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Maxhnb
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15 GoodAbout Maxhnb
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- Birthday 04/17/1951
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Relationship Status
Single
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Location
Blountstown, Fl
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Interests
computers, sports,movies,gardening
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Occupation
self employed
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Swinging Experience
4 yrs
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SLS Name
Maxhnb
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Maxhnb
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Maxhnb started following Male swingers and bisexuality?, Husband becomes reluctant, Need help on response to wife and and 4 others
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For men who haven't tried it, mm sex is intrusive, but I think you get comfortable fast. When I was young I went to video arcades and men came on to me and sucked me. Occasionally more than one at a time. I was very responsive and wanted to reciprocate but it is awkward to take another man's cock in your hand or mouth. After I tried it, it became more comfortable. As a masseur I was often propositioned and it was a turn-on. Now that I am older, the opportunities fewer and I miss them. I prefer women and always have but the pure sensuality of being touched and touching is a very arousing thought.
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The anonymity of the web is great for voyeurs. Usually if something happens for me , and its rare , it is spontaneous. The longer people have to think about it the more the doubts popup at least for me. I wonder if I will be embarassed. Sometimes the men in the couple want to keep a single man at bay, are afraid of being cuckolded. Sometimes the couple is just a man masquerading as a couple , and he is seeking a guy to do him. I ran into that tonight on SLS. I'm bi but not into being bullied. It is hard for a single guy and a couple...its awkward. Most couples back out. Straight guys are afraid of discovering their own bi-sexual or feminine side. SLS is window shopping for thrills. People make demands without meeting...it is often very insensitive, not real human contact.
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Try this. I think it would help. Talk to her, ask her how she feels about you two. Not the swinging. Tell her how you feel, not how you think. Let her know you are in pain, worrying about her. That what she thinks means a lot to you. As you open up, it will open the door for her, then Just listen. Let her tell you about herself...as much s she can...prod her with questions that will make her comfortable with out judgement from you. Communication is about listening and trust. If she shuts down , it is likely she is afraid you will use what she says against her later. That is ussually the case....it is why we shut down. At this point your own intimacy is more important than the sex...if there is more than that it will grow out of the intimacy that develops from you listening.... That will be your victory.
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Jane, As an older man who has had some erectile dysfunction, I learned to use a lot more foreplay...and it makes me last longer. When she wanted to try another man I had no problem with it and got pretty turned on watching it. It is a cuckolding experience, but I didn't find it damaging though I had some trepidation about it. I got a lot of pleasure seeing her get pleased. She is my lifetime partner and its all about making her feel fulfilled. It was something we did together...she got really lost in it and let go like I never have seen before. If you want to enlist him, see if he can see it this way...that he can enjoy your pleasure with you.
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Rohypnol at a party - Somone put it in our drinks!
Maxhnb replied to fun4Ds's topic in Adventures in Swinging
Two women friends of mine (not swingers) one a flight attendant in Miami, another a friend in Los Angeles had Rohypnol dropped in their drinks. Luckily they only ad little sips and were immediately aware of a creeping drowsiness and lack of control of their extremities. they were at public locales with people they knew and the perp accompanied each to their home because they were out of it. Luckily they were conscious enough to hold on and call the police. This seems like an ongoing epidemic in our society....and hosts are the first to say it want their fault and knew nothing. Its an at risk society to even socialize, with anyone for any reason. Get only bottled drinks and keep them in hand.- 79 replies
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I am bi and whenI was married my wfie told me that a big fantasy of hers wwas to watch two men go at it...but when I suggested to her that I would love to be part of the show, she said no. Now as a single when I look for MFM, her partner wants to control everything usually. Wants to assure that he gets all the attention and controls the action. Naturally it isnt very natural that way. Is that the way it iusually is in a bi sexual threesomes ?
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Approaching vanilla male for threesome. Best way?
Maxhnb replied to mwp's topic in Finding People to Swing With
My first few times trying to meet a couple, the husband was very controlling even to the point where he wanted to orchestrate the act so much that I have cancelled more times than accepted. currently I have a young lady in my life who wants to be introduced to a mfm experience. I am thus looking for a man to join us and help me get her in a frenzy. I am in way jealous but am a voyeur and would love to see her get the thrill of her young life. any takers ? in N Florida