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About montresor

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  • Birthday 09/05/1954

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    single male (w/swing partner)
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    Cleveland Hts., OH
  • Interests
    "serious" photography, xxx photography, swinging!
  • Occupation
    photographer.broadcaster

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    montresor
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    eros connection cleveland, swingers palace pittsburgh

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  1. Thank goodness it's not the other way around! Was a committed "under" person here, but when I moved into my present house, the roll holder was set so low in the wall that "under" was unreachable, so now it's "over." See, swingers aren't just about sex, we're passionately interested in the important issues of the day!
  2. A little late in the thread with this thought, and maybe beside the point just a bit, but I just read the posts. There's always so much to read here! (Julie -- ever do a general word count on the site?) My playpal is a plus-sized butchy woman, big, bountiful and very horny, comfortable with all combinations of gender one-on-one or in groups of varying sizes. She constantly has women hitting on her ranging from butch like her to cute and petite to drop-dead-gorgeous model types. Satisfies those she chooses to be with beyond their expectations too. One could do worse than to put herself in the hands of a skilled, passionate butch gal! Just for the fashion record, she doesn't wear the plaid lumberjack shirts and Timberland work boots, she's more like a goth butch, short curly black hair, black T-shirt, black jeans, black Doc Martens, and a couple of intriguing piercings that are revealed when the clothes come off...
  3. Ms F is a size queen. Sent me an email the other day talking about the subject, describing the three types of cocks she likes: "large, large and large." Ms P is great with as much as 9" -- have watched her get into the zone with one more than once -- but she also likes the smaller ones. Why? "Because I can own them entirely." Meaning -- fellate to the base, etc., with no problem.
  4. Ms P likes it best deep in her pussy, likes to feel a man's semen in there afterward, but also likes to swallow. On her breasts is okay too, especially if she's been using her generous tits to bring him off. Ms F will only let a guy cum inside her pussy if he's got a condom on. She will suck to completion but doesn't swallow, lets it run back down. She also likes cum ALL over her body and is waiting for that time when 3 or 4 guys cum on her simultaneously.
  5. Ay-yi-yi! My head is spinning from all this! It seems like it should be so simple. I wish Mrs pacpl4funn had started her tale with the information that it's: A) Hubby who proposed swinging. B) Hubby who thought up these ridiculous rules. C) Hubby who freaked when he saw her getting into it more than he was comfortable with. With that in mind, it's easy to see why Mrs pacpl, having had to rein in her newly awakened passion for swinging the past three years, went kablooey when she saw Hubby blowing a load in his partner's face, in apparent contradiction of the Rules. Mrs is told, no kissing, no coming inside her pussy, no coming inside her mouth. A guy coming on her belly or breasts is, apparently, okay, but some guy better not come on her face! And by the way, don't look like you're really getting into it, because Hubby's fragile ego will collapse like a house of cards. Sweetie, how do you feel about these things? Would you like to kiss a swing playmate who's making love with you? Taste his cum or feel it pumping inside you? Did you enjoy letting go when Hubby claimed he wanted to see just that? You have said you're willing to abide by the rules but you haven't said if you like abiding by them. Our past experiences will shape us, and if we're not careful, we can find that we're being shaped in ways that may not be right for us. Your story about how you met your husband, and the types of relationships you had before, raises a red flag for me. After so many "cheaters and beaters," you find a good guy you really care for and you don't want to lose him. Sure, why not give swinging a try if it'll make him happy? But now you find you kind of like it! Right about the same time Hubby discovers he doesn't exactly like it as much as he thought he would. You sound like a happy, healthy woman caught in a set of contradictory demands, all emanating from one source. You're being asked to have hot sex but don't like it too much; to get naked and let a naked man be inside you but don't let him come there; be intimate with a man but don't let your lips touch. Et cetera! Everybody wants to control everybody else. It's a kitchen-tested recipe for coming to grief.
  6. Some questions: You said you find yourself thinking about sex with your bf's friend a lot. Is there the possibility that he's better in bed than your bf? I don't think you really get into that in your posts. Also, the roommate seems a rather shadowy character -- what are his thoughts on this arrangement? Does he have unexpressed feelings for you? Also, any clue as to the roommates thoughts on m2m bi activity? Ms P and I went through a period of fantasizing about such a menage a trois, and even had a candidate lined up (!) but he wasn't exactly on the same page, and we realized a couple of things: how difficult it would be to find a guy who met all of our criteria (including being bi, hung huge, cute, good in bed, smart, talented, accomplished, professional in an alternative way, all of which our friend was) and just happened to be interested in a live-in threeway with a hot bi couple. We also realized how difficult it would be to maintain such an arrangement, as your experience shows. Clearly, this is not something to try at home, kids, unless you're really, really advanced in communication and shared outlook.
  7. Just a little off point... Bodyscape02, please explain "peclimped!" I drink coffee like nobody's business, but I don't know that one.
