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  1. Again, thanks to everyone who responded. Well, we have been reading the posts and have been talking a lot about things. Last night we realised that we want to give it another shot....and another.....and another.....LOL! IF the opportunity comes up again. We agreed that being as drunk as we were won't happen again, and that we will be sure to stay in the same room. It was just funny, we looked at each other yesterday evening and we both are on the same page in our relationship and wanna give it another go and see if we can have a better time with it. Who are we kidding?!?! We are always horny, and wanna try it again!
  2. ^^^No apologies necessary. I didn't even think you were being rude. I took it as genuine concern for our well-being, and as a suggestion to be a lot more careful in the future, whether swinging or not. I mean, none of us should have been driving when we left the bar, let alone their house. But we survived and no real harm was done...thankfullly.
  3. WOW! I didn't expect this many replies. Thank you to everyone who contributed! Well I got home from work and wifey wasn't feeling too well. She said that she was just feeling "blah." I asked her if our activities this weekend were bothering her, and she said "a little bit." She couldn't remember what happened, and I think that is her main issue. Well I showed her my post and we read all of the replies together, and it has helped her as much as it has helped me. She's in bed right now, she was reading, but now she's having a text message conversation with "T" and it looks like we are going to be able to remain friends with them. We had only seen "D" after the encounter the next day when he brought me my wallet and cell phone. We were both a bit worried about how "T" was feeling after the whole ordeal, and from the looks of things, she's ok too! You folks here have no clue as to how much you have helped the both us with all of your advice and kind words. We welcome all advice and comments. This was and still is a major learning experience for us. I don't know if we will ever make another attempt, but its reassuring to know that what we went through and how we are feeling is perfectly normal.
  4. Thanks for the replies girls and guys. I don't know if I will get up my nerve to try again. I am easily traumatized (sp?) when my "unit" fails. Thanks to the kind replies here, i do feel better about things. If we do, I think that we will be a LOT slower and a LOT more careful (not nearly as many drinks or shots). And yeah, we were still drunk when we drove home. Not something we normally do, but with me freaking out, all I wanted to do was get out of there before anything else embarassing happened. Not the smartest thing I have ever done, and definitely something i am not proud of. If the situation does present itself again, we will just go slow, because up until my "failure," we were having a really good time. Fortunately, I think this is a couple we could still remain friends with, and not have to take our clothes off.
  5. Mr. Hrnycpl here. I had to tell someone, so i figured this was the right place. We had our first "encounter" over this past weekend, and to be totally honest, I don't think this lifestyle is for us, mostly me. My sister offered to take our son overnight, so with that in mind, we figured we would visit wifeys sister and go out and have some fun. She lives a couple of hours away, and we usually take our son with us to see his auntie, but with the sitter already arranged, we figured we would go out and have some fun (and be able to sleep in the following morning). This is a bit of a long read. Ok, cut to how we ended up with our encounter. We went to a local bar that sister-in-law frequents. We had been there once before and were very comfortable there because of the nice people there. Well, one couple we had become friendly with on the last visit, knew that there was a possibility of some sort of swapping. Needless to say we hit it off with them after the first visit (nothing happened then), so with this second meeting we were even more comfortable. So we are at a bar, so obviously we are drinking and shooting pool (looser buys a round of Cuervo shots for the 4 of us), and we all get to that friendly feel good part of drinking....really nice buzz, borderlining on flat out drunk, which is not really a problem since we don't drink all that often. But we were cutting loose for an evening, so we figured that we owed it to ourselves to have some fun. Well the night goes on and we continue to have a really great time with sis-in-law and our new friends up until the bar closes. Soon before the bar closes, sis-in-law leaves to go home and we are pretty much right behind her. Wifey is pretty drunk, but very coherent. She's your typical fun drinker who loves everyone the more she drinks. So all night, she's flashing her boobs at people and just having a fun time. So I go to check on sis-in-law (she was waiting for us in the car talking on cell phone) and let her know that we would be home later (she knows of our curiosity with the lifestyle). So wifey rides with the guy in the couple. He is "D" and she is "T". Anyway, as I was leaving the bar to go check on sis-in-law, i tell wifey, that she can kiss D if she wants to (they had already invited us back to their place). When I come back into the bar, she's making out with D. No problem, except for T is saying to wifey, that its not fair, and that if she keeps kissing her husband, that she will have to kiss me. T goes ahead and kiss me (it was ok, nothing to write home about though). This goes on for a few minutes and then we decide to leave the bar. I go and ride with T and we are talking, you know, general conversation. We get to their house and T pays their sitter and the sitter leaves. No sooner had the door closed behind the babysitter, and wifey was behind T, kissing her neck and rubbing her boobs. The rest just seemed to happen really fast. We make our way back to their bedroom and wifey sits on the bed. D starts kissing wifey again and has his hand down the front of her pants. I start kissing T and she quickly gets my pants down and goes into giving me a blowjob. I look up and D has moved down to remove wifeys pants and underwear and is giving her oral. T stops blowing me and goes to help D with the oral on wifey. That goes on for a few minutes, while at the same time, T is stroking my cock. Then she goes back to blowing me and D gets into a 69 with wifey. I get T's pants and underwear off and go to give her oral. She suggests going into another room. I agree. Well she sits on follows