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jlj119

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About jlj119

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  • Birthday 11/10/1953

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  • Relationship Status
    m.male
  • Location
    Sterling, Illinois
  • Interests
    fishing, canoeing,woodworking,home remodeling
  • Occupation
    retired
  • Swinging Experience
    since 2000 but limited, more recently with one significant female

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  1. Please pass along our condolences to Kitten and Tech. In answer to your question about how to let hospitals know to allow them in to see you if something happens to you both, our hospitals have a kind of pre-registration information sheet that has contact information etc on it that stays on file with the hospital in case of an emergency where you can't speak for yourself. You could put Tech and Kitten's names on this list as contacts. That would cover you at your local hospital. You might check with the hospital when you set this up to see if there is some way to have this same information available to other hospitals if something happened away from home. RPU3 might have some more information about this too since she works in the legal field.
  2. From your news article I guess I must have gone over to the dark side and become a sick sex pervert. Yup, started shaving almost a year when I got together with my S/O. I remember our first time together, she couldn't wait to show me her "secret"; that she was shaved. It's always been an incredible turn on for me with women. So I asked her if she would like me to try it and she said yes. It took a little bit of getting used to, but now I just touch up in the shower every other day or so and it really adds something to our playtime. We both love it. My wife doesn't care one way or the other, she doesn't like it if she happens to get a day when I have little stubbles but I try to keep them to a minimum.
  3. I guess that since the brain is the body's biggest sex organ and the more it can be stimulated, the better the end result. That being said, yes, I've had enjoyable sex without an emotional commitment of any kind, but sex with whom I have some emotional connection to has always been better. The most powerful sexual experiences have been with my wife of almost 20 years and I'm sure it's mostly because of our deep emotional commitment to each other. Our limited swinging experiences have been with close friends and again, I would have to say that those playdates created some powerful energy. That is not to say that the thought of going to an on-premesis club and watching a dozen other couples playing in wild passion while we watch or play among them wouldn't be hot. It just wouldn't generate the same level of intensity as being with someone I have more of a connection with.
  4. jlj119

    Shit Happens

    P.S. Isn't it amazing the something as simple as a little plastic keyboard can link you to someone a world away from you. I'm fairly certain that it is probably much warmer in Florida where you are than it is here in the frozen tundra of MN at -10 and falling, but talking to you warms my heart and takes the chill right off:wavey: Jerry
  5. jlj119

    Shit Happens

    You didn't mention it, but you also have to remember that not only do you have your immediate family and friends to fall back on, but you also have all your friends here on the board that you can count on too. There are always going to be people here that think the world of you and will help you through whatever life dishes out. I know that I, for one, asked you for some advice recently and your fast reply and caring response meant a lot to me. So remember that we are always here when you need us. This is one huge family that you can look to when life craps on you.
  6. I loved hearing how you described the whole intimate evening. I felt like I could have been that man that touched you while in the locker room; I could feel the excitement you felt during the whole adventure. Can't wait for the next chapters to unfold.
  7. WOW !!! If that wasn't one of the hottest and most erotic stories I've ever read; and I've read a lot of them. You, my lady, are a fantastic writer. You painted a picture that I could "see" in my mind. More, please. More.
  8. Who could not want to make sure that you were the focus of your lovemaking. MOST of what gets me off is knowing that I get to bring the MRS or my significant other to climax. I love to watch a woman cum and know that I was responsible. I just thought that was the way it was done. My parents must have taught me well to respect my women and what better way to respect them than to make sure that they cum first. That's just mutual respect in my book.
  9. Amen to that, TNT. Well said. If only we could get to that point. People sometimes get so set in what they've been indoctrinated with since birth, that they don't even question why they believe what they do; or if it's right, wrong, or just doesn't matter one way or another.
  10. Very good explanation and quite the hilarious analogy. I like the way you think. :lol:
  11. I'm really happy to hear your reply Cupid. I rrrrrrrreally like to go down on a woman and to find that there won't be any impediments to feeling and tasting her makes me happy:facelick: There is nothing like feeling a woman coming on my tongue and the more times the better.
  12. I see that the majority of the posters insist on the use of condoms when they play, which is only prudent given the scary things out there. What I haven't seen addressed is whether the use of condoms is commonplace while giving oral sex on both the male or female side. I've read about something called a dental dam (I believe that's what it was called) to provide some measure of protection while going down on a woman (my favorite pastime :facelick:). But in general, are condoms reserved for only penetration. What is the accepted etiquette as far as a male coming during oral sex? Inquiring minds want to know. Thanks, gang.
  13. The one sight that I can always remember is after watching her cum on the end of her lover's tongue, I watched him slide up and start rubbing his cock over the outside of her pussy. She reached down and ran the head between the lips to lubricate him and then brought both hands up to either side of his face and pulled him close and whispered, "put it in". She then continued holding his face in her hands as he entered her. I watched her melt and I'm pretty sure he enjoyed it too
  14. If I were you guys I would be terribly flattered. Obviously a lot of someones think that you are well worth knowing. I know if I lived closer to you, I'd want to know you better.
  15. I think that is the very reason that I trust you to do some of the "legwork" for us newbies. This site makes me feel like I have a whole new bunch of people that care about us and pass along good information and advice. I've looked at some of the other sites too and they scare you. This one feels like home. Thanks Julie:)
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