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VANudistcpl

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VANudistcpl last won the day on November 21 2008

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About VANudistcpl

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  • Birthday 10/26/1959

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Arizona
  • Occupation
    cook
  • Anniversary
    3/25

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    mikekim

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  1. After reading your desires perhaps you should consult an attorney to determine the possibility of starting your own business and the ordinances in your area about adult clubs. What it sounds like you want to start your own club. If you want to cover the costs, when you invite people just ask for donations. Those that care will gladly give.
  2. This is not a good way to start a relationship or be introduced into swinging. I agree with SW_PA_Couple by saying that you have to look at how you felt about your relationship before walking in on the party. With us I was very up front with Mrs VANudist and told her up front what I did and where I went. For us this worked and now she wishes that we would have started back then instead of waiting. Good luck and you should get some helpful information here.
  3. If everyone is comfortable with we don't see a problem. When the kids were little we went "camping" at a local nudist resort, so they didn't mind seeing people naked. As they grew they became a little more modest and we no cover up unless the kids are out.
  4. I enjoy watching Ms Nudistcpl because I know what her partner is getting and receiving and seeing her in the throws of sex not to mention when she cums is one of the biggest turn ons for me.
  5. First things first - He's not sure about sharing his wife, then why is he out there posing as a single guy? I don't consider it sharing my wife, it is her decision if she wants to play and we discuss this well before the playdate. I would tell him that when you both are ready, give us a call and we'll see what happens. Chances are we would at least meet them. This may be another thread, but we are seeing this happen (married men posing as singles) more and more. Last night while on Swing Lifestyle we had one trying to set up a meeting. Kept changing the subject when we brought up his "partner", he finally said that he was setting up the house and she was in St. Louis. A lot of red flags in the conversation, so we sent him on his way.
  6. Wow sounds familar, only we didn't patch things up and went our seperate ways. The first wife was like that and she was the one that pushed the lifestyle. Little did she know that I would take to it and enjoy it. She decided that it wasn't what she wanted and left. Now I married to some that loves me and understands the choices we make when we play. ...glad you made the decision that is right for you both. Good luck to you both
  7. Who really hasn't had this topic come up? We decided that it would depend on the heat of the moment and what line would be crossed. Of course anything extra is a bonus
  8. We talked about it for a long time, this being her first time. And after my jump right in during my first marriage, we wanted to take it slowly. we are now moving at our pace.
  9. I had to choose other becase one just wasn't enough to fit. I've been the Cowboy, Gladiator, Athlete (although it doesn't look like it right now) and the boy next door all rolled into one.
  10. Baconhead, if you haven't brought up the subject during sex as part of a fantasy, then during the trip just keep it as a fanasty. I know from experience that if you don't things don't go very well before during and after. If you slowly bring up the soft swap or even watching another couple during sex if the seed might be planted and it might eventually happen. That is how Ms. Nudist and I started.
  11. Perhaps your computer talked to the store computer! My understanding is that it is not selling as well as the makers thought it would.
  12. I think the underlying question is define swap? If you are talking full swap then I can see where it would be intimidating for a new couple. Although I have been in the lifestyle longer than Ms. Nudist, we haven't gone as far as full swap. We both have previous marriage issues with that. Now we both love soft swap and that is where we are comfortable. I can see that being a good place to start. And remember we were all newbs at one time.
  13. I know how you feel. The Ms. and I use to talk about as a fantasy and I never thought it would happen. Then one night the "moment" just hit her. Ever since its been a fun ride.
  14. Asking people how they feel about anything will lead to answers like the one posted of the last two pages. People will tell you what they like for a number of reasons, but my point is who cares if they are black, white, red or anything else. If there is a connection between you then does it really matter? I (Mr Nudist) grew up in the midwest during the sixties saw a lot of things that I really didn't understand then. Since I've been a nudist and in the lifestyle, I have learned that it doesn't matter what the person looks like or the color of their skin. It's their personality that matters. In the lifestyle we have clicked with people of all sizes and colors and had several good times. Ok I'll get off my soap box now.
  15. We haven't taken any of our toys yet. Ms. Nudist is making a list of things she wants to put in a bag for the next time we go to the club.
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