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mandlori

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About mandlori

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  • Birthday 12/19/1950

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Minnesota
  • Interests
    Travel, photography
  • Occupation
    unemployed
  • Swinging Experience
    10 years

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  1. When we were first married I wouldn’t think of it. The thought of her having another cock in her was not the problem – she had been briefly married before we met. However she never before had an orgasm and it was really difficult for her to cum. We often read stories as a part of foreplay, and the ones where a guy got to see his wife doing it with someone else was a huge turn on for both of us. I don’t know if it was the thought that of somebody else finding her desirable, a voyeuristic tendency, or what that turned me on so much. I kept telling her that maybe with someone new and different orgasms would come easier, and more frequently. Finally it happened, and she probably came more times in that first long weekend than she had in the previous 10 years. And when we are in a MFM she can cum as many or more times with me playing with her than she does with the other guy.
  2. we are about the same age happy birthday

  3. I have asked myself the same question. Couples are fun, no doubt about it, but I find myself getting off more by my wife doing it with another guy. At first we had a lot of mfm's, but now it seems like the more out of the ordinary the hotter it is for me, like her doing it with a guy while I am away on a business trip and then have her tell me about it in detail, and email me pics if she has taken any. She has only done it once where she called me while the guy was in her and that was super hot.
  4. Can't predict your emotions, but I can tell you about mine. I too fantasized about my wife doing it with another guy. She is very sexual, but with just the 2 of us could have an orgasm only about once a month by oral or anal, or fingering herself. I thought that with new and different the excitement would be something that would change that. The idea really turned her on, and we had some hot times talking about it during foreplay, but it took a long time to turn fantasy into reality. When the fantasy first became a reality, it was a huge turn on for me to watch them kissing and fondling each other. When their clothes came off and he started licking her pussy, I started kissing her and sucking her nipples. Just like I fantasized the orgasms started and kept on with just a few minutes between each. It was not just the technique because when we changed places and I took over licking her pussy while he kissed her and sucked on her nipples, she kept on cumming. It was as hot as I had ever imagined, but when it came time for his cock to slide into her pussy, there were some pangs of jealousy although I kept them to myself. I had told her before that if I had any problem with her doing it they would be my problem alone because it was my idea. Over tiime any jealous feelings completely disappeared. In fact one of her friends (sexual friend only) would stop by our place when he returned from a business trip (our house was between the airport and his home an hour away) and they would do it with me sitting at my computer working but really enjoying the look of pleasure on her face and hearing her cum multiple times.
  5. Cat - Great that you finally got to do it and had a great time. Only thing we would say is that although you had a great time the first time, don't rush to fast into the second thinking they will always be so great. My wife had a fantastic time with our first experience, a mfm, and so right away scheduled a mfm with another guy for the next weekend. Let's just say that if the second one was the first, there would have never been a second. But having had such a great experience the first time, we were more selective and went for the next. It was totally wild and she had her first DP. The only thing she thinks was better was when a couple who invited us over for dinner and hot tub had a male friend drop in so she had 3 guys (including me). Can't wait to hear more about your experience.
  6. I am 7 1/2". My wife was doing a guy who was between 8 and 9 doggie style and she told me later that he hurt her at the end of each stroke when he bottomed out. I asked her why she didn't ask him to back off if it hurt - she said it was such a good hurt. So that is my reasoning for voting 8" as the minimum of well hung - the amount that bottoms out my wife's vagina.
  7. We are both now 64, married 41 years. Our first swinging experience was 12 years ago. She had just turned 52, didn't think that a new and different cock would do anything more for her, but she finally decided to try and it was awesome. Have slowed down since we passed 60 but have some great memories to relive.
  8. We started out playing with single males only. The object was Lori's pleasure and new and different resulted in her first multiple orgasms. It was a real turn on to me to take over sucking on her pussy and having her cum, and cum, and cum while the other guy was kissing her and tweaking her nipples, stuff like that. Eventually we added couples but even then it was probably 4 mfm's to every couple. We both prefer it that way.