  8. Yep, been there on this end too. Ms P and I have had periods of separate sex with trusted fuck pals and no problems -- "Sex Freedom Nights," we call them. But there have been a couple of occasions -- and we've both been guilty -- when we each jumped at an opportunity and gave little thought to the issue of letting the other know; guess we figured we'd straighten it out later. Some rather serious conversations resulted, and now we stay in touch if playing separately, even if it's like the other night when P called while I was working late to say she was out with co-workers and she might have sex with one of them she's done on previous occasions. Even then, we both felt a little funny because of the last-minute nature of it, and I think were both relieved when she ended up not having sex and coming home early. It seems to work better if we plan ahead and both have "something to do" that evening! But the situation described above is certainly different from this. It's a challenge on her part, and, I think, one that's designed to disrupt the marriage.
  9. Ditto on the freshly filled pussy here. Ms P loves to either bring me a cum-filled delight after she's been out with a guy or have me over to enjoy her in her bed -- she'll often be naked still and her recently departed lover's seed will be fresh in her snatch. It turns us both on so much we'll go at it for an hour or more. P says her pussy is so much more alive after she's been fucked by another man, and his load inside is such an enhancement for me as well as for her.
  10. Love this thread. Ms P has had our hugely-hung friend (9" x 6") quite a few times, and I've always loved watching. We've known him for a long time so he gets to go bareback in her. Whenever I ask her how she likes doing him, she sort of shrugs and says, "It's okay, size isn't that important to me." And indeed, she's happily taken some small guys, but on the other hand, I've seen how completely out of control she gets on our friend's big one. She really gets into a "zone" when he's doing her -- frenzied out-of-control sucking and fucking in just about every position. She claims to have little recall of the expereience, and when I've told her about how hot I found it when she did this or that to him, she seems kind of surprised to hear what she was doing, and says something along the lines of, "Boy, you remember way more than I do!" Well, heck, I was sitting there watching -- and trying not to spontaneously ejaculate! There's nothing better than seeing your beloved out of control with another man. As to why that turns many of us guys on, well, that's one of the great mysteries of the universe, grasshopper. My suspicion is that feelings all draw energy from a neutral source and are transformable and transformative: jealousy can be transmuted into lust, love and desire, if you just have the presence of mind to look at it from a different angle. So are swingers really sexual Zen masters/mistresses?
  11. Was already experienced at bi play before getting into swinging. Ms P is fine with m2m oral as long as she's part of the action, as in her getting fucked while the guy in her blows the other man right over her face, says it seems a natural part of mfm, but it's not a necessary part of swinging for her. She likes to be with men who are open-minded enough to not shy away from m2m contact, but also likes being the object of all that male lust. Ms F is a hardcore enthusiast of watching two men play with each other. She will watch and masturbate during such a show before joining in full steam ahead. She especially likes to sit on a cock, lean back and have another guy lick them both.
  12. Ms P and I used to advertise on a swinger site where "liarandfake" were running a profile, and as I recall, their original name was something different; they changed midstream. I assume the name was a bit of editorializing on experiences they've had trying to connect with people. Hot, hot pictures on their profile, however, and they seemed pretty sincere and honest. I think we may have exchanged a few e-mails but didn't hook up.
  13. I don't think it's specifically "code," but it's a bit of salient information. What everyone decides to do with that data is up to them. If your primary concern is safety from STDs, then it's one bit of info that lets you know there is at least one risk that is removed; not that pregancy is a disease, but it can be an unwelcome sexually transmitted condition... and yes, condom failure does happen. If the primary concern is birth control, however, then everyone can weigh the other considerations surrounding the possibility of going bareback. A guy posting that doesn't necessarily mean "I intend to go bareback with you so be forewarned." It's more like, "If you prefer bareback, I won't get you pregnant." That said, I'm not sure about the usefulness of such a state (V-safe) in a swinging situation. Case in point: Ms F uses no birth control other than a condom or, if she knows the guy well enough and trusts his control, withdrawal. She will let a V-safe guy cum inside her, though; but if she and I were with such a fellow, I still would either have to use a condom to cum inside or else pull out at the moment of climax, because I'm not V-safe! It creates a somewhat lopsided situation between the men.
  14. Ms P and I did it late one night in somebody else's front yard!
  15. Oh yes. I remember the first creampie Ms P brought me, I was home by myself one evening and she was out posing naked for a photog friend, who then stripped, mounted her bareback and pumped her hairy, wet pussy full of cum. Imagine my surprise when she appeared at my apartment late that night and said, "I have something for you!" It had been a fantasy of mine, and now here it was, quite unexpected but that much hotter for it. I must have presented a rather comic image, not being able to decide whether to lick her or plunge my shaft in her sloppy slit! After alternating back and forth for a while, I decided to plunge my cock in and stay there till I added my own semen. The feeling of her pussy doubly slicked with her flooding wetness and his copious load was just too exquisite for words. We made it a regular part of our playtime with our various sex pals. Ms P keeps herself quite hirsute down there, because lots of semen-drenched pubic hair just adds to the pleasure.
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