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About NakedInSeattle

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    Loving life (style)
  • Birthday 12/26/1944

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Seattle, WA
  • Interests
    Bisexual men (can I say that?) and women
  • Occupation
    Retired
  • Swinging Experience
    9 years

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  • Favorite Club(s)
    None in Seattle anymore! Caliente in Tampa.

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  1. It has always been our (wife's and mine) contention that a good kisser is usually a good lover and a bad kisser is not. So, the kiss is important to knowing what lies ahead with a new person. I like a kiss that starts off soft with variations in position (just the upper lip in my mouth and then just the lower). I like a mouth that opens and closes and accepts my tongue as I accept yours. Don't be afraid to breath in my mouth as I do to you to show each other our building excitement. The pressure needs to increase and the depth of tongue as well. An occasional short break to kiss your neck and then back to your mouth. Talk to me as we kiss. Moan in my mouth. Then when the kissing finally stops it's with a rush of air into our lungs. Isn't that a description of good love making as well as good kissing? I think so!
  2. I'll say this from experience...the man or couple who own a Sybian will never lack for party invitations! Also from experience, the reviews are mixed. Some gals LOVED it and some said it was "different" but prefer a human or their hand-held device. No one I've ever seen totally hated it.
  3. Speaking for us, we lost a good friend after swinging with him due to him getting a terrible case of "the guilties". He felt so guilty for committing the "sin of adultery" that he couldn't face us afterwards. We wish we had kept him as just a friend.
  4. Your profile doesn't show your age but, whether "mature" or not, I'd have the male half join SilverDaddies.com. Tons and tons of bi guys there and serious about it! If you put into your profile that you and your lady are interested in a third, you'll be deluged with interest. For quicker response, go into one of the chat/cam chat rooms and state the same!
  5. I'm much like Lionheart72. When we were into "traditional" swinging (couple swap or couple's party), I found myself distracted by the other woman/women from my main interest, that of seeing and hearing my wife having fun. I truly get off on the sight and sound of her in the throes of ecstasy! So now on the rare occasion when we play, it's with another guy. There is one couple we have enjoyed, however, but it's because they are both bisexual and that adds a whole different dimension to an evening, doesn't it?
  6. At the risk of sounding negative, I must say that I'd question WHY the hosts don't play before deciding whether to go or not. Do they not swing at all or just not at the party(s) they are hosting? If it is the latter, then no problem from me or Mrs. Naked. If they don't swing at all, I'd maybe wonder if they are voyeurs or one of that large number folks who want to hang around on the fringe of swinging but never dip their toe (or other part) into the action.
  7. SwingSet, if you know for sure he's bi, you've already talked a lot more than most. It should be an easy progression to asking if he wants to play and if he's bi, he'll welcome the wife joining in! If you don't ask, you'll never know.
  8. I'm bi and my wife knows and enjoys it. I started for the simple reason that it felt good and turned her on. But I want to talk about an aspect of 'bi men over 45' not mentioned here. I talk with a lot of bi mature men who are bi mainly because the wife has lost interest in sex. No need to enumerate the various reasons for this but it's generally accepted that more mature ladies lose interest in sex than mature men. Given that, the poor, sexually frustrated man is faced with choices and if the wife is prudish (as is often the case), the only choice that doesn't have negative repercussions is abstinence. Of the others, male-to-male sex is the choice with the least feeling of guilt. "It's not really cheating because it isn't with a woman." And guess what! He enjoys the intimate contact with another human and it feels good! Technically, it is cheating and if the wife finds out, she'll kick his sorry ass to the curb and life as he knows it will be over including family disgrace. But he does it because it is better than dealing with life without sex. This is kinda off topic since this is a site for and about swingers but I thought my $0.02 might be of interest because 'swinging' with men in an MFM is part of our experience and this category of men is included often.
  9. It thought that my worst fears were realized one night at a swing club when a man who was the spitting image of my son came strolling in and then went back to the entrance. I told my wife, "I'd better go find out and get it out in the open if it is my son." Man did he and I have a good laugh when I tapped him on the shoulder and found that he was a total stranger. The resemblance was uncanny, however! So, in answer to the question...none of the above...LOL.
  10. I'll jump in here with my $0.02 worth. I love porno (all genre). Even more, I love watching people (all genders) having sex live. Even more than that, I love watching the woman of my life - my soul mate - in the throes of sex. To see and hear her (she's a screamer) in passion is the greatest thing I can imagine. Why wouldn't I want to see the person that means so much to me enjoy all the fantastic physical pleasure that she can. Jealousy? I could write a lot on what that is and what that does but suffice to say it has no place in this conversation because I know she loves me and will never leave me for any other man or a woman. Good luck to you in your journey of pleasure.
  11. A friend told me - "Being bi means that you can put your hand down someone's pants and be happy with whatever you find there."
  12. I should have added. I'm so happy that this topic is now being discussed. A few years ago when I receded from this board, this topic was taboo. Welcome all you bi and bi-curious guys.
  13. This was exactly how I (the male) got started. She was turned on and damn, I was too. Never looked back.
  14. I'm the male of this couple and this quote could have been written by me!
  15. If you aren't interested in them, why does it matter? Just enjoy the playful fun. Personaly, I'd kid them about their playfulness but no swinging - something like "yeah, you talk a good game" - or "you say you do but you don't"
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