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  1. hello Chloe, Just thought I would put my two cents in about your concerns. I was in your shoes about 2yrs ago. My husband and I had been married 11yrs when he brought up the idea of swinging. At first I was extemely upset by the idea. I truly thought he wanted my permission to cheat on me. However, he told me it was to spice up our sex life, which had become a little predictable and routine. But more importantly he wanted us to take our marriage to another level of intimacy. I told him I would have to think about it because the idea of him with another woman didn't sit well with me. He showed me the sls site, along with other swinger sites he found and told me take my time. I looked up many articles on swinging and marriage---and read many good things as well as bad. But to make a long story short, the more I read the more I understood what swinging was about and over time i said we could see what it's like. We had a condition that if one of us was uncomfortable or didn't want to swing, we would stop. 2 years later, our marriage is just as great as it was when we started if not better. So only agree to swing if you are 100% sure. If you have any doubt, then you must not go ahead with it. If you should decide not to, then ask your husband why-if he gets mad at your decision. Swinging is not for everyone. My husband got mad the first time I said no to swinging, and til this day I still couldn't understand why when he brought it up to me out of the blue--how was I suppose to react---Men--go figure. We have fun now, and I am glad my husband gave me the time I needed to decide for myself. It was one of the best decisions I made. Good Luck in choice and just remember, BE 100% SURE.
  2. Sam, Communication with your wife is the key. As others have told you, calmly talk with your wife about your feelings and tell your wife you appreciate the fact she tells the other guy nothing goes on without you. When you both agreed to swing, you made the decision together and that is how it should be or else it is no longer swinger. Is it possible that you and your wife could chat with the other guy only when you both are there? That might take away possible temptations or cut off any potential dangerous situation before it could start. Hope everyone's two cents has helped in one way or another. Take care and good luck
  3. Hi Wisconsinswing, We always insist condoms be used. My hubby will always wear one when with other women and it is a must that the other man use one as well. We were at a private party once and one of the women didn't care if the men used condoms or not. Needless to say, the men who did her didn't use protection so they were not getting near me because they weren't going to use condoms. My husband and I have that condoms are a MUST as one of our ground rules when playing. We will not risk our health for a night of fun--it's just not worth it.
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