sam15a

Not so funny, I experienced the same condition when my wife and I placed ourselves in the same situation. After 4 weeks of ed following the night at the club, I went to the doctor who, after getting the results of some blood tests, sent me to a sex psychologist. I can't say that the couple of sessions with the shrink did any harm, but if they did any good, the results were not visible either. Fortunately, after about 6 months or so, ed gradually started resolving itself and after a year, it had essentially resolved on its own. For what it's worth, the shrink felt that the intense stimulation caused by the visit to club resulted in some form of PTSD. So, by perhaps giving it some time, your condition will like improve as well. Good luck!

"There is a reason that 99.9999999999% of the earths population are nonswingers and strong core beliefs that monogamy is the only appropriate form of sexual expression is one of the main reasons for that." A lot of people practice serial monogamy and many more engage in cheating. Swinging - enjoying other sex partners without the marriage bond or the cheating - is clearly getting more popular all the time. That's why I'm doubting the statistics you are quoting. "The times, they are achanging"! This is specially true with the newer generations and due, at least in part, to the (welcome) gradual loss of religious influence in the Western world.