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    Ohio
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    1 yr

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  1. Dito We have had this happen and opted not to play with them. We have also observed folks at the club that drink way too much for my taste. Makes you wonder why they swing. I always think they have a guilt problem with swinging. Not always true I'm sure, but it's the first thing I think.
  2. Dito We also like friends who are friends friends too and are working towards a group of friends. Never thought we'd be hosting swinger events but we have been tossing around the idea of introducing a few couples to one another at a low key get together. -D
  3. Ves you and I think alike. When you guys coming up to our club? -D
  4. We have found pretty much the same thing. No male pics and we typically wouldn't contact them. If we are contacted, we always start off asking for pics of the male. Nine times out of ten we are sorry we asked. It does seem like an epidemic of fugly dudes out there with nice looking ladies. We had a single guy one time refuse to send pics but beg to buy us dinner. Said he was fit, 32 yrs old, etc. We told him if he was lying or couldn't pass the looks test he was going to pay for dinner and part ways. We went to dinner and this guy was 45 if he was a day old and far from "fit". We had about a $60 dinner and left him sitting there with the bill. Ever since then we will not meet anyone without pics first. -D
  5. Same here...kissing no problem. Cuddling or hand holding NO WAY. -D
  6. Keep looking it takes a while. Many times once you agree on looks you don't click with them personality wise. Also it depends on what you're looking to do with the couple. We play with couples on different levels such as same room sex, ladies play around a bit and gentlemen with their own partner and very very seldom full swap. For us it is very difficult to find a couple that we would full swap with. Hope this helps! -D
  7. I agree that you two have always sounded like you have a great relationship. It also seems like MrIndy adores you from what I've seen him write. I agree with Van (I just agreed with him in another post! ) that this should almost seem amusing. If these girls only knew! These girls are young and immature and VERY disrespectful. They are not even deserving of the time it takes you to think about them. Not all girls that age are like that, When I was early 20's I was VERY aware that a guy was married. Cheating and stealing are major turn offs, and I am sure MrIndy thinks so too. It doesn't bother me when Vanilla girls flirt with D. (He's pushing 40, very confident, well spoken and "strong", the kind of man young, scared, fatherless little girls are drawn to). I know where his heart belongs. I actually start to talk about how I know they want him and want to "do" him and it starts to turn me on and we have great sex. I wouldn't fret so. Have fun with it and flaunt him in front of them when ever you're around them! -M
  8. This is the Mrs. here I agree with Van. I think you should all meet for a drink. D (male half) always wants to make sure he feels safe about the guy before we do anything with him. I agree, also, that this guy needs to be well aware of your participation and knowledge. D and I never play away from each other because, like you, the whole reason we do it is because he loves to watch me be pleasured. But I know that other couples do allow each other play alone. It is all a matter of preference and what your comfortable with. Many of the things you said that your wife has said sounds JUST like what I said. I was confused about him wanting me to be with another man, also. At first it makes you feel like "doesn't he love me too much to let that happen". Once we talked about it more and I understood what was driving him I was fine with it. Also, I was uncomfortable with the thought of D watching me with another guy but once I got lost in the heat of passion I was fine. Maybe a good way to start that would be for you two to start playing and then let the other guy join in when she gets heated up and then you could step back and watch. I would definately let her read this board because she will find that many men who are truly in love with their wives and are turned on by their own wife more than any other love to watch her with another man. I guess what I'm saying is she will find it is a normal feeling for a guy! Good luck! -M
  9. Dito That pretty much sums up how we use the online ads. We're serious and try to be as upfront and honest as we can be. We try to never be negative and take the good with the bad.
  10. It's really not a big deal to us. I just ask them if they have had any problems or expect any. So far none have lied and none have been offended. Of course I usually tell them I had it happen to me. If we're going to the trouble of meeting, we want that info.
  11. I can't understand that either. I had performance issues the first time we full swapped and when it was over and I had felt like a total loser and apologized to the gal no less than 100 times...I vowed to march into my Dr. (a female) and tell her the whole story and practically demand Viagra. Surrender As it turned out I found out you can it off the net. No problem since. As for the well hung statement, I've never called myself or considered myself well hung, but we've yet to play with a couple who is sporting more than I. I know they exist I've seen pictures. But until then I'm feeling on top the world. As for the 5 statements: We tend towards couples or single males that are lower profile than that but have a good kind of confidence...the kind that has nothing to prove.
  12. I think starting in the heat of the moment is a good place to start. During sex and your naughty talk ask him about HIS fantasies. Encourage him to be totally honest. Tell him you want to know what he wants done to you. That it turns you on to hear these things. It may take time (months) to get him to open up totally and believe that you won't get mad. That, of course, means you can't get mad at anything he says. He may start talking about another woman. A little of everthing is how hubby and I got started. We talked dirty in bed like that, we watched porno and started being TOTALLY honest about what turned us on about it. We read erotic stories. It was a process over a year or more before we approached the idea of actually living out our fantasies. (It made for great hot sex during that year.) Then we did some cyber sex with people to see how our feelings were. We found this to be okay feelings wise (meaning jeously etc) but it wasn't the real deal. Since we have done the real deal we have sometimes found that the fantasy was better than reality (due to the people we were with not due to our fantasy). We have also found that even though we have fun with others, our love and passion for each other has grown and solidified even more. Our trust in each other to be totally honest has also grown. I had thought I was honest in the past but realized the little thoughts I wouldn't speak that now I will share openly. Good luck! Remember taking it slow is good and the path to fulfilling your fantasies can be as much fun as the fantasies themselves. -M
  13. This is the tag line and part of the profile of a single male on SLS (he's good looking too!) Pre-owned luxury model with all the extras Free test drives are now being offered. I come complete with a money back guarantee and an extended service warranty. I am a 39 year old divorced male. I have low mileage and was driven only on Sundays. The standard features: 6'0", 180', blue eyes, brown hair (okay some grey), athletic build. Dealer options: hair on my head (not on my back), all my teeth, college educated, and fully employed. Additional options include conversational ability and a good sense of humor. -M
  14. I agree. My girls aren't real big but I never trump them up (especially swinging) because I want the guy to know exactly what he's getting. I used to think I had terrible tits until we started swinging and I have found that many guys think they are wonderful. I no longer want to get an enhancement. I like them knowing that what I have is all mine!
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