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  1. I don't feel you overreacted. My guess is the other couple is hoping you will just get swallowed up in all the mystery and shock of the situation that you will forget that you aren't getting fucked. Of course that isn't the case and shouldn't be unless you are in agreement. Your wife is probably 1) more comfortable with the situation and 2) excited that she is getting attention, but forgetting about your feelings. As a couple (unfortunately) who has tried to do this before (meaning we told the couple we wanted to play with her while he just watched), it hurts feelings and it hardly ever works out. good luck to you mrs
  2. if nothing else, i am glad you are no longer with your wife. you are the scum of the earth. My prayers will be that you will never be allowed to see your children again, and that your wife finds a wonderful man who fathers your children and behaves as a father should. if all this comes true, my ultimate wish will be that your newly found "love" will fall for another man and leave you alone. I hope you find yourself alone forever.
  3. I think everyone has provided excellent advice for you already,...the only thing I wanted to tell you is that I don't think women are as judgemental as you think! I have always wanted to fulfill my bi fantasies and I have always wanted to fulfill them with a voluptuous full bodied curvy woman. Many of my bi friends have told me the same thing.
  4. WOW, what I would like to know is who are all you women finding the men with large penises???? Come down to where I live and there are plenty tiny penises you would be in heaven. p.s. and take me to where you live PLEASE mrs
  5. I have done the charity sex thing and TRUST ME its a bad idea. I guess it wasn't so much charity sex, as much as it was lack of options at the club. But afterwards I felt disgusting because I really wasn't attracted to the man all that much, he was much older, and once the clothes were off..... Anyhow, I completely discourage it.
  6. Thanks for all your replies, I think I am going to post my size preference on SLS. And actually Julie I think you may be right about my husband. I am not sure what is big for the general population, but he is about 7.5 inches and about that same size in girth. All I know is he completely fills me out and beginning sex with him anytime is somewhat of a chore in the beginning because it takes a while to ease it in. I guess that is what I am used to. But i think I may have also experienced smaller than average men in the swinging department. One was maybe 3.5-4 inches. My pelvic floor muscles are strong, I try to tighten them when I am with a smaller man. Sometimes it helps sometimes it doesn't. I will just learn to be a bit more vocal now and advertise my desires a bit more. Thanks everyone Mrs
  7. This will have to be somewhat of a quickie... My husband and I have been swinging for a year now, and have had several experiences both with couples, and alone with singles. While my experiences have ranged from mediocre to horrid, his have been mediocre to excellent. I guess what I'm trying to say is I have been disappointed by the sizes of penis' I have encountered. I start getting intimate with the male half of the couple (or the single male) and I am excited; for the most part they were all attractive. Then I reach down to feel their penis, and am SO disappointed by its size I am almost immediately turned off. For the sake of the experience I try to get back into the mood, but for me anyway, a small penis just does not do it. I feel as if trying to swing with a man now is like russian roulette, because I won't know the size of their erect penis until it is too late... And by the time I feel their penis, I feel like it would be the most supreme insult to say "nevermind...stop". I also feel a little guilty asking about the man's penis size before we even get intimate because I have had my fair share of men with erectile dysfunction from nerves, I can't imagine how much more magnified it would be if I said "by the way, is your dick big enough?" I am to the point of changing our profiles on the net to 'looking only for females for FFM' since I just don't know if I care to put forth the effort of looking for a man with a decent penis. Any other women have similar experiences/complaints?
  8. I am glad you all decided to get out of the relationship. You both have many other couples, I am sure, that you could develop a relationship with. The wife demanding sex for her husband, this other man taking advantage of your drunk wife BEHIND CLOSED DOORS, etc.. This is all very unhealthy. It seems that this man has fantasies about dominating your wife, and I would definitely end the friendship completely. Call me an alarmist if you will, but PLEASE do not put yourself in a situation where your wife is alone with this man. I believe, from what you have said about his character, that he may take matters into his own hands. Good luck MRS
  9. TOTALLY agree with pepper and drew. NO taking one for the team, it just ends up...gross from my experience with it. I felt dirty, i remember getting ready for them to come over and not being excited at all, dreading this guy. So I don't recommend. Mrs
  10. One of the most important requirements of swinging is that you and your partner are honest with each other about every aspect of swinging,...otherwise it becomes dishonesty, and in some cases, cheating. Try and talk about why she didn't tell you she was talking with this man without you knowing. I would calmly explain to her that had she enjoyed herself, she could have been honest about it, therefore ensuring more meetings with this man. For some reason, she did not want you to know she enjoyed herself. Also, (of course this is how me and the husband operate, everyone has their own rules and feelings) when we are swinging together, and I or he senses that the other is uncomfortable with the situation, or feels left out, we try to accomadate for the other. If that is how you both are, she should have respected the fact that you felt left out, and done something about it. I hope this helps a bit. MRS
  11. Just wanted to let you know I am 20. Mr. is 21. Hope it helps. =)
  12. VERY hot, I have always wanted to see bi males together, or even gay males. My husband, though, is not bi in the least. Well..being that we are pretty young still, I guess I can hope for the best in the future.....a girl can dream can't she?
  13. I really agree that you should maybe go into things a bit more slowly. Some foreplay and whatnot first, and then move it on up. Its much easier that way, we just jumped right into things, and it was a bit rough at first but now everything is fine. But in retrospect, I would much rather have started slow. Just my opinion. MrsSwing
  14. I would just have to tell you that if you truly love your wife, you will tell her about your feelings. Don't go and do this without her knowing no matter how curious you are, because it is true, you will be a cheater not a swinger.
  15. Sometimes I have that problem, I want to tell my swinging friend how to do it, what i want, I get a little shy. I'm working on it. Mrs Swing
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