. So then she starts yelling where is Jess blah blah. So I was like well I was watching. She starts saying how she wants me to fuck her husband okkkkkkkkkkkkk. SO I go up stairs to get some stuff and was on my way back down. She starts yelling at me. I finally just said ok you know what you are starting to piss me off and you really are making me uncomfortable. (I don't think she wanted her husband to see her and minehusband together) they are completely two different sizes her husband being the smaller one and she doesn't want him to feel bad. Also she has never been with anyone other than her husband. Ok so anyways I said you are making this uncomfortable for me and I am sure I am not the only one. You are just making this to hard and it's supposed to be fun. So of course silents hits the room I feel like the big elephant standing there. I go up stairs cause no one says a word. My husband follows me. I told him I was sorry probably shouldn't gone off like that. But I just couldn't deal anymore. And when I get like that I just blow. And he knows. He said he couldn't beleive how she was acting. It told him how I knew this wasn't a good idea and I was afraid of this. She is a really intess person when she is stressing. So we talked and I came back down stairs and told them I was sorry for what I said and how I said it. I truely was sorry for how it came out. I was just so uncomfortable. So we talked with them about how we felt of why she was acting that way. The talk went well. Then I asked to speak with her husband alone. Because her and my husband talk all the time they play around and goof off. They are just way more comfortable with eachother in general. Her husband is very quite and shy. So it was a nice talk. He told me alot of things I didn't know of how he felt. And I told him I need to hear things. I love to be talked to dirty and I need to know my boundries I can't just guess haha. We have known eachother for 2 years. So then I talked with her again one and one. And that went well. SO then we ended up having a pretty good night. I just had to share and get it off my chest. We have been with another couple and had a great time all around. And we just had such a hard time that night but it still turned out well. And we all could still hung and laugh in the morning together. They just really need to work on thier communication skills with us and eachother. She was very reserved though with my husband. And I hope she learns to loosen up and just let go a bit. But I think she is afraid of offending her husband. Becuase of this size. Which I have told it's a non issue for me and he does other things quite well anyways well thanks for reading my expeirence. Comments are welcomed.
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