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Neofree

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    M. Male
  • Location
    Colorado
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  • SLS Name
    SibnNeo

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  1. I really love giving facials.. If my wife took 2 or even 5 loads on her face that'd so be hot to me...
  2. Not if you do it carefully. Use lots of lube. Clean afterwards. Go very slow until you find your limits. Ass to mouth is not really a good idea. It is possible to tear things up down there if you're not gentle. Just got to take it easy, be patient. Doesn't always work the first time.
  3. No I got that. But I mean it might be a comprimise she's willing to make and leave it open from there. Just make no promises. Recommended starting point no matter what your intentions are.
  4. Babysteps, you might try seeing if he's interested in going to a club to look around and maybe play together only. Or meet up with a couple for same room sex. Just have a strict no touch rule... No saying if it will ever be more. This is what me and my wife have agreed on. Still havent gone yet though.
  5. When my wife told me she is not comfortable with soft swinging, I offered her two alternatives, one was to go to a club just to watch as you suggested, the other was to try webcam. She was interested in the webcam. She is afraid that if we go to a swingers club to only watch that we will have to keep telling people no over and over, that someone would touch me or her, or that someone would give us an uncomfortable look. Keep in mind we don't do very well in normal social situations as we are kind of shy. When we are in small groups then we become very open and talkative.
  6. I think we are going to try the webcam thing first... BTW, I think I realized what the show said.. I remember both words starting with a S and they had to just be swinging and swapping. They just said that swinging could be done with or without swapping. Thanks, Neofree
  7. Well we've talked about it some more and now are *considering* swinging with no swapping. What is the best thing to do first? Is it better to go to a club first or to talk some people on personals? We created an account on SLS... Thanks, Neofree
  8. I think she is mostly afraid of destroying our relationship. And so am I. If we did anything along these lines that destroyed our relationship that would be unbearable for both of us. I've always felt we have a stronger bond then most and can't easily be seperated like many other marriages have ended, but making a wrong move here could be just enough to do it. As for the porn, we do that a lot already. I think we've done a quite a bit of different activities alone. I would be interested in role playing, but neither of us really have any idea how to do it without feeling so silly. I almost wonder what is safer? A party with lots of people or a meeting of just a couple? If you agree not to touch but only to watch - and you have done this a few times - are we both going to find ourselves wanting more? And then doing it and finding us in a position we thought we wouldn't reach and break apart? Certainly many people do this sucessfully, but how many couples fail at it for every couple that doesn't?
  9. Thank you all for the replies. I think I will never know what that old show was talking about, and it's not really important. I talked to my wife about it and she is not interested in doing it because she is afraid that either I or her would end up doing something we regret. I am fine with this, this is not a must-do thing for me, but I am curious how to deal with the feelings about it.
  10. Well maybe I remembered wrong but I almost thought they had a word for it (other then what you said). I am curious what the risks are of going to just a normal swinger party but only to be with my wife. I am worried that if we did something like that maybe something more would happen then we intended. Do people safely set these rules and keep them? Thanks, Neofree
  11. I joined just to ask a question. A long time ago (80's or 90's) I saw a TV show about swinging that I thought for sure said there was something similar to swinging but didn't involve swapping. Like a couple would meet another couple to have sex with their own partners but be able to watch the other couple and never touching each other. Is there a word for this? Does anyone even do this?
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