  9. When we started swinging, my thought was that I only wanted my wife to do it and I had no interest in doing it myself. She resisted for awhile thinking it was just my way to get into another lady's pants - once she did it I would be saying that she had her turn, now I can have mine. She finally decided to do it, had a great time, and my watching her exceeded my fantasies. Of course I joined in to - nothing like getting a BJ while she is getting it doggie style. After a couple years she decided that I should be playing more and we should bring couples into our lifestyle. First, let me say that it is much harder to find a couple where both pairs find an attraction than to find a single male. We have talked with each other about this and discovered each of us has taken one for the team (maybe multiple times) in order for the other to have a good time. But the bottom line is that unless my wife has had a good time, I haven't had a good time, and for the last 3 swinging years she has done it at least 5 times for every one time I have done it, and I prefer it that way.
  10. I am not sure I know for sure why, but I am really turned on by seeing my wife with another guy. Maybe it is an ego thing for me - that other guys find her attractive and a great person to play with. Maybe it is because she could only cum about once a month before we started swinging, but my prediction that she would cum a lot with "new and different" proved to be an understatement. It is so hot to hear her cumming, and cumming, and cumming. I remember one time having a couple over to our house. The other lady and I weren't really that interested in having sex, but we were both okay with her husband and my wife doing it. We were sitting in the next room talking and every few minutes there would be moaning from our bedroom. The lady asked what was going on. I told her it was my wife cumming. She said she had to see this. I don't know what was better - watching my wife having one good cum after another or watching the look on the other lady's face. Next time we all met that lady and I did it but I still think it was more enjoyable watching my wife and the other guy doing it, and my wife having those multiple orgasms.
  11. At first it was only swinging when we were together, but times change and I guess I became more comfortable with seeing my wife with another guy. A few years ago when I was on a 2 week business trip, with Valentine's Day being in the middle, I got really turned on my the thought of her having sex with someone while I was gone. Every day when I would call I would talk to her I would tell her about it, and how much I wanted to do it. She always responded that she would think about it. The day after Valentine's when I called her I asked if she got laid last night. My jaw dropped when she said she did. A guy with whom we had met before to see if we were interested in having a mfm 3some happened to call that evening and asked if she would meet him for a drink. Knowing how I had been after her, she decided to do that and see where it would lead. She told me later it first led to her agreeing to giving him a blow job in the car, but that got them heated up so they got in the back seat for some sex. After his first cum (she said she came several times), they decided it would be nice to find a more comfortable place for sex so they drove to our place and spent a few more hours playing. Hearing her tell me about it was about the hottest I have ever been. Since then she has had sex with one of our playmates whenever I have been gone on extended business trips. I enjoy getting the play by play report afterward. The only problem I have is I can't get her to call when they are doing it - some kind of a hangup she has about that. She has only done that once, when a friend of hers was over and I was supposed to be home from work. She called to tell me that he was there, she was on top, and if I didn't hurry home I was going to miss all the fun. Needless to say I was home as quickly as I could make it.
  12. My desire was to see her with another guy, preferrably someone we didn't know. Her feeling was that it was my way to be able to say, "Now you have had someone else, it is my turn to play." Through a lot of talking I convinced her that was not the case, I helped her select someone through ads on a swinger site. After about a half dozen times she said that this was a lot of fun, and I should not be missing out, so we started adding couples.
  13. My husband and I had never swung apart. He was in Europe on business and kept calling me asking me to find a guy to do it with and tell him about it. A guy I had chatted with before called me and asked to meet for a drink. Knowing my husband wanted me to do it I agreed. We met in a local bar. After a drink I said I would give him a blow job in my car. That just got us both turned on so we hopped in the back seat and fucked. It was really hot to do it in the parking lot like that, but I wanted more so he got his car and followed me home. We spent the night having some wild sex. He fucked like the Energizer Bunny - kept going and going and going. The next day when my husband called he asked me if I got laid last night, and said he about dropped when I answered yes.
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