me out, and puts in a "movie." Well she turns around so I can have her from behind and i get a few strokes into it and then I go limp.....damn brain. I start thinking. I can hear wifey getting the crap pounded out of her and she's moaning. So I figure that hell, at least one of us can get some action. T keeps trying to get me hard again, but by now, I am freaked out and even more nervous than I originally was. So she walks me back to wifey and tells D to let us have some time alone....well, the damage was already done for me. I couldn't get it back up. So now i am sitting there and wifey's face is buried in the bed. I am saying that she needs to get up so we can leave (silently freaking the hell out now!). I can hear D and T going at it in their living room. D comes back to see if he can get another run at wifey, and I tell him not just yet, so he goes back out to T and finishes with her. The entire time I am just trying to get wifey up so we can get dressed and leave. But she was pretty drunk still and wouldn't move. Well, after what seemed like forever, she finally moved and slowly got dressed and we said our goodbyes and left. She asked me was I mad, and I wasn't, I was just freaked out that I got nervous, and that she was soo drunk that she wouldn't move for a while. We got lost driving home and when we finally did get back to sis-in-laws house, it was close to 5am. Wifey goes to pee and I go in the bathroom to wash my face. Well, now I have no problem getting it up, so I banged wifey against the sink for what seemed like forever. Then we moved to the spare bedroom where we kept going at it. But eventually wifey was sooo tired that she just had me stop, because she could barely keep her eyes open. She left the room to go sleep on the couch (it was a twin bed in the spare room) and I slept on the spare bed. Well tried to sleep. I woke up at about 9:30 am and realized that my cell phone and wallet had fallen out of my pockets at D and T's house. So now I am back to freaking out again and I go wake wifey to tell her. She can see that I am freaked out, and asks me whats wrong. Turns out that she was sooo drunk, she doesn't remember getting it on with D. So I gave her the rundown of the past evening's events. Now she's not freaked out, just surprised at what went down. We realized that if we have to get that drunk to actually do anything, then we probably shouldn't be doing anything to begin with. My penis won't let me do anything that I am not ready for, therefore he goes limp when I think too much. And thats what happened. If we had all stayed in the same room, i probably wouldn't have had a chance to think, but I got up and went into another room, which gave me a chance to think, and therefore couldn't keep an erection. I was really embarassed and freaked out all at the same time. I can't stop thinking about what happened though. Like it was a turn on, and a turn off all at the same time. Wifey knows me very very well, and could tell i was bothered by something, so I explained to her what was going on with me. Thats when we decided that it was probably a good idea for us to just have that one experience and keep it at that. Lots of things just didn't go as planned. We had agreed that since she's curious about being with another woman, that I would just watch. Well other than some kissing, thats the extent of her interaction with another woman. We also had agreed (when we were sober) that she and the other woman would experience each other and that the men would watch until invited to join. Well with us being drunk, none of that happened, and all the rules we thought we had in place, kind of went out the window. I just feel a bit guilty because if I hadn't given her the green light to kiss D, that none of this would have happened. I mean, it was fun at first, but now I am not so sure if it was a good idea. Am I having normal thoughts and feelings? Because it was fun in the beginning, but in the end, it wasn't. I mean, wifey was supposed to finally see what its like to be with another woman, and she really didn't get that opportunity. Fortunately, D and T are a cool couple and we could probably still hang out with them without any sexual interaction. At least thats the vibe I got the next day when we had to get my wallet and cell phone back. I think what freaks me out the most is the lack of control that we used in that situation. Sorry for the long read....but I just had to get it off of my chest. Any comments or insight is completely welcome. I would love to hear what anyone here has to say about our experience.
  6. I don't think it was meant to be hurtful. I thought it was funny. We as black people (yes, the mr. is black and the mrs. is white) need to lighten up a bit with a lot of this racist stuff. Just cuz someone makes a slightly off color joke, black people tend to blow it out of proportion. I would like to apologize on behalf of all of the lighthearted black folks out there!
  7. Mr. Hrnycoupl here... As the black half of an interracial couple (the mrs is white). I would have to say that as shocking as that is, at least they have the gumption to state what they want. That just means what we wouldn't have to waste each others time. Now could it be stated differently, of course, but not everyone was blessed with tact. I like this post, it gives me and the wife something to chew on. As newbies who have yet to do any actual swinging (attending a private party next month), its nice to see how race plays into things. I have seen on swappernet, that some women only want "black cock" and others just use the "white couple looking for same" type of thing. Its good to get it out in the open before anything gets started. Now if you are at a function and someone approaches you, just politely decline. You aren't interested, and there's no crime in that. I am sure that there are some Black people in the lifestyle that don't swing with white people. View it as a preference and don't get soooo wrapped up in the racism card. "NO BLACKS" sounds like a racist statement, but its probably just a preference. Come on, how can you get turned on, if you don't like what you see. As for me, I like my women like a nice Milkshake....thick and vanilla. Would I mind swinging with a black couple? NOPE! Hell, we are all black if the lights go out!
  8. Hey people! Mr. HrnyCpl here....kind of new.....anyway, I am always saying that people should work with what they have and "walk like they own it." Basically I am saying be happy with what you have, just figure out how to use it as best as you possibly can.....you can't go wrong there!
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