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Brian and Jo

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Brian and Jo last won the day on July 31 2012

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About Brian and Jo

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    Brian and Jo
  • Birthday 02/01/1942

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Ontario
  • Interests
    Golf, classical music, reading, politics, international affairs, good food and wine, nudism and last but not least sex.
  • Occupation
    Retired professionals
  • Swinging Experience
    Over 30 years
  • Anniversary
    October 5t

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  1. Our advice would be to meet the new couple with your friends in a neutral environment like a bar or a restaurant. If you click with the new couples as well as your older friends you can take things to the next level either later that evening or by making a date for another day. As for who goes with who, just go with the flow and the pairings will take care of themselves.
  2. We are pleased that your first full swap went so well. Our first full swap with another couple was also in separate rooms and it too went well. They were first timers too and we agreed that going to different bedrooms to play would help us get over the nervousness we all felt. Afterwards we were all very comfortable with what we had done and agreed to do it again very soon. However the next time we met them we all played together in the same room. This was even better because not only were we able to enjoy exchanging partners for oral sex and intercourse but we were able to have the added pleasure and excitement of watching and listening to each other playing with another man or woman. Good luck with your swinging - it is truly an exciting and liberating lifestyle and if you are anything like us you will wonder why you did not try it earlier in your lives.
  3. We have done it too using the position described by JandKinBoise. We have also done it with Jo lying on her front and being fucked doggy style. Brian has been both the guy in the middle and the guy bringing up the rear (pun intended!). It is a wonderful experience for all three parties although getting into the proper rhythm for the the guys to thrust in harmony together can be a bit tricky. If you haven't tried it you should.
  4. Thank you all for your comments and advice which we both appreciate. After a good deal of thought we have concluded that, as much as we would like to, the risks of playing with my sister and her boyfriend outweigh the benefits.
  5. I (Jo) was in the hot tub with my sister recently. We were both completely naked. I asked my sister who is divorced how she was getting on with her new boyfriend. She said she was having a great time with him and that she had done something with him she never ever imagined doing. He had suggested they go to an adult club and she agreed not realizing what that meant although she had her suspicions. They had a couple of drinks and chatted with a very nice couple who asked them if they would like to go into the private area with them. My sister was a bit taken aback when she saw several naked couples engaged in various forms of sexual activity. She said she was turned on by what she saw and when their new friends asked if they would like to find a private room she agreed. They all got undressed and had sex with their own partners. After a break they had sex again but this time they exchanged partners. I asked her if she had intercourse with her new partner and she said yes she did. She went on to say they had met their new friends several times after the evening at the club and that they had introduced her and her boyfriend to two other couples with whom they had had same room full swap sex. She told me that she found it all very enjoyable and liberating. Then she asked me if Brian and I had ever done anything like that. I decided to tell her that we had been in the swinging lifestyle for 30 years. Of course she wanted to know all about our experiences. She went on to tell me that she had always found Brian to be very sexually attractive and that her boyfriend was attracted to me. When I told her the attraction was mutual she asked if we would be interested in getting together with them for a foursome. I told her I would mention it to Brian and get back to her. So I was wondering if there are others here who have family members in the lifestyle. If so, how did you find out about it? Have you played with them or not? If yes was it soft swing or full swap? What are the pros and cons of swinging with family members? Any other comments would be welcome. Thank you.
  6. We had been married for over ten years. Our sex life had become routine, infrequent, boring and unsatisfying. We both had a couple of affairs which we enjoyed. When we found out we agreed to seek the sexual variety we both wanted together rather than solo. We placed an ad in the personal column of the local paper and arranged to meet one of the couples who responded. We clicked with them and ended up full swap in separate rooms. That was over 30 years ago and we have never regretted our decision to start swinging for a moment. Swinging is fun and a main reason why we still have an active and enjoyable sex life at our advanced age.
  7. For both of us kissing our swinging partners is just a natural part of the foreplay leading to oral sex and intercourse.
  8. Our first experience was planned. We had both had a couple of affairs and decided to seek the sexual variety we both wanted together rather than singly. We placed an ad in the personal column of the local paper - there was no internet back then - "Professional couple in their 30s seeking similar couples for close friendship." We received several replies and chose one couple to contact. We called them and arranged to meet for drinks. We were both very nervous and so were they as they were first-timers too. After some initial general talk the conversation turned to sex - what we were looking for, what we liked etc. We were attracted to them and them to us so after a little flirting we invited them to come home with us. When we got home we had another drink while we sat by our pool. The flirting got more intense as we all began to get turned on. Someone had to make a move so Brian stood up, stripped off and jumped into the pool in his birthday suit. Jo, Bob and Doreen were not far behind. In the pool Brian gravitated to Doreen and Jo to Bob. Jo and Bob were the first to get out of the water, dry themselves off and go into the house.They were both stark naked. Brian asked Doreen if she would like to go indoors and she said she would. Jo and Bob had taken the main bedroom so Brian and Doreen went into the spare room. For the next hour or so we all played culminating in intercourse with our new friends. After Bob and Doreen left Jo and Brian agreed that the evening had been a great success and that we wanted to do it again. We were hooked!
  9. We are both exhibitionists and voyeurs. At our nudist resort we like to see naked men and women walking around and we like to do that ourselves so others can see what we have on offer! At parties with our swinging friends we love to watch and be watched. Watching each other playing with another partner is a real turn on. We also like others to watch us when we are playing with each other. For us this is a very erotic and exciting part of the swinging experience.
  10. We play mostly with a regular group of six couples. We take turns hosting a house party for the whole group once a month and play in smaller combinations at other times. At the house parties we have had a variation of a key party. At the end of the party when we have had a couple of rounds of playing the men throw their keys on the table and the gals pick a key each. The gals then go home with their guy and spend the night with him. Of course the gals do not pick their husbands key!
  11. We swing three or four times a month. It is Jo's decision as to where her partners cum but she prefers them to cum inside her because that is the natural way for a couple to finish sexual intercourse. We will go bareback with partners we trust which includes the couples we swing with on a regular basis. Jo will allow all her partners to cum inside her using condoms with new playmates.
  12. We are both in our mid 60s and are still very active swingers. Most of our regular playmates are in their 50s and 60s but we do play with younger partners too. You are as old as you feel. Go for it!
  13. We do separate rooms occasionally but we much prefer same room. As others have said swinging is all about a husband and wife sharing a sexual experience with another couple or couples. We like same room because we can enjoy the eroticism and excitement of watching and listening to each other pleasing and being pleased by another partner. Exchanging partners and having a sexual encounter side by side with another partner is something we continue to enjoy very much.
  14. We agree with those who said absolutely not. The risk of getting caught and having some awkward explaining to do is far too high.
  15. I rarely wear high heeled shoes. In fact the only time I do is when I wear my black heels to go to swinger parties. I think they round off a nice sexy outfit like my black cocktail dress, matching black bra and panties and thigh highs. I find it a bit uncomfortable to walk around in my high heels but, of course, like everything else they don't stay on for very long!
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