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steversk

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About steversk

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  • Birthday 05/04/1951

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  1. Happy Birthday!

  2. Happy Birthday I am not Very far from you

  3. My wife and I both enjoy anal play, but I'm the one how really likes to recieve it. When I play with her anally it is usually with a finger, or a small anal vibrator white I have her bent over the bed and fucking her from behind. No real prep neaded except for some lube. I on the other hand love to have her do me in the ass with a dildo while she is giving me a blow job. We don't do this often, but when I feal like it I do prep for it. If she is going to be out for a while and suggests we play when she gets back, I will do and enema a couple of hours before. Then I will get ready with gradually larger butt plugs, and plenty of lube. By the time she returns I am ready to be fucked in the ass. The prostate stimulation makes for really intense orgasms for me, and it gets her really turned on.
  4. I am 59 and usually have no problem getting it up, but have noticed as I got older that sometimes I am more easily distracted and it is more difficult if I am tired or have had something to drink. I sent away for a free sample of Rock Hard Weekend, an all herbal supplement. I took it on a Friday as I left work. Usually by Friday I am pretty tired, so I thought this would be a good test. I got home, ate dinner, had some wine, and we then went in the hot tub. Usually after this I would be too relaxed to have sex, but this time I got a great erection and had no problem keeping it up for a long session. The next day I had "morning much longer than usual and repeatedly. The effects seemed to last into Sunday morning, although they were less. I would have to say it worked pretty good. Plan on getting some more. They now sell it at CVS so I can use my bonus bucks.
  5. This has been a fantasy of mine also. I have gotten my wife to use a vibrating dildo in my ass while giving me a blow job and it feels terrific. The anal stimulation really intensifies the orgasm. But, I have not been able to get her to use the strap on. I guess she doesn't have the fantasy of fucking like a man. My fantasy has been to be fucked in the ass while either getting oral, or while doing another woman from behind. Hasn't happened yet.
  6. Has anyone used "Rock Hard Weekend"? Supposedly all natural and works for 36 hours with none of the after-effects. I sent away for a free sample but haven't tried it yet. Waiting for our trip to Vegas in a few weeks.
  7. The latest issue of Playboy has a really good article on the "G" spot and gets into squirting. There seem to be separate entrances for this fluid and the number varies from women to woman. While this fluid is similar in some ways to urine it is very different. It contains a higher level of fructose which is why some report it to be sweet. The theory is that is helps the sperm which actually feed on it for energy. It also contains prostate specific antigens. The idea is that the womans G spot is the evolutionary equivalent of the man's prostate. So it looks like most woman probably have the ability to squirt, but that ability can vary depending on the woman. It is a very interesting article.
  8. That's the whole beauty of it. Only the swingers will know what NASCA is, and you can tell your vanilla friends it was supposed to read NASCAR, but the manufacturer made is wrong, but you kept it anyway figuring it would be a collectors item.
  9. We both enjoy anal stimulation, but I find fucking her pussy much better. Sometimes while doing her doggy style I will put a little lube and massage around her anus and maybe stick a finger in a little, and she really likes this. Now me (the male half) on the other hand love to have her do me anally with a but plug or dildo while she is giving me a blowjob. The prostate stimulation leads to an intense orgasm. So maybe you could say we like anal play but not necessarily anal sex.
  10. I like the necklace or pin idea. A swinger will know what it is. If a vanilla person asks what it means you can tell them you ordered a NASCAR pin and it came this way. Since it was a misprint it is now a collectors item so you kept it.
  11. As a man who is now 57 I can relate to a lot of what has been brought up here. When I was in my 20's and 30's my wife and I had sex 4-6 times a week with never a problem. Now I find there are times that I have difficulty maintaining an erection. They can be attributed to one or more of the following. 1) Being tired. I own my own business, so my day starts at 4 a.m. and I don't usually get home until 8-9 p.m. During the week I am usually getting 5-6 hours sleep. 2) Alcohol: A glass of wine with dinner will relax me, but already being tired it relaxes me too much. 3) Attitude: If my wife is tired and not really into having sex that can affect me. Similar to the previous comments about the play partner "is that the woman I am with is just not doing it for me". 4) Distractions: In another discussion about age and performance one man suggested that we are more easily distracted as we get older. This could be from putting on a condom or getting a cramp from the position we are in, or the distraction of having other people around. 5) Worrying about it only makes it worse. Lately I have found I have had a problem when coming home from work, have a drink with dinner, then we go in the jacuzzi. By that time I am so relaxed that if my wife decides she wants to have sex, it is very difficult for me to stay hard. So, now we try and plan when we are going to play so I will lay off the alcohol and not do the jacuzzi. Holding off for awhile is not a factor. If I get a good nights sleep, I am ready for more the next morning after we have had sex. I think the main thing is just being aware of your body and what affects your performance, and then planning accordingly.
  12. I got a vasectomy shortly after me and my second wife got married. We both decided we did not want children (I have one from my first marriage), and she did not want to be on the pill. The procedure was about 30 minutes, painless, and I had very little soreness after. Was back to work after a days rest. Went in after a month to have a sperm count to make sure it had taken. I had zero swimmers so we were good to go. Since then, I have been very glad I had it done. Not having to worry about birth control with my wife is great. With anyone else I would always use a condom. To anyone that has decided for sure that they don't want children (or any more children I would highly recommend it.
  13. My wife had a coupon and CVS pharmacy had it on sale, so she bought some. We haven't used it yet (usually use Astroglide), but some of these comments make it sound interesting. We'll have to try it.
  14. My wife is pretty much the same. As she is getting ready to orgasm then I can pinch or nibble, but most of the rest of the time she either is indifferent to me playing with her niplles or it actually irritates her.
  15. As part of a couple that have only discussed swinging and not taken the plunge yet, I have spent time on this board and one thing I have learned is that one of the most important things is honest and open discussion with your partner. Even though we have only talked about swinging it has led to discussions about fantasies, and I told her I thought it would be fun to suck a cock. Also one of my fantasies (since I enjoy anal play) is to be fucked in the ass by the guy (or woman with a strap-on) while someone sucks me off. If your are already involved int the lifestyle I would think it shouldn't be a problem to have this discussion with your wife. Bring it up first as a fantasy, see how she reacts, and then go from there.
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