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About cpl2doitwithu

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Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    Houma, La
  • Interests
    SEX
  • Swinging Experience
    3yrs.

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    cpl2doitwithu
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Colette New Orleans
  1. I was going to respond, but it seems Pensacolapair's lady and Mrs.C were cut out of the same stock...lol But I did want to cut and paste our response to a similar thread on this board that applies. Once after a having fun with a couple we had been friends with (but the first time we played), I (Mr. C) overheard the girl ask the guy how it was. His reply was "It was great for me, But I'm afraid I didn't do much for her". He said this as Mrs. C lay exhausted with a big smile on her face. Now that we are close friends, we laugh about this. He said this because he couldn't get her "over the top". The fact is that she can seldom orgasm with play partners (male or female). With a guy she will sometimes masturbate as they play and can SOMETIMES reach orgasm that way. It is pretty much the same when we play together, but I have learned her signals of what type of stimulation she is needing at the time. Sometimes this means for me to withdraw and insert two fingers. Now, imagine a guys thoughts if she would ask him to pull out and just finger her. I know this is a lot of info (Maybe TMI) with no answers. But just to let you know what we do is if we all have a "what are y'all into" conversation, Mrs. C will say something playfully like "I don't always get there, but I sure enjoy the trip!!" If we are in a group situation, like at a club with people that we probably will never run into again, she will wait till the guy is done and if she is ready to move on, she'll just fake it. She is so good at it that I even after watching her close have to ask her later...lol There are probably some here that would say that this is the wrong approach, but that is how she likes to handle it.
  2. We had that "rule" when we first started and thought it to be pretty natural to us. But it went by the wayside as many of our other rules as we were more experienced/comfortable. Now years later, we just recently became close with a cpl that turns us on alot. They are hot, kinky and experienced, but have the no kissing rule. We do find kissing a turn on, but can abide by other's choices, because we there at one time ourselves.
  3. ......you don't go to strip clubs any more while on business trips, because it is just no fun without your wife!!! ......your wife says "five o'clock" in Wal Mart, and you know it has nothing to do with the time!! ......When friends ask you where you went on your honeymoon, and you say Cancun, but when they ask the resort name you tell them you forgot....or you tell them Desire, because they probably won't look into it anyway. Oh, and when we show them pictures of the resort, they ask why there are no people in the pictures.......we took them while everyone was eating dinner..
  4. We thought that we had been in a few, but after reading the definitions we realized that we were wrong. It's funny that most of the definitions said that an orgy includes excessive drinking. We have always been way too busy to drink!! Guess we have something new to try....lol...
  5. You two sound like us, only in reverse. She wants me to do all the "computer stuff" and just keep her informed. She will occasionaly look over my shoulder and look at profiles of the people that contact us. She will give me her opinion on a cpl that when I ask her. But she doesn't like to email, chat, cam, or talk on the phone to potential playmates. She does get excited and really gets involved in our "first meeting" with someone. She also loves the whole idea of the lifestyle but wants to leave all the "leg work" to me. Now, this sometimes poses a problem when couples want to talk to her before we actually meet. When I tell them that she would rather that we just meet and talk, they sometimes perceive me as a phoney. What's funny is that I usually wind up with all the dialog with the lady of a cpl. It just goes to show that evryone has their preference in contact methods. It looks as things are going well for you two. I would not worry about his lack of participation in the "shopping" as long as he enjoys the groceries. Just be sure to keep him informed. I always read her my emails and IM's. Happy Shopping!!
  6. We have actually been hit on by cheating couples ...five or six times in fact. By cheating couple, I mean that they are both married, but not to each other. And for us...."that dog don't hunt'
  7. Oops.. meant to add that we are not child molestors....... minimum age of 18 a must... we even carded our 20 year old friend....lol....
  8. Age is just a number for us. We are in our early 40's and have had some fun across the board. We are friends and playmates with a couple where the girl is just 20. If she was a giggly little girl type, we would not be interested. But she is quite mature and a lot of fun. Her boyfriend is 30 and we find that she acts more his age than he does...lol... On the other hand we have played with couples in the sixties. Before you say that's icky, you need to look at people for who they are and not what their "number" might be. One of the hottest ladies we know, is 57. We have no fantasies about age difference. We don't set these limits. We do have an upper age of 60 on our SLS profile, but we do that because others seem to be judgemental, not a steadfast rule for us.
  9. We get off in all kinds of ways. We like everthing from watching another cpl while they watch us to swapping up for an all nighter and everything in between. (well, almost)...lol
  10. Dito We have heard of some strange rules, and this is def not the strangest.... we would have no problem.
  11. Overreacting????? Hell No!!! We both ALWAYS have "veto" power for any get together. It sounds like this guy is trying to cross the line. Let me correct that, He HAS crossed the line. We have had MFM's and FMF's and if either of us were to become uncomfortable, that would be the end of it. I would hope that she just misses the fun of it all and not the guy in particular. I think a long talk is in order to let each other know how each feels about another situation like this. Long term realtionships with single play partners can work, but obviously not with a guy like this. I think you did the right thing and all communication with him should be off. If she has a problem with that, then ya'll really need to talk. Sorry this is short, but hope it helps.
  12. We check all of them because it goes with the mood and who we are with.
  13. Actually, we can. We have been swinging for over three years and no french kissing was one of our rules, even after we started full swap. That is, up until a few weeks ago. We were scared that we may feel that "tingle" that we feel with each other and it not be special any more. But we tried it and found that it is erotic with our playmates, but not romantic. Sorry if this makes no sense, but that is us...lol... Now, what "rules" do we have left? Well, never any anal, and no "finishing" in the other lady's mouth. And we are a same room (preferably, same bed) couple. Pretty much it..
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